I Love Masturbating!

[Mrs Peel]

Originally posted by Sobesundevil
i think that it's nature that determines what frequency of sound we're most fond of tuning in to, and for me it's the female kind. male sex sounds are simply gross to me, and i would be cautious about subjecting my woman to them.

Maybe so, but what if it's also nature that causes your woman to be really aroused by your sounds? What if you talked to her about it and she said that she'd REALLY love to hear your version of Ron Jeremy?

 

[sobesundevil]

Maybe so, but what if it's also nature that causes your woman to be really aroused by your sounds? What if you talked to her about it and she said that she'd REALLY love to hear your version of Ron Jeremy?

if my version of ron jeremy sounds was the thing that stood between her and some crazy large orgasm, and there was absolutely no other way she could get there, then i suppose it'd be upon me to start being more vocal. in practice, however, it seems that my partners can reach orgasms even if i remain quiet (my goodness, imagine that! ). what if i just don't like being loud? that sounds like a good candidate to practice that whole mutual respect thing that we talk about so much...

 

[Mrs Peel]

Originally posted by Sobesundevil
if my version of ron jeremy sounds was the thing that stood between her and some crazy large orgasm, and there was absolutely no other way she could get there, then i suppose it'd be upon me to start being more vocal. in practice, however, it seems that my partners can reach orgasms even if i remain quiet (my goodness, imagine that! ). what if i just don't like being loud? that sounds like a good candidate to practice that whole mutual respect thing that we talk about so much...

It wasn't my intention to attack you, and I apologize if I did.

 

[eivissa]

Well, this is my second post on this forum and I have to admit that I am a masturbation addict... I just cant do it enough, even when sex is on offer to me!

I spent most of the last weekend doing things "one-handed"!

 

[sobesundevil]

Well, this is my second post on this forum and I have to admit that I am a masturbation addict... I just cant do it enough, even when sex is on offer to me!

I spent most of the last weekend doing things "one-handed"!

even washing dishes?

 

[sobesundevil]

It wasn't my intention to attack you, and I apologize if I did.

no, i didn't feel attacked. you'd have to do better than that!

again, i just find male sex sounds really gross. if you ladies like them, more power to you and your vocal lovers! me... well, i can probably think of bigger turn-offs than male sex sounds, but they would be really scary.

so you're telling me that if you were watching porn, and the male actor was grunting and moaning, that would turn you on? what about if, in the same porn, the female actress was grunting and moaning, what would that do to you?

 

[eivissa]

even washing dishes?

The dishes had to wait! ;o)

 

[sobesundevil]

The dishes had to wait! ;o)

do you even know how many times i've sneaked up on my girlfriends while they were busy in the kitchen doing something, just to put my hand on her ass and breasts, and try to slip in further between her legs... i don't have a kitchen fetish and i am not chauvinistic - hell, i insist on cooking myself actually - but somehow or other it just presents such fabulous opportunities!

maybe it has something to do with kitchen counters set at just the right height so that if she leans on them and spreads her legs, her pussy is in perfect position to be stroked, fingered, licked, and fucked... sorry, i'm getting carried away. this is a masturbation topic!

it's actually quite convenient for having me get on my knees behind her and finger her g-spot...

 

[rollergirl4real]

Well for starters I would feel very VERY uncomfortable talking to my daughter about sex, more less getting herself off. I think that it would be a good thing for kids to know about as a safe alternative to sex/ But at the same time I would not really want to know that she was and if we discussed it then she probablly will be. well hell I know she will be but I want to know absolutely nothing about it. I don't want her to know that I do and vice versa. Kids today know WAY to muc habout sex and adult situations as it is. I think it is important to have an open door of communication so that if she feels she needs to know about something she can come to me. And if she asks me a question i don't pussyfoot around the answer. Complete honesty is the key i do believe.

