I need men...

[sophia jane]

for character research, that is.

I am probably going to be doing a series that will involve me writing from the male pov. I haven't done this before, and I'm nervous. So I thought I'd do a little guy research before I start. And please, don't tell me every guy is different. I just want some generalities.
What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?
If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?
If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

If you don't want to answer this stuff on the board, I'd be glad for pm's. I'd also be glad to hear from women who know alot about men . My experience has been limited to one man for the last nine years, and he isn't very descriptive or talkative about this stuff.

Thanks so much!!!

SJ

 

[NoJo]

for character research, that is.

I am probably going to be doing a series that will involve me writing from the male pov. I haven't done this before, and I'm nervous. So I thought I'd do a little guy research before I start. And please, don't tell me every guy is different. I just want some generalities.
What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?
If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?
If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

If you don't want to answer this stuff on the board, I'd be glad for pms. I'd also be glad to hear from women who know alot about men . My experience has been limited to one man for the last nine years, and he isn't very descriptive or talkative about this stuff.

Thanks so much!!!

SJ

Your avatar has a nice bottom. Hope this helps.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

for character research, that is.


What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?

You mean you don't know?!

So it is true what they say about women!

 

[Guest]

for character research, that is.

. . . What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?

My experience has been limited to one man for the last nine years, and he isn't very descriptive or talkative about this stuff.

Thanks so much!!!

SJ

And so, apparently, are the men who replied thus far.

Tsk tsk, Joe and Mab.

C'mon, guys.

Do you enjoy being kissed, fondled, licked, tongued, sucked, pinched, bitten, slapped . . .

Oh, I could go on for hours.

 

[NoJo]

If you could go on for hours, then you're not a man.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

for character research, that is.

Okay. Non-wiseass version:

What turns you on during sex? A responsive woman.

What do you like women to do? respond.

What makes sex more exciting? Responsiveness

Yes, responsiveness, 14 simple letters. Moaning and sighing, gasping and groaning, writhing and panting, kissing, squeezing, caressing; eyes rolling up into her head, eyelids fluttering, even drooling is fine. Showing me that she loves what I'm doing and she wants more. That's all it takes to make me feel like the greatest lover in the world and make me want to fuck her tits off. She doesn't need 44 DD's or movie star looks. Give me a woman who shudders when you touch her and I don't need anything else.

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?

Well, speaking for myself, I'd immediately get the ropes, because a woman in bondage just does it for me. I'm so visually attuned to BDSM cues that just a choker around her neck sets me off.

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

Same deal. Tie her up and play with her and eat her till she was out of her mind with lust.


Thanks so much!!!
No, Thank you!

 

[ElizabethWest]

I'd be glad for pms.

Sorry SJ. Obviously I'm not a man but I can't get past the fact that you are happy about PMS!!

 

[sophia jane]

Sorry SJ. Obviously I'm not a man but I can't get past the fact that you are happy about PMS!!

Lol. Thanks for pointing out how I worded that. I'll go edit now.

SJ

 

[NoJo]

And please, don't tell me every guy is different. I just want some generalities.

SJ

Generalites: OK, but it won't help much. Men are more into fetishes. Men want to have sex with more than one woman.

These can be taken care of by a single, long term partner. Role-playing is the key. The details are impossible to generalize.

 

[rgraham666]

Myself, I like a woman to enjoy it.

I never, ever want her to act as though she's doing it for my benefit.

If you want to know what I like read my stories. I put a lot of myself into them.

 

[msboy8]

SJ, you really don't need men persee, you want to pick our brains!

Therein lies the first truth, Men will fall for anything different. Men came up with, "This drink tastes horrible, here try it." Which the other guy will do. 90% of the time.

Men are very into roleplaying. They don't really want to fuck a school girl. They want you to dress up as one.

They don't really want virgins, they want experience and a partner that likes doing anything to please her guy.

They, mostly, like being in-charge 100% or they want to be 100% obediant, no inbetween. Of course, this is MF relationships, in MM relationships all bets are off.

Naturally this is all IMHO. You will never find 2 guys who agree 100% on the same things.

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

What turns you on during sex?

