Quoll
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Was having a discusion with someone over why they are into bdsm and such, where the need/want for this came from.
Anway for her it was a way of taking control of a particularly unpleasant childhood.
Now we all have likes and dislikes in our sexuality, so where do you think yours came from? Why do you think you have a need or desire for your special thing (refusing to say kink) or Fetish: (any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.)?
Was there something you can look back at and say "Yes this is why I like/do this"?
Anway for her it was a way of taking control of a particularly unpleasant childhood.
Now we all have likes and dislikes in our sexuality, so where do you think yours came from? Why do you think you have a need or desire for your special thing (refusing to say kink) or Fetish: (any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.)?
Was there something you can look back at and say "Yes this is why I like/do this"?
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