If you have ever had an affair, what was the reason?

If you have ever had an affair, what was the reason?

  • An escape from regular, boring life.

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • To prove I\'m still sexy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Not enough or not satisfying sex at home

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • It just happened... was pure lust

    Votes: 5 29.4%
  • In love with this new person

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • Was not really a affair (only online)

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • Other (wonder what?

    Votes: 1 5.9%

  • Total voters
    17
Yep, I did. Once every couple of months whether I needed it or not, is not sufficient!

;)
 
I had an affair when I was with my ex husband. I was unhappy in the relationship and the affair just sorta happened. It was with a co-worker and it only lasted about 2 months.
 
I've never cheated, I don't see it in my future. But if I did, I think it would be because my sex life was lacking.

If I ever get to that point, I'll have to hold things off and break it off with whomever I'm seeing. So really, it's just a hypothetical answer.
 
I was convinced my wife didnt love me anymore and I wanted that excitement of a new partner, so I had an affair. If I could relive that moment I would in a heartbeat. It was not the correct way to deal with the stresses that were going on in my life.In the end it cost me everything that I had worked hard all my life for.
 
Is lack of physical contact for 15 yrs a good enough reason...I'm since divorced and loving it!!!;)
 
wildrose70 said:
Is lack of physical contact for 15 yrs a good enough reason...I'm since divorced and loving it!!!;)

15 years? What did he do take a vow of celebacy?
 
never had an affair..too damn chicken of what she'd do to me!!!! wait, does kissing another woman count when drunk :confused: no excuse for what I did, but cant take the past back
 
plasticman33 said:


15 years? What did he do take a vow of celebacy?

I think he died from the waist down..and liked the fact he had a cook, bookeeper,housecleaner and didn't have to pay her!!! lol..;)
 
brokenbrainwave said:
never had an affair..too damn chicken of what she'd do to me!!!! wait, does kissing another woman count when drunk :confused: no excuse for what I did, but cant take the past back

Well hon you have never had too much excitement..and no that doesn't count unless you did the "mattress boogie" haha
 
plasticman33 said:
Oh a paraplegic! That explains it.

Noooooooooooo I didn't mean that at all...I meant what he had had "died" below the waist..he was perfectly capable...and wldnt dream of trying Viagra...just wasnt interested anymore....and I'm a hot dam sexy woman with legs to die for..haha
 
wildrose70 said:


Noooooooooooo I didn't mean that at all...I meant what he had had "died" below the waist..he was perfectly capable...and wldnt dream of trying Viagra...just wasnt interested anymore....and I'm a hot dam sexy woman with legs to die for..haha

:D , I was joking. Trust me I'd never lose interest! Hot, sexy, legs to die for!!!!!!!!! I'm in lust!:p :p
 
wildrose70 said:


Well hon you have never had too much excitement..and no that doesn't count unless you did the "mattress boogie" haha

lmao!! and now I am being called uneducated in the "mattess boogie" ha ha ha my first synopsis was correct, ya'll are harsh!!! J/K:mad: :D
 
plasticman33 said:


:D , I was joking. Trust me I'd never lose interest! Hot, sexy, legs to die for!!!!!!!!! I'm in lust!:p :p

Trust me honey...thats what all the guys say..legs to die for..haha that's what hooks them first...sometime i will show u!!!
 
brokenbrainwave said:


lmao!! and now I am being called uneducated in the "mattess boogie" ha ha ha my first synopsis was correct, ya'll are harsh!!! J/K:mad: :D

I didn't say u didnt know how to do it...just doesnt count if you didnt...and cummmmmmmm on admite your having fun!!!! say hon are u by any chance a souther boy ya'll if sooooooooooooo I love those southern drawls...lol
 
wildrose70 said:


I didn't say u didnt know how to do it...just doesnt count if you didnt...and cummmmmmmm on admite your having fun!!!! say hon are u by any chance a souther boy ya'll if sooooooooooooo I love those southern drawls...lol
well, ma'am, forgive me for bieng obtuse...grrr@my three yr old son wanting to be set free...anywhoooo, I knew what ya meant ;)
 
brokenbrainwave said:

well, ma'am, forgive me for bieng obtuse...grrr@my three yr old son wanting to be set free...anywhoooo, I knew what ya meant ;)

Oh your a youngster then....i have greatgrandkids that age....of course no problem...they can keep you hopping for sure.....I love them all dearly..just glad they dont live with me!!!! I did my share....:D
 
wildrose70 said:


Oh your a youngster then....i have greatgrandkids that age....of course no problem...they can keep you hopping for sure.....I love them all dearly..just glad they dont live with me!!!! I did my share....:D
not that much of a youngster but have younger kids, at least until ebay lets you auction them off again
 
I've never had an affair. When my marriage started to fall apart quickly at the end, we just decided to divorce rather quickly. I don't think my ex did either but I have no idea
 
brokenbrainwave said:

not that much of a youngster but have younger kids, at least until ebay lets you auction them off again

*giggles* don't think they have reached that point yet..or I wld have done that years ago!!!
 
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