If You're Bisexual.....

[juicylips]

did you start out bi-curious?

Or... did you always know you were attracted to both sexes?

Are you more attracted to one sex over the other?


If you are just bi-curious, do you think one encounter will relieve your curiosity?

Tell me.
jl

 

[Guest]

started off bicurious
had the encounter....
it wasn't what I expected...but I think it was the person and the situation.

and sometimes its men...sometimes its women.

 

[StrawberryPez]

yes I started out bi-curious. I thought women were gorgeous. I thought it was just a phase.

Then after some "experimenting" I knew it was much more than just a curiosity.

I find myself more attracted to men though, I haven't been with a woman in a long time. But that doesn't mean I don't think about them

 

[deliciously_naughty]

started bicurious...but always assumed it was a byproduct of our society...you know how you're always getting beautiful women pushed up in your face? That it's natural for everyone to find them attractive (17 year old logic). Then I hit college and had an encounter...and realized that I was bi.

I tend to date men more, but that prolly has more to do with my being terrified of approaching other women and feeling like an inexperienced teen again. With men I feel like a strong sexy woman who can have any guy she wants. When it comes to women I revert back to hiding in the corner of the room desperately wishing some cute girl will come over and and flirt with me. But I'm getting better

 

[hotNnasty]

started out bi curious.
now bi sexual.
Attracted mostly to men My bi sexual experiences are few but meaningful.

 

[juicylips]

started off bicurious
had the encounter....
it wasn't what I expected...but I think it was the person and the situation.

and sometimes its men...sometimes its women.

That's what I was wondering. What if your first time was with someone with whom you had no real chemistry? But, I guess you can have that with any kind of sex..lol.

Thanks, jp.

 

[christophe]

i imagine it would be much easier to find a date!

 

[superlittlegirl]

Don't I wish!

i imagine it would be much easier to find a date!

 

[lil_mama_wanna]

bisexual

When I was 12 I discovered feelings like most kids do around that age. But I noticed mine were a little different. I had my first boyfriend and my first girlfriend then. I grew up knowing that I liked the company (and more) of both sexes. When I was abut 18 I talked myself out of my feelings for women. Telling myself that is was just a faze I was going through. When I was about 29 I just accepted that I was bisexual and now my life is much better. No more guily feelings over who I am.

 

[christophe]

Don't I wish!

well in theory...always looks better on paper!

 

[Guest]

 

[juicylips]

Don't I wish!

Can't imagine anyone as gorgeous as you having trouble finding a date....I agree with Chris.

jl

 

[MissVictoria]

I'm not sure that I completely understand the question. If you are bi-curious, then you are simply that, intruiged about it with the possibility of discovering that you yourself are bisexual. If you are bisexual, you are bisexual whether you act on it or not. You don't have to have sex to define your sexuality.

So wouldn't that make every bisexual in existance one who started out as "bi curious"? I mean, unless they were born without their virginity, having procreated with someone of the same sex on an alternate plane of existance?

 

[juicylips]

I'm not sure that I completely understand the question. If you are bi-curious, then you are simply that, intruiged about it with the possibility of discovering that you yourself are bisexual. If you are bisexual, you are bisexual whether you act on it or not. You don't have to have sex to define your sexuality.

So wouldn't that make every bisexual in existance one who started out as "bi curious"? I mean, unless they were born without their virginity, having procreated with someone of the same sex on an alternate plane of existance?

I think you understood the question perfectly.

 

[Guest]

That's what I was wondering. What if your first time was with someone with whom you had no real chemistry? But, I guess you can have that with any kind of sex..lol.

Thanks, jp.

sometimes I don't think chemistry is the problem...I think that when you fantasize...you build up this thought of how its supposed to happen...how its going to feel...

mine wasn't anything like I imagined it to be...but it wasn't horrible...just felt like I was missing something. And who knows...one day I might try it again. Or maybe not.

 

[juicylips]

sometimes I don't think chemistry is the problem...I think that when you fantasize...you build up this thought of how its supposed to happen...how its going to feel...

I wonder if a sexual experience that you've fantasized at great length about ever lives up to your expectations.

You think you have imagined it all...and then you find out....there is always something that you didn't account for.

 

[crystalizedjoy]

around 18 or so I started becoming curious about other men, and I indulged in the curiosity once, and it was fun. But, I've never considered falling in love with a man, so I really pursue women alot more, and if I happen to be nekked with a bunch of people, some being guys, I won't be bothered by it.

 

[juicylips]

and if I happen to be nekked with a bunch of people, some being guys, I won't be bothered by it.

Wow. Me neither.

 

[BgMma]

From when I was very young, my perceptions were askewed anyhow. There was a lot going on.........anyway

I had dreamed of women and of being a man many times and I woke up. I did what I had been told was dirty and wrong and it felt pretty good.
Being with a woman is so much different than being with a man. With a man, sometimes I couldn't care less about him or what he wants from me.
With a woman, I feel that I owe it to her to give her all I can.
I like men, I like women. I don't know why, I just do.


I told my SO once that I treat my women so much better than I do my men. He agrees. Try that on in Psychology 101

 

[dreamer]

Are you more attracted to one sex over the other?

Wait a sec? There's more than one sex? I've been too busy trying to figure out women to notice...

<looking down> Ohhhh....yeah....

 

[Guest]

 

[BgMma]

You disgusting faggot

Are you afraid of your feelings?

I have watched men have sex and it's actually quite erotic.

 

[juicylips]

From when I was very young, my perceptions were askewed anyhow. There was a lot going on.........anyway

I had dreamed of women and of being a man many times and I woke up. I did what I had been told was dirty and wrong and it felt pretty good.
Being with a woman is so much different than being with a man. With a man, sometimes I couldn't care less about him or what he wants from me.
With a woman, I feel that I owe it to her to give her all I can.
I like men, I like women. I don't know why, I just do.


I told my SO once that I treat my women so much better than I do my men. He agrees. Try that on in Psychology 101

Maybe women bring out the better part of you. The softer, gentler, loving side. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[christophe]

I have watched men have sex and it's actually quite erotic.

nope not me...gimme the poke in the whiskers option anyday!

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: If You're Bisexual.....

Wait a sec? There's more than one sex? I've been too busy trying to figure out women to notice...

<looking down> Ohhhh....yeah....

How's it going, d?

Do you have a particular woman figured out?