I want..

[TieMeUpPlease]

I want to have sex where the guy knows what he is doing and he takes complete control.. Ties me up.. Eats me out, gives me exactly what I want.. But so far I haven't found that. :/

 

[OxfordDon]

I want to have sex where the guy knows what he is doing and he takes complete control.. Ties me up.. Eats me out, gives me exactly what I want.. But so far I haven't found that. :/

lol..he's out there somewhere!

 

[Loverskitten]

Try asking. Guys aren't mind readers

 

[subwannabe]

I ditto the others. How are they supposed to know exactly what you want unless you tell them?

 

[Etoile]

I want to have sex where the guy knows what he is doing and he takes complete control.. Ties me up.. Eats me out, gives me exactly what I want.. But so far I haven't found that. :/

If he's giving you exactly what you want, is he really in complete control?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Ah yeah, the bodice ripper's dream... It's absolutely not going to happen, although it is possible to find a guy that listens and is willing and eager to understand you and what you want. More men than you'd expect are very much invested in their women's happiness. They just need to know what that is, and not be expected to flounder around making bad guesses.

Read the essay linked in my sig, see if it gives you any ideas.

 

[Que]

Need to work on your telepathic and telekinesis skills. Kinda hard to top from the bottom effectively if you can't worm your way into his mind with telepathy and make him through telekinesis do it exactly as you imagined.

I'm assuming a ball gag prevents you from letting him know what it is you want in the moment.

That, or try working on your ability to communicate what it is you need/want BEFORE you begin.

 

[DVS]

I want to have sex where the guy knows what he is doing and he takes complete control.. Ties me up.. Eats me out, gives me exactly what I want.. But so far I haven't found that. :/

A dom who knows what he's doing will tie you up, but from that point on I'm sure he will do what he wants, not what you want. Oh, he may accommodate you with bits of things you enjoy, but he's just baiting you. He knows how to keep your interest. He wants a spirited victim for his fun.

Once he has you begging for it, more than likely he will take it away. That's when he'll go to work on you. Your eyes will be full of hunger and lust, but he'll just taunt you and temp you, teasing your clit, biting your nipples and keeping you on the edge of that orgasm you crave.

He'll laugh at your helplessness, goosebumps will cover your body as his finger does a delicate dance on your trembling flesh. You'll probably be cursing at him by this point, if he hasn't stuffed something in your mouth to keep you quiet. You're his captive toy. He will enjoy making you squirm and whimper.

He'll eventually let you cum, and because he knows what he's doing, it will be an earth shattering orgasm. But it will be his his choice and his way. And I'll bet his way will soon become exactly what you want.

 

[Stella_Omega]

DVS, you sweet talker, you.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I want to have sex where the guy knows what he is doing and he takes complete control.. Ties me up.. Eats me out, gives me exactly what I want.. But so far I haven't found that. :/

Somehow, I doubt that someone's going to be focused on giving you exactly what YOU want when THEY have complete control. Hell, I wouldn't, and Dominating isn't even my thing! What's the point of having complete control over someone if you're just...going to do exactly what they want? Who really has the control there?

Honestly, sounds to me more like you want to be tied up and catered to. Which is fair enough, but not the same thing