I know this is going to sound crazy...

[qrayze]

...but hell, that's my name, isn't it?

Okay. A little history first. I was married to this great guy who was a great dad, and we got along very well together. We had a total of four major fights during our relationship; two before marriage, two after. Looking back at the nature of the two fights before marriage, I should've known not to marry him, but oh well, hindsight is always 20/20. The first major fight we had after marriage happened when our daughter was a little over one year old. He was upset that I didn't have a job and be a working mother. I guess he thought I wasn't contributing enough to the household? I countered that before we got married, we agreed that if we had kids I would be a stay-at-home mom since we believed that children need that kind of stability in their lives. Well, he didn't believe that anymore. So, I "thought" we compromised when we agreed that I would get a job when our daughter started elementary school. That blew over and I thought we were ok, but shortly after our daughter's second birthday, he started acting weird and wouldn't talk to me. A couple days of being clueless as to what was wrong with him was enough for me, and I confronted him. He then gave me the same, "you don't do anything, u should be working" stuff he gave me earlier. Because taking care of a child and an apt is doing nothing? Anyways, he said he didn't love me anymore , left, and we were divorced about a year later. (also, I have a bad memory and am easily distracted so I forget shit all the time and he was sick of it)

Now...for this issue I'm dealing with.

I've been sexting with this married guy who's cheated on his wife before. I even met him at his work one time to give him a bj. So, anyway, in my mind he's an asshole for even cheating on her, and I was starting to get really tired of hearing how much of a bitch she always is, so I asked him a couple days ago why he doesn't just divorce her so they could both move on. His reply was because they still love eachother and can be happy, they just no longer have sex. Ok...

Then the next day, he starts in on how much his wife sucks. Then I counter that she sucks but not enough that they aren't happy together? I told him he confused me. His answer was that he stays because of the kids, and doesn't want to miss being with them every day.

So, at this point, I can just feel the "please have pity on me" aura that surrounds every word in his texts. I'm thinking to myself that this guy is just like my ex. So I ask him if he's bought this book on marriage that I suggested to him over a month ago that I thought would really help his relationship. He had told me that her major complaint is that he doesn't make her feel like he cares about her. Of course, that would be hard to do when you're boffing your neighbor! The book is on the five love languages and if he could pinpoint his wife's, he could make her feel loved and appreciated, and in turn, she might become more affectionate. But, of course, he hasn't bought the book.

I also suggested talking to his wife, spelling out to her just what's in his head and that their marriage needs to be fixed. Because see, my ex never did that. While he was cheating on me, he let me believe that we had a great marriage and that everything was perfect. I didn't even know all the shit that bugged him until he exploded at me the night he left me. He didn't even give me a chance, ya know?

Now, I know it's weird to be giving marriage advice to a guy who I blew in my car just last week, but really, now, I'm just really pissed off at him because he won't leave his wife OR try to make things better between them, he just wants to live in pity-party land.

I know I'm directing a lot of the anger I feel for my ex at him, but to me he deserves it. I want to tell him exactly what I think of him in a facebook message, and then send a message to his wife that he's been cheating on her with their neighbor (who also happens to be married), but I'm not a vindictive type of person. It's fun to fantasize about (I still think of the letters I could write to my ex's gf so she would know just how much of a liar he is, but after almost two years, I still haven't), but I don't think I could go thru with it.

The appeal to sext him has completely gone. I just don't know what I should do.

 

[ecclectic]

He's a bastard, don't have anything to do with him. Don't break it off, just stop talking to him completely.

He likely won't really even care, he'll just be pissed that he's lost out on something without considering how you might be feeling about it.

 

[JustSkye]

Walk away, run, don't look back. If he isn't using you, boffing the neighbor, he will find someone else to replace both of you quickly enough.

He'll continue to make excuses, lie, and do what he can to have his fun, but stay the way he is. Many women do this, too.

Get some self-respect, buck up, and spend some time with yourself and hopefully you'll find someone good for you. And stop fucking around with married men.

 

[SweetErika]

Why would he want to fix his marriage? He's got the benefits of marriage AND at least two women for sex and ego-stroking on the side.

The big question is why do you want to have anything to do with someone who treats women like shit? What's going on with you that you seek out liars and cheaters?

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

Yeah, even I have to agree, run away, this guy is going to keep making up excuses about why he doesn't leave his marriage, or try and fix it, he wants to stay where he is with the the security of marriage while still getting his rocks off. He's treating all of you so poorly and using you for ego stroking and pity.

