I'm a bad man.

LuvToKiss

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I love to screw with women by kissing them. I love to get them all worked up on a date and then leave them hanging. It makes me feel powerful and wanted. Most women consider kissing to be harmless, and yet my kisses hook them very hard. I love it. It gives me power over them. The more beautiful the woman, the harder I like to hook her.

Kissing is the ultimate seduction tool. Its so harmless, women don't fear it. When I go on a date with a hot woman I start planning how I will kiss her hours before I do. I eye up her neck and her ears and her lips. I plan it all out.

I make my move towards the end of the date. I get close to her. I look deeply in her eyes. I touch her hair. I smile. Then I kiss her softly, mouth slightly open. I do it slowly. I gently caress her hair as I do it. It shocks the hell out of them.

But I don't stop there. I pull back and look into her eyes, judging her expression. I continue to play with her hair. Then I kiss her again, a bit harder, but still that soft, gentle kiss. Usually I get a stronger response from her.

I pull back and kind of bite my lip and smile/wince at her. She looks up at me in total amazement.

We continue kissing. It gets more passionate. We slip in a little tongue. I caress her hair, my fingers move lower, down her neck. I softly caress the back of her neck and behind her ear.

I know its working when they start to sigh or even moan. On the first date that is my signal to stop. She'll get nervous if I take it further than that. I usually get an email or a comment after the first date about what a great kisser I am. I act all surprised, like nobody has ever told me that before.

The second dates are extremely interesting. She wants to be kissed again. She is waiting for it. I make her wait. I find a moment in the date where she isn't suspecting a kiss and I sneak one in. A soft one, mouth slightly open real passionate. Its really good if I can make her sigh, but usually this one catches her off guard more than anything. And then I make her wait again.

Towards the end of the date I make sure we are close and comfortable, either standing or sitting and I make my move again. I caress her hair and I look deeply in her eyes. And then I kiss her.

I start softly again, slightly open, real tender. Magic kisses I call them. Then we move to what I call play kisses, more urgent, more exploring, playful, a little bit of lip biting. I take lots of breaks. I caress her hair, I touch her face, I look deeply into her eyes. I grin, I smile. Lots of hugs. I hold her hand and caress her arm. Usually by this stage she is sighing.

Then I move into the tiger kisses. Open mouth, more tongue, tongue on lips, quick hard kisses, pull away kisses, teasing kisses. The goal here is to make her moan and make her squirm her hips around. I just keep adding more touching and passion and intensity until she succumbs. I never touch her sexually, just her arms, neck hair. Hug, kiss, touch. Over and over.

At some point she can't take it anymore. There is moaning and writhing of hips and maybe even the odd "Oh fuck". That is when I end the date. "I have to get up early for work. I should be going."

After that, she is mine. She craves those kisses and she is hot to get into bed. She wants to know what else I have.

I know exactly how to play a woman like this. I am a very bad man.
 
Women used to control me until I found this. They used to have that "you aren't impressing me enough to go out with you again" attitude. Now I control them. Now I'm saying to them, what are you going to do for ME ?

I love it when they are really, really worked up on the second date. Like breathing hard, running their hands up and down my back, sometimes scratching my legs, squirming like crazy. I act innocent, like I don't even notice. I just keep kissing them, doing my thing. No mercy.

I love it when they are squeezing their thighs together because they are dying to be touched. And I don't touch them at all. Suffer baby ! Too bad ! For once YOU aren't controlling your dates, its me.

The neck kisses are killer. I've got this really good move to swivel her head as I kiss her and then move in on her neck. A little biting, a little nibbling, lots of kisses. Softly caress and kiss the neck at the same time. Its deadly.
 
I don't let her get to me. I always make sure she is getting more than I am. She has to be the one craving me, not vice versa. I am always on the attack. It gives me the control. I get my payback later. Funny they never figure this out.
 
How is never letting someone get to you in a passionate situation always fun?

You must be careful to pick the stupider ones.
 
LuvToKiss said:
The neck kisses are killer. I've got this really good move to swivel her head as I kiss her and then move in on her neck. A little biting, a little nibbling, lots of kisses. Softly caress and kiss the neck at the same time. Its deadly.

This is so unfair!
 
It's kinda sad that you want control over a woman.

p.s. I don't kiss on the first date so suffer in your jocks.
 
Recidiva said:
How is never letting someone get to you in a passionate situation always fun?
You must be careful to pick the stupider ones.

Its a power thing. Women think they control men sexually. I make them beg. They drag me into the bedroom, IF I decide I want them.

The smartest, most reserved women are the best because they don't see it coming.

I told you I am bad.

Its really funny to watch the date turn with the kiss. She can be kind of non chalant about things until the kisses get to her. Then she is all interested. Women want sex with a good man. Once they get those kisses, they have to find out what more there is.

I've never told anyone about this before.
 
LuvToKiss said:
Its a power thing. Women think they control men sexually. I make them beg. They drag me into the bedroom, IF I decide I want them.

The smartest, most reserved women are the best because they don't see it coming.

I told you I am bad.

Its really funny to watch the date turn with the kiss. She can be kind of non chalant about things until the kisses get to her. Then she is all interested. Women want sex with a good man. Once they get those kisses, they have to find out what more there is.

I've never told anyone about this before.

