I Need to Vent

[Lancecastor]

If we set goals and have done everything to see them to fruition only to find that it just doesn't happen, generally, in the words of my mom, "It wasn't meant to be."

Another good piece of advice for Lavvy from a senior member of the Cluque.

Maybe you could take a cruise! Here's one for you....


http://www.act-one.org/flyers/Cruise_Nights/Lowered_Expectations.jpg

 

[MissTaken]

Another good piece of advice for Lavvy from a senior member of the Cluque.

Maybe you could take a cruise! Here's one for you....


http://www.act-one.org/flyers/Cruise_Nights/Lowered_Expectations.jpg

Thanks!

I will pass though.

There is a difference between lowering your expectations and becoming realistic in your expectations.

I know that try as I might, I will never be the starting Center for the Toronto Maple Leafs.

Gotta run...Have a great day all.

 

[estevie]

Oh come on, Estevie...you know she's whining again...she always does whenever the credit cards are maxed out and an assignment is due.

Whining university students....especially spoiled ones from wealthy families...need a swift kick in the arse now and then to keep them from slipping into complete Republican narcissism.

C'mon...kick her a little....you'll like it! Tell her she should quit school and work at WalMart with Frimost until she pays daddy back and learns the real value of a dollar and hard work....c'mon....it'll be good for her character!

Lance

What, somehow Lav is different than everybody else in the world? Why is she not allowed to whine? To feel vulnerable? To be scared?

What the hell is the matter with you? I just don't get your unstoppable need to 'kick her a little'?

She will learn her life lessons without you slapping her face at every turn.

 

[Lancecastor]

What, somehow Lav is different than everybody else in the world? Why is she not allowed to whine? To feel vulnerable? To be scared?

What the hell is the matter with you? I just don't get your unstoppable need to 'kick her a little'?

She will learn her life lessons without you slapping her face at every turn.

Bah. Humbug. She's an android, built for this sort of thing.

If you don't kick her three days a month she goes rogue.

 

[Dillinger]

Lavy - you know how to get a hold of me. It would be my pleasure to help you in any way I can.

 

[Lancecastor]

Thanks!

I will pass though.

There is a difference between lowering your expectations and becoming realistic in your expectations.

I know that try as I might, I will never be the starting Center for the Toronto Maple Leafs.

Gotta run...Have a great day all.

I didn't mean you, I meant Lavvy after she quits law school and starts a rewarding career in the fast paced world of food service management.



http://www.mcdonalds.com/countries/usa/careers/expect/img/spotless_big.jpg

 

[estevie]

Bah. Humbug. She's an android, built for this sort of thing.

If you don't kick her three days a month she goes rogue.

Bah! You kick her all month long!


And you've been unusally cruel lately. What the hell is that all about?

 

[Lancecastor]

Bah! You kick her all month long!


And you've been unusally cruel lately. What the hell is that all about?

You're just buying her latest sulk.

 

[ksmybuttons]

Lavy. I am sorry reaching your goal has to effect others. The reality is it always does and often times it hurts. I think the main thing to remember is to try and let everyone get through with their dignity and integrity intact. If someone else gets their feelings hurt and lashes out, I try to not make it worse. Someone can hate me, but I want to be able to say (even though they won't) that I handled the situation with class.

 

[Lancecastor]

Not sure that she is a "LOON" But it would appear that she is a spoiled little girl, who has had much handed to her.

No details of this latest "crisis" have been offered as yet....except that Daddy has been called for money.

Last week it was a huge tearful thread over a flat tire...you'd think she'd just lost her leg in a thresher. Remember?

So this week my guess is it's something like "Well, I have to blow off my fairweather friends who already put a deposit on a chalet in Aspen for Break, because Daddy has offered to fly me and the Mouse to Mardi Gras!!"

Yep, another fuckin' wank n yank on your supply of emoticons.

Ha!

 

[estevie]

You're just buying her latest sulk.

Bullshit.

Lav and I are hardly friends.


I don't care that she whines, I don't care that she sulks. We all do it. In my eyes she is no different than any of us. You are the one who puts her above the rest. You are the one that points it out when she shows the slightest vulnerablity. You wait for it. Like she is exposing some deep dark secret that no one else has ever felt. You then take those insecurities and badger her at every turn with them.

I don't have to be friends with Lav to say enough is enough, Lance.

 

[Marxist]

Lance's unexamined need to play daddy to women who deny him is pathological.

 

[busybody..]

Maybe if she didnt shit on so many......so often....

We would be a bit more receptive to her WHINES!!!!!!!!

Is she French, BTW?

Is her Father a MAN? That explains her looniness!

 

[cymbidia]

Lance's unexamined need to play daddy to women who deny him is pathological.

Nice pic, Marxist, and hello. I had one of me up for about 10 minutes last night as a gesture of complete and utter overwhelming gratitude for the many truly good people here.

I've never had anyone on ignore except for yayati (on and off many times, currently off)(though all his incarnations are on) and that strange KinkyLOVE chick from a year or two back. However, Lance is there. As so many have told me, enough of his drivel gets quoted so that i can see into his warped and ugly soul all i like. Some things, some people, simply don't change. He's one of them. I feel sorry for him but not enough to let him hound me and make my life totally unbearable like he did last summer.

 

[Marxist]

Nice pic, Marxist, and hello. I had one of me up for about 10 minutes last night as a gesture of complete and utter overwhelming gratitude for the many truly good people here.

I've never had anyone on ignore except for yayati (on and off many times, currently off)(though all his incarnations are on) and that strange KinkyLOVE chick from a year or two back. However, Lance is there. As so many have told me, enough of his drivel gets quoted so that i can see into his warped and ugly soul all i like. Some things, some people, simply don't change. He's one of them. I feel sorry for him but not enough to let him hound me and make my life totally unbearable like he did last summer.

Cym, nice to see you around again.

The thing about Lance is that he's correct in a way that no one really cares about.

BTW--That's Byron Allen in my avatar. We're virtual twins.

 

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[lavender]

lavender: whats the matter....have u got webcam? maybe i could cheer u up with a live-web cam strip tease...

Thanks for the offer, bro. But I don't think I can accept.

Thanks to everyone here for their words of kindness and support.

 

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[Mellon Collie]

I hope you feel better Lav. We both know how intelligent you are, I'm sure everything will work out for the best.

 

[Rhys]

I love my Lavender.

You know where to find me doll...

 

[70/30]

It is hard to ween off of Nicoderm---even if there are 3 steps. I suggest switching to Levi Garrett, then try to kick that with Jerky Chaw, sunflower seeds, and PBR.

 

[lavender]

It is hard to ween off of Nicoderm---even if there are 3 steps. I suggest switching to Levi Garrett, then try to kick that with Jerky Chaw, sunflower seeds, and PBR.

Ah, you made me think of Tori.

"She's addicted to nicotine patches."

 

[busybody..]

Hey LOONEY LAV

Beat up some MEN...it will make you feel better

 

[cymbidia]

cymbidia: the net is just the net...it shudnt make ur life hell....cut it loose if it does....some ppl may make jokes, fool ard etc...but its just that.... jokes....

Thanks, yayati, and you're right.
That's why i've been gone for months--i needed a really big chunk of time off after last summer's debacle.

The net should be fun, mostly.
Our Lit time should be more fun then not-fun.
If it starts hurting us then it's time for a break.
Easy to say, harder to do--but definitely not impossible.

edit:
lavy, you've got a lot on your plate, chica, and more coming down the road in a speedy way. Just a suggestion, and it's something you already know: Do that which makes you feel the best and prioritize down from there by actual, physical, in-your-real-life need.
xoxoxo
b.