 

[silverwhisper]

what erika said. this clown's a user, and you're letting him do this to you. have some self-respect. don't you deserve much fucking better than that shit?

ed

 

[albertaboy]

So , as he cums down your throat he is talking about how much of a bitch his wife is...right?

I don't think you need any advice here, the guys an asshole and you are helping him do it.

 

[CoyoteTales]

Vanish time!

You have to break it off. It's not healthy for you to think about this guy, and since you've woken up and smelled the proverbial coffee of reality, you know that he doesn't hold any future with you.

Be gentle if you think he deserves it -- after all, there must have been something that attracted you to him in the first place, yes?

Be blunt and stubborn about drawing the line and shutting the door. Do not, under any circumstances, agree to meet up with him again. Expect to be met with anger, pleas for a change of mind/heart, and any amount of manipulative chicanery to get one more chance out of you -- but do not grant it.

Change your phone number if you have to. But this is definitely no longer a relationship (loosely termed) that you want to be in.

Could you get revenge? Sure. But ask yourself if you have been done enough dirt to warrant forcing someone to change their lives that far. You will be the reason his marriage ends, potentially, not by his own action. And worse, if he's not willing to leave his wife under his own power, and you 'free him', he'll be free to pursue you(!)

Just walk away. Tell him you're seeing someone else now, if you need to. Tell him it's been fun, but you can't do it anymore. Find some closure for yourself. Leave town on a vacation if you can swing it, and just spend time on you.

-CT

 

[qrayze]

The big question is why do you want to have anything to do with someone who treats women like shit? What's going on with you that you seek out liars and cheaters?

Well, to me, sex is sex, but the only ones who seem like they are any good at it are the older guys. And if they are married, it makes them cheaters and liars.

I don't feel anything for him; I'm mostly just pissed because he isn't taking my advice. (dumb, yes, I know)

So , as he cums down your throat he is talking about how much of a bitch his wife is...right?

Actually, it was one of the best bj experiences I've had. It's hard to explain, but the sounds he made and the way his body moved in response...it was incredible.

you know that he doesn't hold any future with you.

Of course, I know. Cheaters never change. I don't have any feelings for him, well, except for a mild contempt the entire time I've known him.

Be gentle if you think he deserves it -- after all, there must have been something that attracted you to him in the first place, yes?

no, he's not attractive at all, in my opinion...but he has a really REALLY nice cock

Be blunt and stubborn about drawing the line and shutting the door. Do not, under any circumstances, agree to meet up with him again. Expect to be met with anger, pleas for a change of mind/heart, and any amount of manipulative chicanery to get one more chance out of you -- but do not grant it.

Change your phone number if you have to. But this is definitely no longer a relationship (loosely termed) that you want to be in.

Could you get revenge? Sure. But ask yourself if you have been done enough dirt to warrant forcing someone to change their lives that far. You will be the reason his marriage ends, potentially, not by his own action. And worse, if he's not willing to leave his wife under his own power, and you 'free him', he'll be free to pursue you(!)

Just walk away. Tell him you're seeing someone else now, if you need to. Tell him it's been fun, but you can't do it anymore. Find some closure for yourself. Leave town on a vacation if you can swing it, and just spend time on you.

-CT

I agree, he needs to be his own undoing. I feel really sorry for his wife because I was her at one point. I don't like being manipulated, and from the last conversation we had, I felt like that's exactly what he was doing to me. It reminds me too much of a relationship (bleh), and while I may have sex with cheating married dudes, I refuse to have relationships with them.

And just to be clear...this isn't something I do ALL the time. Married guys aren't even my preference. I prefer older divorced guys who don't want to ever get married again (like me) but just want sex. This guy is only the second married dude I've done anything with. And more than likely will be the last. I hate hearing them complain about their wives.

 

[silverwhisper]

qrayze quoth:
i feel really sorry for his wife because i was her at one point.

you can't possibly feel that sorry for her if you're helping him do this to her.

ed

 

[rosco rathbone]

So , as he cums down your throat he is talking about how much of a bitch his wife is...right?

I don't think you need any advice here, the guys an asshole and you are helping him do it.

I know it's wrong and all, but this is hot!

 

[qrayze]

you can't possibly feel that sorry for her if you're helping him do this to her.

ed

I agree and disagree with what you've said here. I agree that I don't feel that sorry for her. I don't know her, have never met her, and I don't know anything about her other than what her husband has told me, which could be all lies or half-truths.