Reactions, of course that's just natural. The chickie being physically attractive. Engagement--pawing and fucking back. Talking, willingness to do different things. If she's a virgin, even hotter. If she's hesitant, shy, embarrassed... even better.

What do you like women to do?

I like the blow job. I'm a big fan of my cock, very proud of it, like showin' it off. Not necessarily to completion, but I like her to spend a little time in the ole cock worship. I like hands on my back. I like feet on my back. I like her to be vocal, even explicit.

What makes sex more exciting?

Violence. Forceful direction. Narration during.

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?

I don't know that I know how to answer that.

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

The humpty-rumpty.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

for character research, that is.

I am probably going to be doing a series that will involve me writing from the male pov. I haven't done this before, and I'm nervous. So I thought I'd do a little guy research before I start. And please, don't tell me every guy is different. I just want some generalities.

Okay, let's see if I can't hep out some.

What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?

Well, as Dr. M. said, responsiveness is important, and so is being more involved. Laying there and taking it is boring. If you're not having fun, say something. Suggest something that has worked in the past, or that you've always wanted to try.
Aside from that.. Well, oral sex is great, not just by itself, but even as part of foreplay. I rarely want to reach orgasm that way, but it's great to lay back a bit and just enjoy the sensations that lead up to it.
A little openness is good as well. If she's uncomfortable with her body, it carries over to how good the sex is and can also make me uncomfortable. I start thinking: will it freak her out if I do this? Will she be more uncomfortable if I compliment her, or will it make things easier? When your having sex, you really don't want to think much, and evaluating (especially over-evaluating) gets in the way. The term openness probably wasn't the best choice, but I guess this is just an extension of what I said about saying something already, anyway.
What makes it more exciting? Variety. Same as with women. Not necessarily other people, but new things and a good mix of the old things. Sex outdoors (not necessarily in public, but where there's a small chance you'll be seen), in nature. Different positions (sometimes, even if it's not your favorite, a position is good just because it's not common).
Um.. Having my nipples bit a little doesn't exactly kill the mood either.

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?

To give her the reigns and lay back. I wouldn't want some crazy girl who wants to shove firewood up my ass (or anything else for that matter) but to just do what she says, to be instructed, in all truth, to do exactly what she wants me to do, and to be treated like more of an object. It's a confidence kind of thing. She's saying "Look, this will work; the pressure's off you. Just do this." Inexperience equals insecurities, and they suck when you need to just be comfortable with who you are and what you're doing and go with the flow.
Basically, I'm overextending that whole talk to me thing, but it seems to be an area where women are strongly lacking in most of the time.

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

G-Spot orgasm. I've got the safety goggles ready, just in case.

Hope that helps some,

Q_C

 

[TheEarl]

for character research, that is.

I am probably going to be doing a series that will involve me writing from the male pov. I haven't done this before, and I'm nervous. So I thought I'd do a little guy research before I start. And please, don't tell me every guy is different. I just want some generalities.
What turns you on during sex? What do you like women to do? What makes sex more exciting?
If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?
If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

If you don't want to answer this stuff on the board, I'd be glad for pm's. I'd also be glad to hear from women who know alot about men . My experience has been limited to one man for the last nine years, and he isn't very descriptive or talkative about this stuff.

Thanks so much!!!

SJ

Agreeing with Dr M. If I'm not getting any kind of response, then I assume that I'm doing something wrong. The sexiest thing in the world is a woman who gasps and groan, who arches her back at the touch of your fingers, raising herself towards your tongue.

If I were to experiment with a partner, then it would probably be with the common or gardens first - handcuffs, spanking, etc. If it helps, I've written a couple of stories about a couple who experiment (no, that is not a blatant plug, I'm being helpful). Use Your Imagination

What I like women to do? Well, I love a woman who's willing to bite and scratch a little. There is nothing sexier to me than a girl who'll bite in just the right places on my earlobe and down my neck. The trick to spotting them - If I groan and go 'Oh God, yes!' you've probably hit one of them.

The Earl

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

God invented cock so women would have something to worship while not in Church.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Reading your question again, it occurs to me that maybe you're looking for specific actions a woman might perform that would tell a man he's got a hot one on his hands, rather than just general qualities like responsiveness or enthusiasm.

