I really hate this

[MissTaken]

Pinching!

It isn't even necessarily a limit, I simply hate it.
It isn't erotic for me.
It feels very degrading and disrespectful.
It just leaves a bitter taste in my proverbial mouth.

What do you dislike?

Or

What do you think you dislike but haven't done yet?

 

[serijules]

Pinching!

It isn't even necessarily a limit, I simply hate it.
It isn't erotic for me.
It feels very degrading and disrespectful.
It just leaves a bitter taste in my proverbial mouth.

What do you dislike?

Or

What do you think you dislike but haven't done yet?

I hate tickling...HATE it. My reaction is almost violent anger, I get really upset if someone tickles me until I'm crying, finally figures out I really do want them to stop, and when they let me up, I have an all out tantrum...crying, screaming...pure anger.

Don't know why I react so badly to it, I just hate it.

 

[MissTaken]

Yes! Serijules.

I dont' react as strongly to anything else as I do pinching, especially if continues after I have said, "NO!"

 

[lost]

Wrestling, i simply can't stand it.

 

[justgem]

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[maddi]

(I am not good at posting yet - sorry but)

This is so true

I hate tickling...HATE it. My reaction is almost violent anger, I get really upset if someone tickles me until I'm crying, finally figures out I really do want them to stop, and when they let me up, I have an all out tantrum...crying, screaming...pure anger

I react very violently to tickling also --- I just thought it was me. I do love soft stroking but it must be a small amount.

I know that this isn't the same but:

Also I absolutely hate the stories where people have the subs perform the clean command after they have just had anal sex. I had someone comment to me on how that would be great for me to do. All I can say is "Yuck" and I am not getting sick for that.

maddi

 

[serijules]

I do love soft stroking but it must be a small amount.

I'm with you on this too, I can handle soft, sensual touching and even a quick tickle, but tickling past when I start really laughing makes me panic. I think thats what it is about it that I can't handle, the panic and total loss of control of my emotions, unable to stop laughing.

The phrase "tickle to death" does have some sort of link to some ancient form of torture I think, and I can definatly understand that and consider it torture.

 

[Cirrus]

Re: Re: I really hate this

I hate tickling...HATE it. My reaction is almost violent anger, I get really upset if someone tickles me until I'm crying, finally figures out I really do want them to stop, and when they let me up, I have an all out tantrum...crying, screaming...pure anger.

Don't know why I react so badly to it, I just hate it.

Ditto...if I'm tickled even the slightest little bit, I just want to turn around and literally SLUG whoever's doing it.

I also HATE a tongue in my ear. Same thing, not a limit, but it just feels so disgusting to me.

 

[maddi]

You are right the tongue thing is so gross!

Euwwwwwwwwww! Yuckkkkkkkkk!

Maddi

 

[Goddess Helena]

Another vote against the tongue in the ear.

::icky shivers::


Helena

 

[bunny bondage]

ewwww....tounge in ear.....YUCK! i get all squirmy and grossed out and i rub my ear against my shoulder. TOTAL MOOD KILLER.

i also hate being tickled excessivly, but just a tiny bit is ok.

as for pinching, it really depends on where. like on my nipples, i love it! ok, so that's not at all strange, but i've been pinched elsewhere and it wasn't bad. (like my hand being pinched because i touched without permission, stuff like that)

 

[quietwillow]

foot and mouth dis_ease

I cannot stand being touched on the bottom of my feet it gives me the willies! I would say yield within 10 seconds and having to look inside other peoples mouth is just disgusting to me also!!!
Neither of these things is even remotely erotic to me!!!

quiet

 

[Rocket88]

tongue + ear = no

 

[P. B. Walker]

I don't like pinching either... especially on tender areas... or on the back of my bicep. My mom used to grab me there and pinch and literally move me around (I was much bigger than her). Pinching is totally non-erotic to me... at least on me. I like to pinch nipples in an erotic way. Tickling is just kinda... not sexy to me. It's funny and stuff and makes me laugh... but I don't get a chubby from it.

PBW

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: I really hate this

I hate tickling...HATE it. My reaction is almost violent anger, I get really upset if someone tickles me until I'm crying, finally figures out I really do want them to stop, and when they let me up, I have an all out tantrum...crying, screaming...pure anger.

Don't know why I react so badly to it, I just hate it.

I have a sub, sissy who hates to be tickled too. So if course I tickle him when he is in sensory deprivation.

My bad.

Eb

 

[RisiaSkye]

Face-slapping. I hate it, even though it doesn't really *hurt* as much as it *upsets*. I'm into the mindfuck and can do lots of acts of humiliation, on both sides of the flogger, but for whatever reason slapping someone's face (or having mine slapped) is just well beyond what I'm comfortable with doing. It's too personal, too intimately attacking, and it isn't at all erotic to, or for, me.

RS
Resident Alien

 

[Lord David]

I think this is my first post on these here boards so erm... to start with hi .

Now.. I'm with everyone on the tickling, I hate being tickled (in fact I think the only thing I hate more than that are spiders... I'm a bad arachnaphobic... *shudders*).