I do disagree, however, that I am helping him do this to her. He's already cheated on her before (and is still with their neighbor) so the doing has already been done. This is why I won't mess around (or even text) with a married guy who hasn't cheated on his wife before.

 

[swtrthnhoney]

You don't find him attractive, you don't seem to think he has a great personality, and you don't think his cheating on his wife is a prize. The only way you found out about his cock was to access it. You say you don't do married men and yet you confess to having done two (more thrill perhaps). One married man is a chance meeting or he lied to you) perhaps, two or more is the start of or a habit. And how does knowing that they've been screwing around on their wives make it better - because you are not the first and therefore not breaking up the relationship? The relationship is already broken, you are just assisting in widening the crack.

If you didn't like the way your husband was treating you, then you can certainly understand what this man's wife would be going through if she knew.

So I am confused...why be with him?

Are you trying to get back at your husband? Trying to prove to his wife what an SOB he is?

You give him advice about his marriage and that is proffered either before or after giving him a bj. You are certainly not going to teach this married guy anything - he doesn't want to learn a new way, his way is working out just fine for him.

I may not be one to point fingers in this situation but I have learned to stay out of the bear cage when they only want to paw you. I no longer want a substandard relationship. (Now if I could only figure out how to trust again, I will be fine.)

I am not passing judgment, but there seem to be a lot of contradictions in what you say and what you do. You cannot change what happened, you can only move forward with your life. I do not wish to throw stones at you - there are enough stone throwers around here. It is ultimately your life. You wrote here for a reason. I suspect you want us to tell you to stop doing him. If you need support in that department, write here when you feel the need to seek him out. More importantly, tell yourself that you deserve a much better relationship, and mean it. It's not easy, especially when you've been treated a certain way for a long time, and you have to be consistent in that meaning. You might be surprised by the outcome if you do believe it.

 

[qrayze]

You don't find him attractive, you don't seem to think he has a great personality, and you don't think his cheating on his wife is a prize. The only way you found out about his cock was to access it. You say you don't do married men and yet you confess to having done two (more thrill perhaps). One married man is a chance meeting or he lied to you) perhaps, two or more is the start of or a habit. And how does knowing that they've been screwing around on their wives make it better - because you are not the first and therefore not breaking up the relationship? The relationship is already broken, you are just assisting in widening the crack.

If you didn't like the way your husband was treating you, then you can certainly understand what this man's wife would be going through if she knew.

So I am confused...why be with him?

Are you trying to get back at your husband? Trying to prove to his wife what an SOB he is?

You give him advice about his marriage and that is proffered either before or after giving him a bj. You are certainly not going to teach this married guy anything - he doesn't want to learn a new way, his way is working out just fine for him.

I may not be one to point fingers in this situation but I have learned to stay out of the bear cage when they only want to paw you. I no longer want a substandard relationship. (Now if I could only figure out how to trust again, I will be fine.)

I am not passing judgment, but there seem to be a lot of contradictions in what you say and what you do. You cannot change what happened, you can only move forward with your life. I do not wish to throw stones at you - there are enough stone throwers around here. It is ultimately your life. You wrote here for a reason. I suspect you want us to tell you to stop doing him. If you need support in that department, write here when you feel the need to seek him out. More importantly, tell yourself that you deserve a much better relationship, and mean it. It's not easy, especially when you've been treated a certain way for a long time, and you have to be consistent in that meaning. You might be surprised by the outcome if you do believe it.

It amazes me how easy it is to be misinterpreted. I guess people think it's impossible for someone to say exactly what they mean, so they search for some "hidden meaning" in what others write.

1. I am not with him.
2. I do not have a relationship with him. (as I stated previously)
3. I do not have any feelings for him. (other than mild contempt, as I stated previously)
4. I don't do married men who have never cheated before. (as I stated previously, and yes, I've had the opportunities to do so)
5. It was a total suprise to me when my ex left me. I didn't find out he had been cheating on me until two months into the divorce proceedings. (as I stated previously but in other threads so I don't hold that against you)
6. You have no idea about the surrounding situation of the first married guy so don't suppose.
7. For someone not passing judgement, you certainly judged a great deal.

I really wish people would stop interjecting themselves into my situations and then tell me that their feelings and motives are my own.

