Ideas?

[Noneyabizness]

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We have a great sex life. Recently, he started talking to me about him getting me off in public, yet discretely. While a little nervous, I'm all up for trying this. I've not done this before.

Can anyone give me some ideas to make this spicy for him, as well as myself?

Thanks so much!!!!

 

[M's girl]

Well, start thinking about, and discussing with him (and even go out shopping together) for clothes that would give him easy access! The preperation may be as much fun as the acting out. Also, discussing this into detail is fun, plus it makes clear what would work (and what not) for you both. The level of display/exposure that is comfortable for both of you and such things.

 

[Noneyabizness]

Well, start thinking about, and discussing with him (and even go out shopping together) for clothes that would give him easy access! The preperation may be as much fun as the acting out. Also, discussing this into detail is fun, plus it makes clear what would work (and what not) for you both. The level of display/exposure that is comfortable for both of you and such things.

I have the short skirts, sexy tops, etc. I did agree with him that it has to be discrete. I'm not in to spending any time in a jail cell!

Thank you, M!

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Done it. Liked it. A couple pointers.

1. Make is pretty fast... Mrs. BibleThumper WILL call the cops.
2. Always have an escape plan
3. Never do it in the same place twice
4. Never do it in court after being arrested

That's all I have to say.

 

[VampireD]

Your boyfriend seems kinda creepy...but personally...at dark is the best time.. make it discrete where nobody is going to catch you... like the person said before..quick and fast access...then get home and get the real show on

 

[Eilan]

Mrs. BibleThumper WILL call the cops.

I'm not a Bible thumper--far from it, actually--but if someone pulls a stunt like that when there are children around who might see, I'll call the cops.

OP, if you're gonna do it, be smart about it. If you pick an area that gets a lot of complaints about certain sexual behaviors going on there (and you might not know this in advance), it's possible that there might be undercover detectives keeping an eye on things. It happened to someone I know.

 

[boston_bbw]

I would say definately a quick getaway plan is needed. Maybe start with a simple hand job while in the drive thru line at Dunkin Donuts or something..lol

 

[midwestyankee]

It's not clear to me whether the OP was talking about having sex in a public place or simply being brought to orgasm in a public place. The latter is quite possible, and can be much more entertaining and fulfilling if done completely surreptitiously. One might engage in a session of in-person phone sex quietly while having dinner in a restaurant (long tablecloths hide swaying and heaving hips). Another option would be to invest in a remote-controlled vibrator.

If the OP's boyfriend was asking to have sex in a public place, then that raises any number of security risks, as folks have already discussed. A way around these concerns would be to rent a hotel room that overlooks a busy street or courtyard. You don't have to pull the curtains, and windows can provide plenty of support for a woman who's being taken from behind.

 

[emap]

there are a few interesting and safe ways to get you off in public. First one to spring to mind, take the bus together, you sit against the window, he sits besides you, you get up a little to fix your skirt or some such, he slides his hand under where you will sit and let the bouncy bus do the work. Of course this only works for longer bus rides, across town, or Greyhound trip.

Another simpler one, you let him drive, you sit on his hand and he goes on dirt/old roads. Best car for that is a convertible of course, perhaps one of those old Volkswagen bugs would work as well, huge windows and bumpy doesn't even begin to describe those things.

Now if your talking sex in public, well there is the hotel room with a balcony, though has to be at least on the 5th floor, higher is preferable of course. If you have a big park or jogging lane, go along that and find a hidden spot, though don't be to loud, you would get a watcher, perhaps ask to join in/have seconds.

Of course back seat of his car, gets late enough a bench most anywhere, though not a bus stop bench, or anything by the road, to visible. Camping brings out the most of the funner sex in publics, can have a morning lay in the sleeping bag, without a tent, can do it in the tent with the flaps open, can do it in the hammock, if your really adventurous, bent over your car, or someone elses car.

 

[StuffItIn]

I took it as the OP was referring to just getting off, not necessarily having sex in public. Plenty of precautions above on sex in public... but as for him gettin gyou off....

I like the bus ride idea.
Or even just try it outdoors somewhere, not in plain view of everyone, but just where someone "could" find you if they were looking. Or maybe find a spot outdoors where you can see others, but it might be hard for them to see you. Just the thought of the *potential* to be caught can be exciting enough IMO.

 

[StuffItIn]

Or how about late night at a beach. After sunset, when it's getting hard to see anyone around you, lay down a towel and sit next to eachother. Wear a nice skirt, and let him slide up and find the buried treasure.

 

[Noneyabizness]

It's not clear to me whether the OP was talking about having sex in a public place or simply being brought to orgasm in a public place. The latter is quite possible, and can be much more entertaining and fulfilling if done completely surreptitiously. One might engage in a session of in-person phone sex quietly while having dinner in a restaurant (long tablecloths hide swaying and heaving hips). Another option would be to invest in a remote-controlled vibrator.

If the OP's boyfriend was asking to have sex in a public place, then that raises any number of security risks, as folks have already discussed. A way around these concerns would be to rent a hotel room that overlooks a busy street or courtyard. You don't have to pull the curtains, and windows can provide plenty of support for a woman who's being taken from behind.

I should have made myself clearer.....we are not talking about having sex in public....just being brought to orgasm.....

Sorry for not being clear.

 

[Not Normal]

A skirt + the movies = fun

 

[human_male]

If at all possible, do it somewhere where I can see would you? I could use a bit of a thrill.

 

[StuffItIn]

A skirt + the movies = fun

Agreed.

 

[SweetasHunnie]

A skirt + the movies = fun

I also agree with this one..
im not sure where you live.. but also after dark on the beach is fun (there are still people, just not as many.. everybody is minding there own business .. and all the kids have went home)

 

[borisk]

If you want to be descrete my wife baught a wireless humming bird. One evening we were going out and she handed me this remote controll in the car. It drove her nuts.
I love toying with it because no one can see and she doesnt know when its going to be turned on.

The only drawback is they are on the expensive side. There are wired ones too.

Boris

 

[interfacial]

Just be aware that you're never quite as sly as you might think you're being. Don't do anything that requries actual stealth on anyone's part, as plausible deniability is key for those situations where you might have been caught.


hehe This reminds me of this time, we thought one of my friends missed the bus in highschool, and his girlfriend at the back of the bus was blushing. I guess he must have thought he couldn't get it past people if they saw him in the back of the bus and then he had his head not visible during their 'public fun', so he made sure nobody saw him get on the bus. But, you have to think these things through, because his stealth while being on the bus was his ultimate downfall when the bus came to his stop and it was obvious something was going on when he just suddenly appeared from the back of the bus to go home. Even though I completely respected him for having the balls to go down on his girlfriend in public, even the bus driver realized something was going on, hehe, as calls to parents had been made.