I see BDSM everywhere...

[A Desert Rose]

Well, if memory serves, in each movie, the woman stayed with Duke.
They must have liked it, or they could have left him. Maybe they acted the way they did, because they were spanked in public. That's the way some women are when you try to kiss them in public, too.

They act like they don't like it, or think you are just oversexed. I bet if some women here lived in the time of Duke Wayne, and he spanked them, they might want to go home with him.

On a side note...do you think John was trying to wipe out any wimpy notions his real name might have brouht him before Hollywood?

Yes, those ladies did always stay with him. I think you have it all figured out right here... right now.

If he had spanked me over his knee like he did that woman in Donovan's Reef... I would have gone home with him, too!

(And I agree, Marion is an awful name for a boy.)

 

[A Desert Rose]

My brother was passing through town a couple months ago on business and we were visiting for the evening. He started telling me about an old high school friend of ours... a woman I have not seen in 20+ years. She and I shared more than a few of the same boyfriends in our wild youth and I have completely lost touch with her.

My brother told me that he had dinner with this lady friend of ours and that she had met a man on the internet and fallen completely in love. He found this all highly amusing. I asked him if he knew anything about this man and he said with a very embarrassed giggle... "Yea they met in some bsm (he got it wrong, that's not my typo) chat room and now she is into that stuff. She has piercings and shit for him."

All I could do was smile at him. He's adorable.

 

[DVS]

...he said with a very embarrassed giggle... "Yea they met in some bsm (he got it wrong, that's not my typo) chat room and now she is into that stuff. She has piercings and shit for him."

All I could do was smile at him. He's adorable.

I grew up in a small town. One of my best friends had a younger sister who was pretty. She had the hots for me, but she was Ed's little sister and that was difficult for me and for him. So, I never dated her.

As time went by, they both moved out of the homestead and started their own lives. Ed had a VERY straight vanilla life, and ended up divorced, with two kids. (His ex was a bit of a psyco mom).

One day, the topic ended up on sex fetishes and he happened to tell me about his little sister. "You wouldn't ever guess about Mary," he said.

"Mary? What do you mean?"

With a big laugh, he said "she's into whips and chains."

Well, his thought process was obvious. He thought she was strange. But, I then had a much different outlook on Ed's little sister.

That was over 30 years ago. For a long time, I wanted to talk to his little sister, because I no longer saw her as his little sister, but a woman who was aware of her sexual self.

She moved to Florida and married a well off lawyer and had a couple kids of her own. She lived a happy life, I'm sure but I don't know if she found someone who enjoyed whips and chains. We all know how that sometimes doesn't work out in a marriage.

 

[DVS]

I have a friend from my past coming for a visit this weekend. She has requested I give her more of what I used to give her, when we played around.

She likes to be treated like a naughty girl, and I punish her for various naughty girl things. She says she's not that kinky, and she always says she doesn't want me to get too kinky.

I always inform her that I'm very kinky, and always have been. I don't know how to be anything else. Telling me to not be too kinky is like cutting off my left arm. (I'm left handed).

She has found her someone who she says she loves very much. He knows she likes to be spanked, but is not that knowledgable of the process. Not that he won't spank her, but he is afraid of hurting her, I guess. So, she has returned to me, because she has that itch to be scratched. We all know about that, too, don't we.

I have asked her to send me some scenarios via email to give me an idea of how she wants to proceed this weekend. Trust me, she is kinkier than she thinks she is!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Sounds like one fun weekend, DVS.

Maybe you could update us when it's over?

 

[DVS]

Sounds like one fun weekend, DVS.

Maybe you could update us when it's over?

If you are really, really, really nice, I'll think about it. But, you know it isn't nice to spank and tell.

OK, I guess I will this time, but everybody has to be nice...

 

[WriterDom]

I knew one niece was kinky. But at Christmas I brought up the movie "The Secretary" and my other niece who I thought was straight as an arrow said, "I LOVE that movie." Perhaps my whole family are pervs.

I have caught one of my sister in laws saying "Yes Sir" a few times to my brother in a tone that excited me. But other times he seems quite hen pecked.

 

[morninggirl5]

From The Vent (a column in the Atlanta paper)

I bought my wife her biggest Christmas present at Lowe's, and she was tickled pink. Aren't you other guys jealous?

Wonder what new items Lowe's has that fit the ticking category....

 

[A Desert Rose]

If you are really, really, really nice, I'll think about it. But, you know it isn't nice to spank and tell.

OK, I guess I will this time, but everybody has to be nice...

People spank and tell in here all the time... they just don't name names.

 

[DVS]

People spank and tell in here all the time... they just don't name names.

You forgot to read my sigline again, didn't you.

So far, after her initial naughty girl spanking, she is interested in being stripped and taken out back and suspended from a tree in my back yard. Yes, that is a workable option.

I haven't yet decided if I will have her select a switch, or if I will just let her watch as I cut one.

 

[FungiUg]

I haven't yet decided if I will have her select a switch, or if I will just let her watch as I cut one.

Hmmm... how about suspending her, gagging her, and then slowly cut one, taking loads of time to prepare it carefully in front of her...

Yeah, I'd go for the latter option.

 

[RJMasters]

You know I often wonder if that is why some tv shows are so popular...

ok dating myself here...but like when magnium PI came out. Sure Tom S was a handsome guy and all....but it is more about his character. Take charge kinda of guy with a touch of boyish charm.

It makes me think of alot of shows where the main characters have the Dominant thing going on. Thinks maybe it has alot to do with the success.

