i think i have a serious crush on a guy

[Andreina]

...and that's a very odd feeling. very very odd.

can i have a hug, please?

 

[neonlyte]

Sure <hug>

Crush's aren't all bad, it's negotiating you way in and your way out where the problems start

 

[Andreina]

i'm trying to get out of the situation asap... he's way out of my league and the 5h-sitting-together-having-a-few-beers was far too good to happen again

 

[neonlyte]

If he is as you say, why spend 5 hours with you? Extracation is but one option open to you.

 

[TxRad]

i'm trying to get out of the situation asap... he's way out of my league and the 5h-sitting-together-having-a-few-beers was far too good to happen again

I made the mistake of considering someone way out of my league once and missed the best thing I could have ever had.... We've both kicked our own asses ever since.... Ya might want to reconsider if you two spent 5 hours together... even if it was just hanging out... there had to be more to it in the long run...

 

[TxRad]

Dang double posting.....@#$%^

 

[Andreina]

nice thought... he is way too *sigh* ... i think "super" is the word i'm looking for. for the past 2 years i have been so unlucky when it came to men. well, i've just written him an email - let's see.

 

[fieryjen]

nice thought... he is way too *sigh* ... i think "super" is the word i'm looking for. for the past 2 years i have been so unlucky when it came to men. well, i've just written him an email - let's see.

This has happened to me as well, several times. I know the feeling of being absolutely convinced that there's no way a certain person could ever be interested.

*hugs*

However, last time I thought that, I got a surprising kiss, a date and a boyfriend out of the deal. So good luck, and don't give up that easily!

 

[impressive]

he's way out of my league

bullshit

 

[Guest]

bullshit

What she said. Imp's smart (I'll still wrestle you for the fly, tho!)


Remember something important -- when you put yourself down, you are in effect saying anyone who likes you, loves you, thinks well of you, or otherwise says nice things about you is, at best, without taste or judgement and at worst an idiot. And it doesn't take much pushing of logic to realize that's not usually the case.

What's so wrong with this guy had the lousy judgement to spend so much time with you? I wonder if he's one of those great guys no one ever really dates because they always think he's already taken, or if he asks a girl out he they think he's "just being nice" and find a way to ease out of it, for fear of getting passed over later?

Humans...we are so interesting!

 

[Liar]

nice thought... he is way too *sigh* ... i think "super" is the word i'm looking for. for the past 2 years i have been so unlucky when it came to men. well, i've just written him an email - let's see.

Attagirl.

There are no leagues to be in and out of - just people. Saying "this could never happen" is a bloody good way of making sure it doesn't.

 

[zeb1094]

What they all said. I thought that about my SO when we first met, 36 years ago.

So, don't think there are any of these leagues.

 

[impressive]

(I'll still wrestle you for the fly, tho!)

Honey, you can HAVE the wrapper. Now, if you just wanna wrestle ...

 

[Guest]

Honey, you can HAVE the wrapper. Now, if you just wanna wrestle ...

LOL! Well, the wrapper is all I'm allowed, under the particular agreements I have with the beloved (we have to share everything 50/50, or at least 40/60).

So you'd end up being double teamed. You aren't ticklish, are you? I'm not

 

[LadyJeanne]

Crushes are fun. I usually don't act on them, except to continue the flirtation if he pursues it, or we happen to meet again. Guys who are crushing on me too, and interested in more than a casual flirtation, always act. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

 

[impressive]

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

That goes for women, too.


(No, Mal -- I'm not ticklish.)

 

[Guest]

That goes for women, too.


(No, Mal -- I'm not ticklish.)

Doggone it, that's my best dirty attack mode

 

[HappyLlama]

Stand in line, ladies. Llama's here. Hung like a donkey and looks like one too.

 

[Guest]

Stand in line, ladies. Llama's here. Hung like a donkey and looks like one too.

Not hung like a llama?

 

[HappyLlama]

Not hung like a llama?

Unfortunately for me, it doesn't have the same ring to it.

 

[Guest]

Unfortunately for me, it doesn't have the same ring to it.

Does it have a ring in it?

 

[HappyLlama]

Ouch!
Prince Albert has a lot to answer for.

 

[Guest]

Ouch!
Prince Albert has a lot to answer for.

Ok, Prince Albert was Queen Victoria's husband.
She had -- what, 14 kids?
Yet she represents the deepest extend of sexual repression.
And her husband has a particularly sexual peircing named for him.

I'm missing something somewhere.

 

[HappyLlama]

Ok, Prince Albert was Queen Victoria's husband.
She had -- what, 14 kids?
Yet she represents the deepest extend of sexual repression.
And her husband has a particularly sexual peircing named for him.

I'm missing something somewhere.

 

[kendo1]

Mal asked if it had a ring in it.
You said 'Ouch! Prince Albert has a lot to answer for.
I reckon you meant it would hurt to have said piercing.