I think I have a date with a chick tomorrow night...

[lilminx]

We met a couple of months ago and hooked up, but our lives have been hectic since then and haven't been able to talk or get together.

I'm not quite sure how to act. She asked me to dinner, does that mean that she pays, or do we go dutch?

If she asked me to have dinner with her, does that mean she has interest in me as more than a friend? Or might she just want another female friend? Maybe a fuck-friend?

This situation is just so alien to me; do any women who have dated other women have any suggestions?

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

I'm not a woman, but I've been known to cry like one ...lol

Seriously ...


Why treat it any differently than if a man asked you to dinner? Yes you're not sure of the intent behind everything, but why not play it by ear and see what you pick up over dinner

I have a feeling she'll make her intentions known.

Smiling for you!

 

[seXieleXie]

i'd expect to go dutch, but she might offer to pay. as for the rest, don't have any expectations but see how things go. you may be pleasantly surprised

 

[roxie]

Make sure you have enough money in case it is dutch, but like shameless said, play it by ear and see what happens, in the mean time, don't forget to be your charming self and relax! Hope you have a great time!

 

[lilminx]

Thanks, guys! BTW, Flirt, it's the woman from the erotic arts rave.

I should shave, right? Just in case?

 

[Rubyfruit]

I always offer to chip in, whether a man or a woman has asked me out.

Just relax and have fun, Minxie. See where the evening takes you. And if it takes you back to your place, I expect a full accounting of it.

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

Thanks, guys! BTW, Flirt, it's the woman from the erotic arts rave.

I should shave, right? Just in case?

Honestly I think she'd appreciate whatever face you present.

Hell, I'd bet if you didn't shave (and I'm thinking bikini line) she'd turn it into an opportunity to do it for you!

 

[Dillinger]

Tell you what - how about you invite me along and I'll pay for everyone?

 

[seXieleXie]

Thanks, guys! BTW, Flirt, it's the woman from the erotic arts rave.

I should shave, right? Just in case?

murphy's law: if you shave you won't get any. if you don't shave you will.

i swear to god this always happens to me. it's very strange.

 

[lilminx]

Will do, my fruity femme friend. Just expect it in a PM, not here, k?

Flirt, I don't let somoene shave me on the first date!
I remember you saying that you thought she wanted to be submissive to me, though.... hmmmm....


Dilly, how about you come along, pay, and take pics?

 

[Natalie Nessus]

murphy's law: if you shave you won't get any. if you don't shave you will.

i swear to god this always happens to me. it's very strange.

Lexie, you make me laugh so much

 

[sexy-girl]

thats cool lilminx sounds very exciting i would expect the meal be dutch too


i dont really have any tips though about my experiences because i know things between women can be very different depending on what they are looking for ... but just go there and have a good time thats most important thing

 

[Dillinger]

[B
Dilly, how about you come along, pay, and take pics? [/B]

I assumed the picture taking part went without even needing to ask? *smile*

Just say when and where, hotstuff...

 

[seXieleXie]

Lexie, you make me laugh so much

it's true though!!

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Can I have a date with a chick too?

And people better tell me how to behave then...

 

[Dillinger]

Oh its easy cheffie... when you're out with a chick just remember to scratch your balls a lot and talk about nothing but sports.

 

[lilminx]

thats cool lilminx sounds very exciting i would expect the meal be dutch too


i dont really have any tips though about my experiences because i know things between women can be very different depending on what they are looking for ... but just go there and have a good time thats most important thing

Thanks, SG- I was hoping that you would post here- lol.

I'm glad that people realize that, at least, for me, having a date with a woman is much different than with a man. I will just let whatever happens, happen, but I also am very nervous. I feel like i'm back in JR high, on my first date or something- lol.


Lexie, you're right about the shaving thing. I think I'll shave anyway though- we have, after all, hooked up once before- and in front of a bunch of people, no less-lol.

Dilly, either in Soho on the Upper West Side. You in?

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Oh its easy cheffie... when you're out with a chick just remember to scratch your balls a lot and talk about nothing but sports.

Dilly dear, I'm not in competition with you remember.

Course I may pick up a few dykes that way.

 

[Dillinger]

*lol* Cheffie - hey, I was only saying it like it is!

Minx - mmm - I'd actually love to - but I'm booked and heading off for a business trip that could last 2 weeks - can I get a rain check?

 

[lilminx]

If things turn out well, Dilly, maybe so..... maybe so.....

 

[SadnonMage]

Minxy, good luck!! And enjoy yourself....

Who knows maybe if the two of you become lovers she can be the one to help you cross that squirting plateau.


SM

 

[RhumbRunner13]

Hummmmmmm....

"I should shave, right? Just in case?"

Most of the time, I do.

Keep us posted, I think this could be better than "Will & Grace"!!!

RhumbRunner

 

[lilminx]

Re: Minxy, good luck!! And enjoy yourself....

Who knows maybe if the two of you become lovers she can be the one to help you cross that squirting plateau.
SM

Lol- the squirting thing was more because Domcop was into it and I wanted to please him- it doesn't really make any difference to me whether I am able to do that or not, although I do think that it's kind of cool.


Rhumbrunner- hmmmm.... Will & Grace, ya think? I find that show highly entertaining- somehow, I don't think my love (or lust) life will ever be as such.

 

[sexy-girl]

Thanks, SG- I was hoping that you would post here- lol.

hehe well im not an expert ... my gf and i just sort of happened and i never dated other girls before her ... so im pretty inexperienced in sort of date you're going on but i know how lovely it can to have a romantic/sexy evening with a beautiful woman im sure you will have a great time

good luck