If you could do your FIRST time all over again...

[*bratcat*]

 

[shadowsource]

I wasn't spectacular, for sure

But I got it over with (how male).

 

[cuz cracker]

sometimes i think yes. sometimes i think no. but realy i was to young. at age thirteen it turned my mind almost 100% on getting more pussy. at that age i should have been doing other things also. however you take it when you can get it!

 

[*bratcat*]

Re: I wasn't spectacular, for sure

 

[ohiobbw]

I'll let ya know after I have my first time!

 

[lobito]

Re: Re: I wasn't spectacular, for sure

I don't think ANYONE was spectacular their first time!

HEY! I resent that remark BC! Ok, so I was probably only spectacular in my own mind, but isn't that what counts?(sometimes)

I can't take back my real first time, but with a girl I would choose to do it all over again, with today's knowledge if possible. Let's just leave it at that.

 

[OUTSIDER]

I was 13 and she was 16 and it sucked......and not in the good way.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

22 Year old girl to 16 year old me
"Are you sure you've never done this before?"

No I wouldn't change it.

 

[april-wine]

hmmm well i was older then some of you ladies......21 in fact......but he was much older, and still not that great lol.........but you live and learn i guess lol......

 

[Cirrus]

I don't really regret mine, but I would do it over. I was 16 and it was with a guy who was 21 or 22 at the time. I mainly just did it because I was curious and wanted it "over with" but it meant nothing. I wish I would have waited until the 3rd guy I had sex with, when I was 18.

 

[PacificBlue]

I waited thinking it would be better and it was the right thing to do, my head would be clear I wouldn't be acting on hormones...blah, blah, blah...all crap. I was 28. My b/f at the time used all the right words to get me into bed and then when we were done looked at me and the first words out of his mouth..."your not a virgin anymore"...not I love you, I care about you, are you ok? My heart sank and I had a sick feeling. Nevermind the fact that it was physically painful and I didn't cum once. Later on that day he told me he thought he was doing me a favor because I was a 28 year old virgin and that was just wrong in his eyes. We never saw each other again after that episode.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

PacBlue - baby that sucks! I hope it got better after that. I can't believe there areguys like that around, no wonder we get such a bad name.

 

[lickerish]

I wouldn't change with whom or when, or else my kids wouldn't be here.

I got preggo when we lost our virginity together. Then 6 months after having kidlet #1, I got preggo w/ kidlet #2 ,the first time we had sex after he was released from the juvi detention hall.

I only regret how things ended. I went from naive to eyes wide open.. he was such a jerk. I regret losing my naiveté and innocence to him.

I love my kids tho.. wouldn't trade 'em for anything in this world.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[MissTaken]

Ditto

It's probably the one thing in my life I would want to change or undo.

I might have selected a different partner and chosen to be sober. LOL

At 19, I was drunk and simply wanted to see what the "big deal: was all about. That experience didn't tell the tale.

 

[ShyGuy68]

If I could go back and change it, I would like to have the second woman I had sex with to be the first.

It's not that I didn't like it with the first woman, but I just have a exceptional relationship with the second woman. We aren't in love with eachother, but the friendship we have are one of a kind, and I have the feeling it'll last for many years.

 

[april-wine]

I waited thinking it would be better and it was the right thing to do, my head would be clear I wouldn't be acting on hormones...blah, blah, blah...all crap. I was 28. My b/f at the time used all the right words to get me into bed and then when we were done looked at me and the first words out of his mouth..."your not a virgin anymore"...not I love you, I care about you, are you ok? My heart sank and I had a sick feeling. Nevermind the fact that it was physically painful and I didn't cum once. Later on that day he told me he thought he was doing me a favor because I was a 28 year old virgin and that was just wrong in his eyes. We never saw each other again after that episode. [/QUOTE/]

my first thought he was doing me a favour too......hmmmm such ego, let's just hope they get told how totally they sucked at it......

 

[PacificBlue]

I can dream April-Wine, I can dream.

 

[shadowsource]

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[lavender]

 

[bluntforcemama]

Even though I'm no longer seeing the man I lost my virginity to, I would never wish for that moment to be anything less or more than it was. It's shaped me, just as every experience has. He was a special man, he still is. I wouldn't trade it for the world. I just move on and accept.

 

[It'sasecret]

Yes and no. My husband is my one and only. I know this sounds crazy but I regret that. For those you who have seen my posts on the help board you probably understand why. I really wish I had experimented before meeting him. But on the other hand I am proud that he is the only one.

 

[luv2tvl69]

If you could do your FIRST time all over again

As a sex teacher, my first was very perfect, very patient, and taught me to explore. I was 17 when we first had sex (my birthday present) No I wouldnt have changed a thing.

As a boyfriend, looking back, he sucked. I was 16 1/2 when we started dating what did I know. . At the beginning it was great, I loved him, thought he loved me. But by the end of the 3rd year it just was bad.

 

[morninggirl5]

I wouldn't change anything about the actual experience. I do regret how I treated him afterwards and wish we had been able to remain friends though.

 

[pabloback]

my first time was after a party at the store where i used to have a saturday job while still at school . she was in her mid twenties and married , a complete slut , i found out after she had fucked half the management there. we did it in an alleyway behind some shops near her house , she lay down on the broken glass in the dark alley and pulled her lycra skipants down , the place stank of piss and dog shit , but it was my first time and i didnt want to miss out .
yes i would prefer if my memory of my first time was a little [no a lot] more romantic and in hindsite i would have made sure i was standing up .