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[alisonwunderlnd]

be a good time to break in my 1000th post!Ok,I am new to all of this.I know there are many many sides to this,I dont want to sound like too much of an ass,But i am VERY curious about all of this.I see there are some great sticky threads about it .Does anyone else have book or website reccs that i can read up on this?My most expereince i have had is getting spanked.thanks!Feell free to pm me as well,

 

[pandoravampire]

Welcome to literotica and the bdsm thread.
If your interested, the library here, and this forum's posts will give you a good insight. In addition, the stories bdsm theme'd are a find.

When i began, i would read about types of play called by their names, and wouldnt even know what they were. So id search the library, then read a story for that particular play form.

There are checklists to download in the library, this names and describes several forms of play.

For the power exchange dynamic, personally, id say this is not something you can read up on. It is something you must experience to know. More so than types of play.

View bdsm as a continuum, you will journey along its path, and find your very own nieche.

It is not about arrival, its all about the journey.
be well, enjoy
pandoravampire

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Thank you very much.I am looking forward to finding out all that I can about this.We all must start somewhere.

 

[Vixandra]

Welcome to Lit and this side of the boards.

I'd highly recommend reading through some of the library threads, and just keeping an eye out here in general.

There's a lot of very bright people from both sides of the proverbial paddle who give great advice, information and are a great deal of fun to chat with.

If you're looking for a role play thread to get a feel for things, the Cafe Chateau's good, just PM me with a character (have to promote it).

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Welcome to Lit and this side of the boards.

I'd highly recommend reading through some of the library threads, and just keeping an eye out here in general.

There's a lot of very bright people from both sides of the proverbial paddle who give great advice, information and are a great deal of fun to chat with.

If you're looking for a role play thread to get a feel for things, the Cafe Chateau's good, just PM me with a character (have to promote it).

Thank you!I am headed over there now to say good morning!