Like Simon and Simon, you had the looker brother...then you had the non-none sense tough guy brother.

It is funny how the perception back then of a dominant was considered or described as "macho". I get a laugh at it now as i remember when "staying alive" with John Travolta came out...and all the women would go fan themselves, because he was just too much man and then some.

Then you Sheena and Conan...a cpl of examples of Dom/me types.

I always enjoying some of the really older classic movies that had the hysteric woman....and the only thing that would calm her down...was a good hard slap...the look of shock...the quivering lip...then diving her face into the chest and breaking down and crying.

And what about them classic prohibition gangster movies...where you always had the woman who love the danger of being the top dog's gangster slut. They would almost purrr themselve off the screen...and got off on being treated roughly.

Enjoyed the Chronicles of Riddick...as a more recent example.

its funny how when i am in one of my moods...and i can feel my hands itching and aching...how I will filter so much of what i see through my BDSM glasses.

Just find it intersting...how the "perception" of Dominance is used in large part. I remember something s'lara said in the physique thread about the hollywood perception or media perception of Dominance, and though it may not be all BDSM through and through, the concept of that element is what often makes something popular.

 

[esclave_PP]

It really is everywhere. Probably because if folks realize that we're still mammals, animals at heart, we have primal urges and needs. Now, we just need TigerClaw to growl a bit.

 

[graceanne]

LOL Last night at this church thing I caught this guy staring at me. He was really handsome, but frankly there were a lot of handsome guys there, they weren't as sexy as him. And I sure as hell aint so beautiful that he would have been staring at me for that. I found myself wondering if he was a dom or something, and that was why he kept staring at me. Like some psychic vibe thing. LOL Then I just decided that I'm spending too much time thinking about BDSM and he probably thought I looked familiar or something.

 

[A Desert Rose]

...and i can feel my hands itching and aching...how I will filter so much of what i see through my BDSM glasses...

So, that was the reason you resurrected this old thread... ;-D

 

[RJMasters]

So, that was the reason you resurrected this old thread... ;-D

That and...*whispers...I am stalking you [insert eerie back ground music here] lol

=) cowboyish type smiles

Going back through the older posts and doing some reading.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, well it seems the lifestyle is becoming more TV acceptable every day. Have noticed hints of it in various BBC programs over the last months and now this evening a Dutch gameshow featured a question to which BDSM was the answer. Have seen it in Dutch programs before, just never gameshows. Now when will they start to offer a weekend at a BDSM hotel as the prize?!!

Catalina

 

[Desdemona]

except in my bedroom. hahaha
(that's supposed to be funny...do I hear you laughing with me?)


No seriously, I do see it everywhere. And when I return from dinner tonight, I will tell you all about it.

If you see it everywhere too, feel free to tell me about it while I'm gone.

I read this and all I could think of was that little kid in The 6th sense saying "I see dead people". LOL I'm warped.

 

[serijules]

I feel that BDSM/spanking is a lot more common than we give it credit for. It's just the openmind-ness and self-confidence to ADMIT it that isn't as common, IMO.

A man that rents a section of the building I own asked to borrow my vacumn cleaner one day...I sent him into my private office to get it. I had one of the satin floggers I make and sell hanging in the closet that the vacumn was in. He came out and commented "What's with the ass whip hanging in the closet?" He's made quite a few other spanking/BDSM related comments too...once when he was showing me some aggitation equipment for police dog training which included a quirt-type whip..the sound it makes when cracked in the air is used to aggitate the dogs into attack mode so they can be taught the "back off" command.

Anyhow...I picked it up and started practicing aiming at a particular spot on the wall and he commented that if he couldn't find it one of these days, he would just look in my bedroom. It's amusing though because these and many other comments lead me to believe that he has at least some knowledge and experience in BDSM, but he has a hard time admitting it because he will still make comments about me being "into that freaky BDSM stuff" even though he has admitted that he is "down with all that" and will immediately pick up the conversation ethusiastically if I mention something even remotely BDSM related. I have little doubt he has some insight, he just isn't comfortable admitting it and embracing it, probably largely due to the "unacceptable" nature of it in society in general.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I read this and all I could think of was that little kid in The 6th sense saying "I see dead people". LOL I'm warped.

That's kinda where I took the title from, dolly. LOL You're so quick sometimes!!!

I so love ya!

 

[Desdemona]

That's kinda where I took the title from, dolly. LOL You're so quick sometimes!!!

I so love ya!

You know what this means, don't ya?


You're as warped as I am.... or am I as warped as you are???????????

Love you too!

 

[D's mariposa]

All you need to do is watch John Wayne movies, like Bandelaro!

The other night it was on and he or Dean Martin threw Raquel Welch over their shoulder and trotted off with her.

There is a really old Clark Gable - Claudette Colbert movie... oh, the name escapes me... he pulls her over his knee on the side of the road and spanks her.

And McClintock! I'm not a big John Wayne fan either, but someone did a seminar on spanking in Hollywood at the club once.

 

[curlyred24]

Did anyone see the Matrix series? They went to an awesome club where everyone was wearing leather and latex.....wonder where it is. And how do I get there?

 

[A Desert Rose]

And McClintock! I'm not a big John Wayne fan either, but someone did a seminar on spanking in Hollywood at the club once.

That must've been a fun class to attend. I always liked being in school. ;-)

Did anyone see the Matrix series? They went to an awesome club where everyone was wearing leather and latex.....wonder where it is. And how do I get there?

Wish I could help you out but I only saw the first Matrix movie. I believe there are several Matrix officianados here, though.

 

[Neomagalie]

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