 

[LuvAznNurses]

OK i believe men a natural quite. When we were younger like when ever you first heard of masturbation and did it guys. that you are supposed to be quite and not let anyone know what you are doing. So by the time they are having sex they still have the dont let anyone know feeling. Also for me moaning and talking will get to cum alot faster than if i just go to work. For girls i cant say much on, but i think that no one ever told you too much about masturbation and so when you found out about it that it felt natural to moan or you could have experience porn and thought oh that lady is moaning and what not thant thats what i should do. but either way you get to the same city... orgasmvile.

 

[jacuzzigal]

Complete honesty is the key i do believe.

Me too. Maybe it's worth a moment or two (or three or thirty five)of uncomfortability to be honest and help kids...

 

[Darkknight2010]

And if she asks me a question i don't pussyfoot around the answer. Complete honesty is the key i do believe.

I admire you for doing that. Considering we're all on a site dedicated to sex, we ALL enjoy it a LOT, but we also know the pitfalls of exploring your sexuality, too. I hope, if I have kids, that I can get past the blushing and everything and say 'yes, this is a good idea' or 'you probably don't want to do that'.

 

[jacuzzigal]

we also know the pitfalls of exploring your sexuality, too. I hope, if I have kids, that I can get past the blushing and everything and say 'yes, this is a good idea' or 'you probably don't want to do that'.

Me too!

And maybe, just maybe, some of those pitfalls can be averted....

 

[Zephreck]

Fairly vocal..

Since the discussion has turned towards men and thier lack of sounds expressed I figured I would chime in my thoughts.

About 4 years ago I started dating a lady that lived about an hour away. We spent every weekend together just wasnt' able to be with each other during the week. She also dealed with overcoming some sexual frustrations (tough for her to let go and have orgasms). In order to work on those issues some alot of time was spent by me to get her to open up. The only way I could do that was that I had to first. In the beginning she would have me lay beside her and to fantasize. The catch was I had to verbalize what I was fantasizing while masterbating. After my first orgasm she would try to do the same but typically it would involve me going down on her while she told me about whatever fantasies she had on her mind.

I found that over time as we got more comfortable with our own sexuality and with each other that just naturally we become more "vocal" and more "loud". Neither of us were screaming or anything but definately was vocal and expressive. I also noticed that when I started allowing myself to be louder and more expressive that my orgasms became harder as well.

I love the sounds a woman makes and through discussion found she loved the sounds I made as well. Wanting to please her actually gave me a motivation to be more natural in my expressing the feelings I had. I think the audible part of sex is sometimes overlooked. Seems most of advertising in today's societies pushes visual cues and stimulation but for myself audible is very important.

Overtime as we spent more time together and through phone sex during the week when we couldn't be together it just sort of naturally evolved so that whenever she was there or not now whenever I masterbate I am naturally vocal and to some degree "loud". Typically in the evening I will have about 3 orgasms or so through masterbation unless I am with a lover that night and seems as they progress and get stronger as I follow one with another that I get a bit louder with each as well.

Everyone is different though I think.

 

[wesman790]

I too love masturbation. If only there was a woman to join me in my favorite passtime.

 

[Darkknight2010]

Re: Fairly vocal..

I love the sounds a woman makes and through discussion found she loved the sounds I made as well. Wanting to please her actually gave me a motivation to be more natural in my expressing the feelings I had. I think the audible part of sex is sometimes overlooked. Seems most of advertising in today's societies pushes visual cues and stimulation but for myself audible is very important.

So true. It's fun to watch it, but HEARING it is also a huge turn-on for me. I thnk part of it too is that it seems like you're truely interacting when you're vocal with your partner.

I was never much into being 'loud' during sex until I had a g-f who was VERY vocal... not just loud, but loved saying how things felt, what she wanted, it was such an erotic experience. Ever since, I try and do the same thing.

 

[strokerGuY]

i luv to jerk off ....

im new here and must admit after reading through this i am hard and needing to jerk off right now as i type. i luv to masturbate and luv finding other horny ladies that like to as well. this has got me very hard so i must go stroke myself and cum, id luv to get in contact with any of you ladies that luv to pleasure yourselves, get a hold of me, ......

