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AlphasGirl09 said:
Thank you, I know I can't be the only one who feels this way but sometime it makes me feel very alone.

I recently lost my partner because I finally opened up and told him about my desires. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to bad mouth him, but he totally flipped out and told me that I was perverted and he no longer wanted anything to do with me. After spending so many years with him it hurts, but I guess maybe its something I should have told him sooner so that so much of my heart wasnt invested in the relationship.

So now I'm a little scared that if/when I find someone new that they may react the same way.
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I experienced the same, more than once, in my younger, less knowledgeable years. It was a painful learning experience. Like yourself, after years into a relationship I expressed my fantasies/desires only to be rejected. That's how I learned not to waste my time..or someone elses. Once you get to the point where sex may be a possibility express your interests/desires.
From my experience I was rejected much more than accepted but I was a male opening up to females (we all know that men are more perverted than women;)) but there are way to many men who are closed minded and unwilling to explore. Pana and I wish you the best. If you'ld like to PM us please do. Take care. :rose:
 
panasony said:
You are not alone in your desire for such a relationship...men as well as women seek this in a partner. I discovered, in my many years, that one must take the first step in opening such a relationship. Don't fear doing so for if you are with the right person they will respond positively...and will do so quickly.

Love means holding hands and hearts. Love is trust.

Know me, love me, hold me then you can experience me. :heart:
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*nods*.......:cool:
 
AlphasGirl09 said:
Thank you, I know I can't be the only one who feels this way but sometime it makes me feel very alone.

I recently lost my partner because I finally opened up and told him about my desires. Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to bad mouth him, but he totally flipped out and told me that I was perverted and he no longer wanted anything to do with me. After spending so many years with him it hurts, but I guess maybe its something I should have told him sooner so that so much of my heart wasnt invested in the relationship.

So now I'm a little scared that if/when I find someone new that they may react the same way.
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You're not the only one.......we all find ourselves here......in this place full of desire and in the hope we will find the "one"........many never do......and some after long relationships filled with disappointment and heart ache find that special someone......at least you know who you are and what you want......... and need........good for you.......:)
 
goodsonformom said:
You're not the only one.......we all find ourselves here......in this place full of desire and in the hope we will find the "one"........many never do......and some after long relationships filled with disappointment and heart ache find that special someone......at least you know who you are and what you want......... and need........good for you.......:)
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Thank you, everyone deserves to find that one who accepts and loves them for everything they are...to have that happiness and trust. Unfortunantly some just become too... heartbroken at being let down time and again, to continue to try.

I realize now that, I am happy with who I am and know well what I want and need and hell if I'm going to hide it for so long again.

Thank you ALL for listening and helping its made me feel much better about the situation. :)
 
AlphasGirl09 said:
I had to share ...

you asked waaay back in the begining of the thread what we want and desire.

I want a man or a woman (or maybe even both) who I cant trust enough to share my deepest fantasies and desires with and not have them treat me badly because I want something they may not.

Someone who appreciates me for more than my body or just a quick roll in the sheets (although a quick roll isnt bad once in a while either).

After reading your post I finely realized I found this type of person many years ago. Sadly because I was immature (mid 20's) and did not realize it I lost her.

I would recommend that when you find such a person that you do everything in your power to hold on.
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