 

[silverwhisper]

qrayze quoth:
i do disagree, however, that i am helping him do this to her. he's already cheated on her before (and is still with their neighbor) so the doing has already been done. this is why i won't mess around (or even text) with a married guy who hasn't cheated on his wife before.

i don't see how are you not helping him do this to her. you're part of it, you even wrote about driving to his place of business to give him a blowjob. you were the one who swallowed his load, and nobody else.

sure, you can say, "if it wasn't me, it would be someone else". but that's entirely missing the point: you were still there.

you really should understand that the section i italicized above is in an ethical sense called "damning by faint praise". it's a fantastically flimsy moral crutch, and it isn't one you need, qrayze.

ed

 

[Dr_O]

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[qrayze]

Also, this:

I don't do married men who have never cheated before.

is one of the greatest rationalizations I've ever heard.

What do you want, a cookie? Do you think that makes what you are doing adultery-lite, or something?

You sucked a married man's cock, sweetheart. Of your own volition. You can either feel guilty about it, or not. You can do it again, or not. But don't try to pretend it's not all that bad because blah blah blah.

Thanks for the chuckle; I love how you worded that.

When I said that, I didn't mean it in a moral sense, but as a preference. Just like I also don't do men who weigh more than 250 lbs. In my experience, a man who has never cheated before has no confidence and what he wants more than sex is someone to build him up. They are also still on the fence about whether or not they really want to go thru with it, so all the time spent talking and flirting can actually lead to nowhere and is wasted. Also, they tend to freak out when you mention the importance of having protected sex. (Found that out when I was talking to this one guy who told me he had cheated before. Once he freaked out, I told him that it was painfully obvious he hadn't cheated and that he no longer had a chance with me. Haven't talked to him since.) They are, in short, really annoying individuals. It's why I won't even be friends with them. Of course, I'm not friends with the cheaters either.

Anyway, as far as guilt goes, I feel none. Life is too short. And if God really loves everybody regardless of what they've done, then that means He loves me too. It's a win win.

 

[RockyStone]

Thanks for the chuckle; I love how you worded that.

When I said that, I didn't mean it in a moral sense, but as a preference. Just like I also don't do men who weigh more than 250 lbs. In my experience, a man who has never cheated before has no confidence and what he wants more than sex is someone to build him up. They are also still on the fence about whether or not they really want to go thru with it, so all the time spent talking and flirting can actually lead to nowhere and is wasted. Also, they tend to freak out when you mention the importance of having protected sex. (Found that out when I was talking to this one guy who told me he had cheated before. Once he freaked out, I told him that it was painfully obvious he hadn't cheated and that he no longer had a chance with me. Haven't talked to him since.) They are, in short, really annoying individuals. It's why I won't even be friends with them. Of course, I'm not friends with the cheaters either.

Anyway, as far as guilt goes, I feel none. Life is too short. And if God really loves everybody regardless of what they've done, then that means He loves me too. It's a win win.

The last line of your original post tells the story:**The appeal to sext him has completely gone. I just don't know what I should do.**

I'm posting a bit late to this thread, but you seem to have lost interest. OTOH you loved the bj and the way his cock looks along with the sounds he makes. You are guilt free in this and yet, you are angry he is not doing his marital business? Just having sex is one guiltless way to do things. Harboring anger and expressing it in a later affair is not good for you. How do you measure up with the single guys you meet? Of course, married men usually don't leave for the other woman, so you are safe there. If you get no thrill, you might as well chill.

 

[subwannabe]

I really don't know how to say this nicely but your mind is really fucked up. I can see why your first husband wanted out and I don't see any future hope for you until you unscramble your brains. You don't have any chance of finding the right or even just a good guy going down the path you are on.

 

[qrayze]

I really don't know how to say this nicely but your mind is really fucked up. I can see why your first husband wanted out and I don't see any future hope for you until you unscramble your brains. You don't have any chance of finding the right or even just a good guy going down the path you are on.

So, I've been reading your post and thread history for a bit now (even back to 2005), and all I have to say is, Takes a fucked-up mind to know one.

The last line of your original post tells the story:**The appeal to sext him has completely gone. I just don't know what I should do.**

I'm posting a bit late to this thread, but you seem to have lost interest. OTOH you loved the bj and the way his cock looks along with the sounds he makes. You are guilt free in this and yet, you are angry he is not doing his marital business? Just having sex is one guiltless way to do things. Harboring anger and expressing it in a later affair is not good for you. How do you measure up with the single guys you meet? Of course, married men usually don't leave for the other woman, so you are safe there. If you get no thrill, you might as well chill.