 

[Image]

Re: Fairly vocal..

Since the discussion has turned towards men and thier lack of sounds expressed I figured I would chime in my thoughts.

About 4 years ago I started dating a lady that lived about an hour away. We spent every weekend together just wasnt' able to be with each other during the week. She also dealed with overcoming some sexual frustrations (tough for her to let go and have orgasms). In order to work on those issues some alot of time was spent by me to get her to open up. The only way I could do that was that I had to first. In the beginning she would have me lay beside her and to fantasize. The catch was I had to verbalize what I was fantasizing while masterbating. After my first orgasm she would try to do the same but typically it would involve me going down on her while she told me about whatever fantasies she had on her mind.

I found that over time as we got more comfortable with our own sexuality and with each other that just naturally we become more "vocal" and more "loud". Neither of us were screaming or anything but definately was vocal and expressive. I also noticed that when I started allowing myself to be louder and more expressive that my orgasms became harder as well.

I love the sounds a woman makes and through discussion found she loved the sounds I made as well. Wanting to please her actually gave me a motivation to be more natural in my expressing the feelings I had. I think the audible part of sex is sometimes overlooked. Seems most of advertising in today's societies pushes visual cues and stimulation but for myself audible is very important.

Overtime as we spent more time together and through phone sex during the week when we couldn't be together it just sort of naturally evolved so that whenever she was there or not now whenever I masterbate I am naturally vocal and to some degree "loud". Typically in the evening I will have about 3 orgasms or so through masterbation unless I am with a lover that night and seems as they progress and get stronger as I follow one with another that I get a bit louder with each as well.

Everyone is different though I think.

I'm a talker too... It is incredibly liberating And during masturbation I can really let go

Talk about singing in the shower!

Hiya Zeph

 

[Zephreck]

Concerning the shower..

The shower can be especially nice.. a good place to masterbate due to the water caressing over one's body. The feeling of water flowing down my shoulders can almost simulate that of a lover's touch caressing my back and I can almost imagine your whispering in my ear to caress for you.

Feel your hands running over my back and shoulders as my hands slowly caress first the head and then the shaft slowly imagining it being kissed by the soft warmth of your flesh...

Oh yes the shower is a very wonderful place.. plus it drowns out a bit of the noise one makes when the orgasm finally hits your spine and flows through your body so fast that in the end you don't know if you have screamed or not.. you just realize your mouth is open and your head is leaned back... and your heart is racing in your chest.

Yes the shower is nice indeed.

 

[Image]

You certainly have a way with words...

I like to shower in the dark

Total, can't see your hands in front of your face, jet black, only feeling sensations, eyes opened, mind opened... dark

 

[jacuzzigal]

Re: Re: Fairly vocal..

So true. It's fun to watch it, but HEARING it is also a huge turn-on for me. I thnk part of it too is that it seems like you're truely interacting when you're vocal with your partner.

Amen, Knight. It's not as erotic to me when there isn't as much expression or interaction....

 

[jmmitch80]

Masturbating in the shower

I agree Image, I love to masturbate in the shower, especiall yin the dark. It is so sensual and completely erotic just focusing on the feelings and sensations, letting everything else go.

 

[toonice]

All the time. On the phone or with one or two woman. Just about anywhere. I have lost count how many. One time with mother and sister. It all started because of my sister.

 

[hob_knob]

I cant get enough of masturbating. This forum resulted in masturbating 5 times yesterday and then fucking my girlfriend for 40 minutes.

I love mutual masturbation too but i dont get to do it very often oh and how i do adore phonesex. hearing the moans of another woman because of the words I say jus drives me wild.

i have lots of movies of me shooting my load. if any ladies out there are interested drop me a line x

 

[clubster]

Its very hard for me to type this with one had. I suppose this forum has that effect with most people on it.