Yeah, I picked up right off that it was a power thing.

"Women" on the whole don't think anything in particular. But you clearly think you're doing unto others - first.

You're not bad. You're wounded.

You're reinventing the wheel to folks who drive cars.
 
I'm not wounded. Women do the same thing to men all the time. Now you have some inkling what it is like to be a man and desire a woman who plays with your emotions. I've just turned the table, that's all. It feels good to be in control.

Women think they have men wrapped around their finger because men want sex. What I've come to learn is that women have a stronger sex drive than men - for the right man.

Don't tell me for a second that women don't seduce men to get what they want and gratify their egos. Are they wounded ?
 
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LuvToKiss said:
I'm not wounded. Women do the same thing to men all the time. Now you have some inkling what it is like to be a man and desire a woman who plays with your emotions. I've just turned the table, that's all. It feels good to be in control.

Women think they have men wrapped around their finger because men want sex. What I've come to learn is that women have a stronger sex drive than men - for the right man.

Don't tell me for a second that women don't seduce men to get what they want and gratify their egos. Are they wounded ?

I've never tried to use sex against a man.
You are generalising.
 
I think I've learned my lesson in not rising to the bait of posts initiated like this. There's always an ulterior motive that's generally making a fool of whoever tries to post something in earnest.
 
LuvToKiss said:
I'm not wounded. Women do the same thing to men all the time. Now you have some inkling what it is like to be a man and desire a woman who plays with your emotions. I've just turned the table, that's all. It feels good to be in control.

Women think they have men wrapped around their finger because men want sex. What I've come to learn is that women have a stronger sex drive than men - for the right man.

Don't tell me for a second that women don't seduce men to get what they want and gratify their egos. Are they wounded ?

Okay. So you're saying you're really a woman?
 
Tzah said:
I think I've learned my lesson in not rising to the bait of posts initiated like this. There's always an ulterior motive that's generally making a fool of whoever tries to post something in earnest.

Which is why I can post in earnest and in jest and come away happy.

Again, touting the joys of cooperation.
 
lushlucid said:
I've never tried to use sex against a man.
You are generalising.

This coming from a woman with an Av showing her bent over, pussy wide open. As a woman you probably don't realize what that does to a man.
 
LuvToKiss said:
This coming from a woman with an Av showing her bent over, pussy wide open. As a woman you probably don't realize what that does to a man.

a) If i don't realise then i'm not intetionally trying to use my sexuality to seduce someone am I?
b) If people didn't want to see ass, they wouldn't be looking.
 
LuvToKiss said:
This coming from a woman with an Av showing her bent over, pussy wide open. As a woman you probably don't realize what that does to a man.

And as an extraordinarily immature person without any self control, you might not have any idea how funny that sounds.
 
lushlucid said:
a) If i don't realise then i'm not intetionally trying to use my sexuality to seduce someone am I?
b) If people didn't want to see ass, they wouldn't be looking.

a) So you've never talked to a man in a sultry voice, wore something revealing or added a little wiggle to make a man do something for you ? Yeah, right. Should I search your posts ?

b) And if women don't want to kiss me, they shouldn't. Its not like I am making them.
 
LuvToKiss said:
a) So you've never talked to a man in a sultry voice, wore something revealing or added a little wiggle to make a man do something for you ? Yeah, right. Should I search your posts ?

b) And if women don't want to kiss me, they shouldn't. Its not like I am making them.

a) no i haven't
b) you're a freak, you need to get laid.
 
Personally, I find the whole teasing-kiss thing quite a lovely concept. For me, it has a ring of proper romance to it, in an odd way - really, when you think about it, it's a man actively thinking of ways to seduce a woman AND build passion.
 
LuvToKiss said:
a) So you've never talked to a man in a sultry voice, wore something revealing or added a little wiggle to make a man do something for you ? Yeah, right. Should I search your posts ?

b) And if women don't want to kiss me, they shouldn't. Its not like I am making them.

a) Yes, but I tended to choose the men who happened to enjoy that, enjoyed being seduced and seducing in return. Again, full knowledge and cooperative. Some guys happen to enjoy sex and tension and emotion and passion and don't behave as if it's a trap, and then start to set traps of their own, vowing to never be caught.

Guys don't seem to mind if I talk in a sultry voice with a little something revealing, wiggling and asking them to have sex with me.

b) But somehow you've "discovered" this big bad secret, that's...well, you get the point.
 
Pooki said:
Personally, I find the whole teasing-kiss thing quite a lovely concept. For me, it has a ring of proper romance to it, in an odd way - really, when you think about it, it's a man actively thinking of ways to seduce a woman AND build passion.

Yeah, that's fine. Just not the evil end zone dance.
 
Evil end zone dance ? No.

The thing I get out of it is that the women I am attracted to don't have as much power over me. You women know exactly what I mean.

Do you know what its like to go on a date with a beautiful woman and she is playing with her hair, talking soft, wearing revealing clothing, generally making you weep inside because you want her now, even though its the first date ? When I feel that, I start kissing. Payback, woman. I can turn you on way more than you can turn me on. Other men beg you ? You'll beg me, honey !

And its all perfectly legit and nobody suspects anything. Who can accuse me of being bad for kissing and not touching ? Knowing how to kiss and tease levels the playing field. And its not like I don't eventually follow through on my actions.
 
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