But for Mr. I-wish-I-could-make-my-wife-make-me-eat-my-own-cum (aka subwannabe), I wasn't going to reply again in this thread. I thought about giving updates, but since a majority of litsters like to tell me what my motives are, I decided it wasn't worth it. However, since I am already here and since you have your pm's turned off, I'll respond to your post.

I was once told by a man that I am a dichotomy wrapped up in a conundrum. (now that I think about it, I really need to make that a part of my sig) Apparently, what makes perfect sense in my head blows the minds of others when I try to explain even a small part of it. So, I won't try to explain anything else or give any more "why's", I'll just tell you my decision. I don't text, message, or call him anymore. Once a week, he sends me a text trying to get me to change my mind, but I don't respond to them. Thru this, I have realized for myself that married ppl = drama, and for that reason alone, it is best for me not to bother with them.

 

[RockyStone]

Dichotomy

So, I've been reading your post and thread history for a bit now (even back to 2005), and all I have to say is, Takes a fucked-up mind to know one.



But for Mr. I-wish-I-could-make-my-wife-make-me-eat-my-own-cum (aka subwannabe), I wasn't going to reply again in this thread. I thought about giving updates, but since a majority of litsters like to tell me what my motives are, I decided it wasn't worth it. However, since I am already here and since you have your pm's turned off, I'll respond to your post.

I was once told by a man that I am a dichotomy wrapped up in a conundrum. (now that I think about it, I really need to make that a part of my sig) Apparently, what makes perfect sense in my head blows the minds of others when I try to explain even a small part of it. So, I won't try to explain anything else or give any more "why's", I'll just tell you my decision. I don't text, message, or call him anymore. Once a week, he sends me a text trying to get me to change my mind, but I don't respond to them. Thru this, I have realized for myself that married ppl = drama, and for that reason alone, it is best for me not to bother with them.

I like the dichotomy in a conundrum. Thanks for pointing out my pm was off; I'm pretty new here as you can see, so hadn't fully set up. Judging a person according to own psychology seems a bit off; judging a person period is not something I really want to do. Throw away any judgment I may have made. I am glad the situation is resolved. I must say I was the reverse with married women for a while. I ended up frustrated a lot and they were happy. The fact I hid the risk factor from myself finally dawned on me and I found a different focus after that.
RS

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

...but hell, that's my name, isn't it?

Okay. A little history first. I was married to this great guy who was a great dad, and we got along very well together. We had a total of four major fights during our relationship; two before marriage, two after. Looking back at the nature of the two fights before marriage, I should've known not to marry him, but oh well, hindsight is always 20/20. The first major fight we had after marriage happened when our daughter was a little over one year old. He was upset that I didn't have a job and be a working mother. I guess he thought I wasn't contributing enough to the household? I countered that before we got married, we agreed that if we had kids I would be a stay-at-home mom since we believed that children need that kind of stability in their lives. Well, he didn't believe that anymore. So, I "thought" we compromised when we agreed that I would get a job when our daughter started elementary school. That blew over and I thought we were ok, but shortly after our daughter's second birthday, he started acting weird and wouldn't talk to me. A couple days of being clueless as to what was wrong with him was enough for me, and I confronted him. He then gave me the same, "you don't do anything, u should be working" stuff he gave me earlier. Because taking care of a child and an apt is doing nothing? Anyways, he said he didn't love me anymore , left, and we were divorced about a year later. (also, I have a bad memory and am easily distracted so I forget shit all the time and he was sick of it)

Now...for this issue I'm dealing with.

I've been sexting with this married guy who's cheated on his wife before. I even met him at his work one time to give him a bj. So, anyway, in my mind he's an asshole for even cheating on her, and I was starting to get really tired of hearing how much of a bitch she always is, so I asked him a couple days ago why he doesn't just divorce her so they could both move on. His reply was because they still love eachother and can be happy, they just no longer have sex. Ok...

Then the next day, he starts in on how much his wife sucks. Then I counter that she sucks but not enough that they aren't happy together? I told him he confused me. His answer was that he stays because of the kids, and doesn't want to miss being with them every day.