My Mum (yup, English dude here) and some of my sister's friends did/do tickle me at times... My Mum and some of my sister's friends learnt swiftly not to do it, as I literally lose control of my limbs... so far my Mum's ended up with cracked ribs, and one of my sister's friends got a black eye... literally because I just lose control from tickling.

Last time I ended up grabbing my sisters friend and just dropping to the floor with him... which ended up with me ramming his hand straight into the bin... and that was just because I lost control due to it. He learnt not to tickle me quickly.

But yeah... I HATE tickling... (but as you can tell, I LOVE rambling, hehe)

 

[MissTaken]

Welcome to the forum, Lord David.

I had noticed you on other forums and wondered if and when you would join us

Ummm we will remember not to do the koochie koochie coooo thing with you as part of your intiation.

(I, for one, like my ribs as they are!)

 

[Lord David]

Welcome to the forum, Lord David.

I had noticed you on other forums and wondered if and when you would join us

Ummm we will remember not to do the koochie koochie coooo thing with you as part of your intiation.

(I, for one, like my ribs as they are!)

Hehe, yeah, I never really posted due to the fact I never had anything to say (I hate people who post when they don't actually have an important point to make at least somewhere in their post, and are just posting because "they can").

As for the kicking thing... the people who didn't know about it, I always apoligise to immediatly afterwards... I've stopped apoligising to my Mum when she does it and I end up lashing out, simply for the fact that by now, she should know better, all things considering, heh.

 

[justgem]

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[serijules]

Re: rethinking......

it described tying and blindfolding your sub. then making an art out of the tickling. not the continue-tickling-your-ribs-til-you-want to-punch-me-in-anger tickling... but light teasing unexpected brushes of the fingertips in highly ticklish sensitive areas, never consentrating on one area too long. using soft fur pieces, feathers, paint brushes. building anticipation. finally adding a pointed goose feather to tease around the base of the clit. then just as the "ticklee" begins to "rise".... returning to the light random unexpected tickling again...doing this over and over......

hmmmmm, made me think....ok, tickling might not be THAT bad

bw

gem

I don't even consider this tickling, I consider it plain old erotic, sensual touching. I rarely laugh or even giggle at this kind of touching, more like squirming and moaning and arching my back up in lust type of thing. I agree with you on one thing tho...that isn't that bad at all *grin*

 

[serijules]

I think this is my first post on these here boards so erm... to start with hi .

Now.. I'm with everyone on the tickling, I hate being tickled (in fact I think the only thing I hate more than that are spiders... I'm a bad arachnaphobic... *shudders*).

Hi Lord David

I'm extremely arachnaphobic too...and have much the same reaction as I do to tickling...really violently, nearly uncontrollable fear. I remember once when I was about 16, I was cleaning the living room in my parents house, and there was a spider in it's web on the ledge on the wall. It took me nearly 30 minutes to get the courage to suck the damn thing into the vacumn. Once I did, I panicked, threw down the vacumn (still running) and ran upstairs screaming bloody murder.

I'm so pathetic *goofy grin*

Sometimes I almost consider tickling a fear and I panic even at the thought. I wonder if there is a term for fear of tickling?

 

[cellis]

Face-slapping. I hate it, even though it doesn't really *hurt* as much as it *upsets*. I'm into the mindfuck and can do lots of acts of humiliation, on both sides of the flogger, but for whatever reason slapping someone's face (or having mine slapped) is just well beyond what I'm comfortable with doing. It's too personal, too intimately attacking, and it isn't at all erotic to, or for, me.

RS
Resident Alien

I did not even know this was something I did not like until recently. It just never came up between us and then the other day He slapped my face lightly and then asked me if I liked that and then did it again just a little harder.

I told Him no, no I did not like that.

We won't be doing that again anytime soon.

 

[serijules]

I'm the opposite on the face-slapping thing...I find it very erotic. But then again, I am very much into discipline and punishment settings, and face slapping fits into that mood very well.

However, it can't be an all-out, backhanded slap that knocks me off my feet or anything like that. One time I swore in front of a dom and he quietly took my chin in his hand and slapped his other hand firmly across my cheek, made me look in his eyes, and told me never to talk like that in front of him again. Just one single, firm slap. I felt my whole body flush and my heartbeat quicken, it was very humiliating, but rather erotic too, for both of us.

I can completely understand how it is a violation to some people, and I definatly would feel that way if it wasn't done in the right context or done overly forcefully or repeatedly, but done right, with the right intentions and moderate force, it was pretty erotic for me and very much a turn on.

 

[maddi]

I was slapped once by a man and I will never allow myself to be slapped again even in play. That so violates me that I want to scream abuse. (Now I would not do that I would explain it calmly that it should never be done again.)

Men can use me almost anywhich way orally, vaginally or anally - spank me or flog me (not too hard) and I can take it and even to the greater extent enjoy it but slap me in the face and I am done.

I forgot that I had this line. It seems that these are things we should discuss ahead of time, hey? (Can't you tell I was a Northern Midwesterner)

Maddi