yeah, rhythm is a hard one...men, and women too, respond to rhythm. Keeping that up can mean the difference between a gushing orgasm, and a long drawn out disappointment...
I find that when I need to keep a rhythm I have to keep my mind on what I'm doing. Don't let it wonder. When your body gets set in that repetitive motion your mind can start to wonder off and your body will follow. Keep your mind on what you are doing. Some times I even go as far as thinking of something that has the same rhythm of what I'm doing to help me keep everything together. I know it's a sort of a vague response, but everyone’s mind, and body are different and they require different stimuli to perform.
It can be hard to talk to your lover, but try to give him options...
how does that feel?
do you like this.... or this...?
show me what you like, movie my hands....
can I put my fingers up your ass? (to bring in the other posts.
(and by the way, that feels great!)
I find that when I need to keep a rhythm I have to keep my mind on what I'm doing. Don't let it wonder. When your body gets set in that repetitive motion your mind can start to wonder off and your body will follow. Keep your mind on what you are doing. Some times I even go as far as thinking of something that has the same rhythm of what I'm doing to help me keep everything together. I know it's a sort of a vague response, but everyone’s mind, and body are different and they require different stimuli to perform.
It can be hard to talk to your lover, but try to give him options...
how does that feel?
do you like this.... or this...?
show me what you like, movie my hands....
can I put my fingers up your ass? (to bring in the other posts.
(and by the way, that feels great!)