So, at this point, I can just feel the "please have pity on me" aura that surrounds every word in his texts. I'm thinking to myself that this guy is just like my ex. So I ask him if he's bought this book on marriage that I suggested to him over a month ago that I thought would really help his relationship. He had told me that her major complaint is that he doesn't make her feel like he cares about her. Of course, that would be hard to do when you're boffing your neighbor! The book is on the five love languages and if he could pinpoint his wife's, he could make her feel loved and appreciated, and in turn, she might become more affectionate. But, of course, he hasn't bought the book.

I also suggested talking to his wife, spelling out to her just what's in his head and that their marriage needs to be fixed. Because see, my ex never did that. While he was cheating on me, he let me believe that we had a great marriage and that everything was perfect. I didn't even know all the shit that bugged him until he exploded at me the night he left me. He didn't even give me a chance, ya know?

Now, I know it's weird to be giving marriage advice to a guy who I blew in my car just last week, but really, now, I'm just really pissed off at him because he won't leave his wife OR try to make things better between them, he just wants to live in pity-party land.

I know I'm directing a lot of the anger I feel for my ex at him, but to me he deserves it. I want to tell him exactly what I think of him in a facebook message, and then send a message to his wife that he's been cheating on her with their neighbor (who also happens to be married), but I'm not a vindictive type of person. It's fun to fantasize about (I still think of the letters I could write to my ex's gf so she would know just how much of a liar he is, but after almost two years, I still haven't), but I don't think I could go thru with it.

The appeal to sext him has completely gone. I just don't know what I should do.

I hate to put it this way, but maybe you need to take a look at yourself. Both of these men you describe, (your ex-husband and the man you are sexting), seem to have a lot in common. Neither one sounds like they want to be married. Is it possible that you are attracted to men, that perhaps are not good for you?

The man you describe sounds like a man who does not want a monogamous marriage, and blames his wife for his own inability to be faithful. There are a lot of men like this who want all the advantages of being married, but none of the responsibility. His wife may not be a loving and devoted wife as he claims, but then he probably made her that way. After all, she must have loved him in the beginning.

Maybe you need to reevaluate the kind of men that you are drawn to. I think if this man left his wife and started a serious relationship with you, (or even marriage), in 6 months or a year, you would find him treating you the same way he treats his wife now.

 

[qrayze]

I like the dichotomy in a conundrum. Thanks for pointing out my pm was off; I'm pretty new here as you can see, so hadn't fully set up. Judging a person according to own psychology seems a bit off; judging a person period is not something I really want to do. Throw away any judgment I may have made. I am glad the situation is resolved. I must say I was the reverse with married women for a while. I ended up frustrated a lot and they were happy. The fact I hid the risk factor from myself finally dawned on me and I found a different focus after that.
RS

Welcome to Lit!

I hate to put it this way, but maybe you need to take a look at yourself. Both of these men you describe, (your ex-husband and the man you are sexting), seem to have a lot in common. Neither one sounds like they want to be married. Is it possible that you are attracted to men, that perhaps are not good for you?

The man you describe sounds like a man who does not want a monogamous marriage, and blames his wife for his own inability to be faithful. There are a lot of men like this who want all the advantages of being married, but none of the responsibility. His wife may not be a loving and devoted wife as he claims, but then he probably made her that way. After all, she must have loved him in the beginning.

Maybe you need to reevaluate the kind of men that you are drawn to. I think if this man left his wife and started a serious relationship with you, (or even marriage), in 6 months or a year, you would find him treating you the same way he treats his wife now.

I'm just gonna take a wild guess here: You didn't read this whole thread before you posted in it, did you?

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

Welcome to Lit!



I'm just gonna take a wild guess here: You didn't read this whole thread before you posted in it, did you?

No, I didn't read the whole thread, I was responding to your initial post. But since that seems to offend you, I will keep that in mind next time.

 

[qrayze]

No, I didn't read the whole thread, I was responding to your initial post. But since that seems to offend you, I will keep that in mind next time.

No, I wasn't offended, Mr. I-wish-I-could-make-you-and-your-cuckold-husband-my-personal-sex-slaves, but for someone who seems intelligent enough to be able to spell, you somehow lack the cognitive ability to recognize how replying in a thread you haven't read might make you appear.

Of course, a dominate personality such as your own will rebell against any thought of faux pas on your part, so I don't expect an apology or even an acknowledgement of it from you. I will, however, hand you this binky so that you may pacify your tormented inner child while she (yes, I meant to say "she") cries in one of the many dark recesses of your mind.