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hotoldrguy

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what kind of relationship would you want? Monogamy, Friend with Benefits, fuck buddy, open marriage, hotwife, cuckhold or other. And why would you prefer that kind of relationship at this point in your life.
 
The ones that appeal to me most at this point in my life are an open marriage or being a hotwife. I'm not interested in cuckholding, so, if I understand things correctly, that would be more of a stag/vixen dynamic. Why? Because my nature is more polyamorous than it is monogamous. I love my husband and always want him in my life. But I also want to be able to experience sexual relationships (friendship, love) with other people.
 
The ones that appeal to me most at this point in my life are an open marriage or being a hotwife. I'm not interested in cuckholding, so, if I understand things correctly, that would be more of a stag/vixen dynamic. Why? Because my nature is more polyamorous than it is monogamous. I love my husband and always want him in my life. But I also want to be able to experience sexual relationships (friendship, love) with other people.
Do you think this is fairly common for many women with age?
 
Do you think this is fairly common for many women with age?
I don't think it's fairly common, whether one is looking at the population as a whole or at a more kink friendly subset of women, such as here on Lit. If it was a fairly common feeling, I think we'd be hearing more about it. I spend most of my time here in the PG and AmPics. From what I have seen, it's not a commonly desired relationship situation for most of the women on these boards.

As for the age aspect of it, I was involved in a polyamorous situation in my early 20s. Not that I knew that term then. So, for me, it's not a feeling that developed over time, but a feeling that I have had for most of my adult life.
 
what kind of relationship would you want? Monogamy, Friend with Benefits, fuck buddy, open marriage, hotwife, cuckhold or other. And why would you prefer that kind of relationship at this point in your life.
Monogamy with someone else. She is an amazing woman I would love to start a life with if I didn't have the attachments I have now.
But then the two children I have wouldn't be here and I would have missed a bunch.
 
I mean I am I guess?
I want to be attached to someone who actually wants to be attached to me.
But also understands I don’t have time for a full time relationship.
So maybe a partner that lives around down the street?
 
No need to start fresh. I may often roll around past experiences in my mind, but it's natural for someone to reminisce every now and then. Since my wife doesn't want to hear about such things, I guess maybe just a confidante for these things as they roll around in my head.
 
I get to enjoy that now.
It's nice to have a person in your life who can keep you straight without being too much.
I just wish she were closer.
 
I’d have knowledge of a 52 year old but body of 20 year old and mrs right? Would be mrs right now! All jokes aside starting over…..sounds fucking scary asf! Picking something I’d probably elect single date around without commitments
 
I have been alone for almost 7 years now so I could really do a fresh start anytime. I am really looking more for some version of a FWB. But at my age, it appears I am not of much interest to others. I did get on the Senior Sizzle section of AFF but nothing really so far.
 
I still want to be single now. However, I can see myself having another polyamorous relationship at some point in the future.
 
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