If so, I might suggest some of my personal favorites:

--Running her nails along your thigh (nothing like the feel of a woman clawing at your pants)

--Hair pulling. (I love it. It shows she's passionate and doesn't mind playing rough)

--Leg-riding. Any sort of hip action from a woman while we're making out drives me mad.

--Unbuttoning your clothes/chest kissing/nipple biting. (She's a fucking animal! Lucky you!)

--Masturbation. I'm a big fan of the lowly hand-job, probably the least respected sexual activity there is. I love that sense of helplessness I get when a woman takes my prick in her hand and starts to pump me. It's as good as a blowjob and without all the power politics.

--Extra Credit: taking your hand and putting it where she wants it. That just floors me

--Double Extra Credit: masturbating herself using your hand. That's where I redline.

 

[Wildcard Ky]

IMO one of the biggest turn ons is for the woman to be completely uninhibited. She has no problems saying or doing what she wants. She's not thinking about it, she's just reacting to her impulses. She is assertive in her wants and needs. She doesn't wait for the man to make the move, or hope that he does something she likes.

Raw, uninhibited passion.

 

[yui]

G-Spot orgasm. I've got the safety goggles ready, just in case.

Hope that helps some,

Q_C

Get your safety goggles and let's talk, Q_C...

What I like women to do? Well, I love a woman who's willing to bite and scratch a little. There is nothing sexier to me than a girl who'll bite in just the right places on my earlobe and down my neck. The trick to spotting them - If I groan and go 'Oh God, yes!' you've probably hit one of them.

The Earl

The urge to bite you after that paragraph is almost overwhelming.






Thank you for this thread, SJ! There is some excellent info here.

 

[minsue]

If you could go on for hours, then you're not a man.

You owe me a monitor cleaning, Joe

 

[carsonshepherd]

God invented cock so women would have something to worship while not in Church.

*sprays keyboard with yet more beer*

 

[Joe Wordsworth]

Show me a woman whose not jealous of another woman, and I'll show you a man.

Heh, I love that line.

 

[Lovepotion69]

If so, I might suggest some of my personal favorites:

--Running her nails along your thigh (nothing like the feel of a woman clawing at your pants)

--Hair pulling. (I love it. It shows she's passionate and doesn't mind playing rough)

--Leg-riding. Any sort of hip action from a woman while we're making out drives me mad.

--Unbuttoning your clothes/chest kissing/nipple biting. (She's a fucking animal! Lucky you!)

--Masturbation. I'm a big fan of the lowly hand-job, probably the least respected sexual activity there is. I love that sense of helplessness I get when a woman takes my prick in her hand and starts to pump me. It's as good as a blowjob and without all the power politics.

--Extra Credit: taking your hand and putting it where she wants it. That just floors me

--Double Extra Credit: masturbating herself using your hand. That's where I redline.

I shouldn't read this after being out clubbing. Alcohol and dancing gets me horny. At least if I go by Dr M's list I'm doing very well in the "hotting a man up" department. Just need to remember those extra credits actions...

 

[carsonshepherd]

Show me a woman whose not jealous of another woman, and I'll show you a man.

Heh, I love that line.

When I laugh at your posts, I feel so dirty...

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Special thanks to Earl and Doc, I think I need a cold shower now.

 

[Rumple Foreskin]

Okay Sophia, one Texan to another, this is my best shot.

As you said, all men are different. BUT, that difference isn't just randomly generated. As a rule, the more education a person has, whether male or female, the greater chance they will experiment sexually. To the best of my knowledge, the amount of education is the only significant variable.

I have a master's degree. My wife has two. Judge accordingly.

What turns you on during sex?
RF: I agree with Doc. Responsiveness. Knowing I'm doing something right and making my partner happy is the ultimate turn-on for me.

What do you like women to do?
RF: Take the lead. Touch me. Smile

What makes sex more exciting?
RF: Being spontaneous, trying new things, doing it in different places

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?
RF: Screwing a couple cheerleaders I knew at center court of an empty basketball gym.

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?
RF: Probably multiple partners.

Rumple Foreskin