I know you too well to share my kinks.

[Endless_Night]

So not clicking on that link.

What are your sexual shortcomings?
I think there may be too many to list! I'm a directive submissive, so need a partner. I also fight against submission, so . . . .

How do you work around them?
Mostly I remain celibate. Mostly.

We focus a lot on what we’re attracted to, but how much time do you spend being attractive (whatever that means to you) to your partner?
Well, not much. (re: celibate) However, if involved with someone, I absolutely strive.

Are you good at asking your partner what they need to get off (without being that person who needs a Yelp rating after sex)?
Nope. I expect them to tell me.

Do you feel like you put more effort into sex than your partner? Or do they put more effort into your needs?
Into the actual sex? No. I am far too busy angsting about the whole sexual dynamic.

Also, again, not one to take the lead. I do try to communicate my needs and concerns.

If a potential partner doesn't like to be directive and in control we will not be sexually compatible.

If you could snap your fingers and have your partner really want to try something sexual, what would it be?
N/A

Do you ever sit down and talk about how to improve your partner’s sexual experience with you? Why not? Should you?
Absolutely! I am a chatty Cathy when it comes to that kind of stuff.

Does your partner want to try something that you just can’t do (for whatever reason)?
Vanilla sex.

What do YOU need to work on sexually to be better at it and be a more awesome fucker?
Well, I've recently spent time in therapy to better understand my insecurity surrounding submission and work towards taming my tendency to bolt.

Do you think it would be beneficial to have “practice sex”, where you just play with each other and instruct what you like and don’t like, so when it’s “real” you have a better experience?
I don't think that would work for me, due to my proclivities, but I think it's a great idea.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So not clicking on that link.

Totally safe link. It’s not a perfect match for the topic, but I thought it was funny.

I don't think that would work for me, due to my proclivities, but I think it's a great idea.

I love the idea of just having a no expectations fun little romp of learning and trying stuff.
It’s like a sex pop quiz!

 

[Endless_Night]

I love the idea of just having a no expectations fun little romp of learning and trying stuff.
It’s like a sex pop quiz!

I suspect few would not head directly to sex.

It would require a fair amount of . . . self control (?) to stick with exploration once the touching started.

 

[EvaLane]

I suspect few would not head directly to sex.

It would require a fair amount of . . . self control (?) to stick with exploration once the touching started.

Or many, many, many layers.

and a persuasive mouth

 

[hotwords229_A]

I suspect few would not head directly to sex.

It would require a fair amount of . . . self control (?) to stick with exploration once the touching started.

Or many, many, many layers.

and a persuasive mouth

I wouldn’t complain if anyone wanted to finish anyone off, but I think just going in with the idea of—“I want to eat your pussy better” Do you like this, or this, is this doing anything or I’m I just building tongue muscles to no end?

Or if she said, “I want to stick my finger in your ass while I suck you off”, okay, let’s try it. If it doesn’t work at least we had a good naked laugh.

This could be a great way to spend a lazy Sunday!

 

[Endless_Night]

This could be a great way to spend a lazy Sunday!

If feels like it might have a better chance with an established partner.

That first encounter has a tendency to be, umm . . .

on the urgent side?

 

[hotwords229_A]

If feels like it might have a better chance with an established partner.

That first encounter has a tendency to be, umm . . .

on the urgent side?

Absolutely. It would be odd on a first date.
This is definitely more suited for a second date.

 

[Endless_Night]

Absolutely. It would be odd on a first date.
This is definitely more suited for a second date.

So things move quickly in your world.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So things move quickly in your world.

In my pants, too!

 

[Endless_Night]

In my pants, too!

I feel like . . . .

I feel like that is always the state of your pants.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I feel like . . . .

I feel like that is always the state of your pants.

I should be a spokesman for Levi’s.
I can attest to their crotch strength.

 

[Endless_Night]

I should be a spokesman for Levi’s.
I can attest to their crotch strength.

So. Much. Information.


Oh! Have you seen that Levi's is making the original 501 jeans from the 1940s? As I understand it, Japan bought a bunch of the old looms and has put them back into production.

1947 501 Original Fit Men's Jeans

Pricey.

 

[hotwords229_A]

So. Much. Information.


Oh! Have you seen that Levi's is making the original 501 jeans from the 1940s? As I understand it, Japan bought a bunch of the old looms and has put them back into production.

1947 501 Original Fit Men's Jeans

Pricey.

That seems insane.
Also, I didn’t know they stopped making them. I thought their jeans were always the same.

 

[Endless_Night]

That seems insane.

It does seem a lot for Levis.

Also, I didn’t know they stopped making them. I thought their jeans were always the same.

Nope.

Maybe they are extra sexy jeans?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Maybe they are extra sexy jeans?

From 1947? Isn’t that before sex was invented?

 

[Endless_Night]

From 1947? Isn’t that before sex was invented?

I mean, I think we were both conceived after that date, so maybe?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I mean, I think we were both conceived after that date, so maybe?

If cartoons have taught me anything it’s that they used a stork back then.

 

[Endless_Night]

If cartoons have taught me anything it’s that they used a stork back then.

Cabbage patch?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Cabbage patch?

What?!

 

[Endless_Night]

What?!

You haven't heard that babies are found in cabbage patches?!

Finally. Something I know that you don't.

 

[hotwords229_A]

You haven't heard that babies are found in cabbage patches?!

Finally. Something I know that you don't.

I am completely unaware of this.

To my knowledge a drunken stork delivered all babies during the 1940s.

 

[Endless_Night]

I am completely unaware of this.

*struts*

I feel so sexually sophisticated.

To my knowledge a drunken stork delivered all babies during the 1940s.

Drunken?! Why drunken?

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Are you that person who gets naked easily at a party?

Not even close.

Do you have a friend who is more comfortable with nudity than you are?

I'm very comfortable with nudity... I have friends that are exhibitionists, though, so you could say yes.

All guys want to be surrounded by naked women, but what about women surrounded by naked men? That could be more intimidating, what is the safer ratio? 3 clothed women to 2 naked men? 1 naked man to 10 clothed women?

I would challenge that statement. And being surrounded by a bunch of naked dudes isn't my idea of a good time.

Do you wish you were more comfortable with your own nudity, or are you just comfortable enough with it?

I'm extremely comfortable with my own nudity. I'm at least partially naked when I'm at home.

What is the most naked people you have ever been around and what were the circumstances?

8. At someone's dungeon.

Do you want to see everyone on Lit naked? Have you? Is there still someone you hope will overcome their shyness?

Absolutely not. The people I want to see naked have not shown themselves to be shy.

Were you ever involved with any form of public nudity that got carried away? Details, please!

Nope.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Drunken?! Why drunken?

He was always drunk for some reason.

 

[Endless_Night]

And being surrounded by a bunch of naked dudes isn't my idea of a good time.

Right? It sounds vaguely threatening . . . .