i have a sex question thats a little odd

[Guest]

dear literotica forum, i have a sex question thats a little odd, aside from traditional sexual intercourse what are some other sexual things can a couple do if the man in the relationship has severe impotence?

 

[sunandshadow]

The how-to forum would be more appropriate for this. But massage, fingering, oral, use of toys, and reading erotica to each other are some ideas. Depends what your goal is - for the man to make the woman come? For the woman to give the man sexual pleasure even though he presumably can't come?

Also depends on the physical cause of the impotence - if the man can't get or maintain an erection he might be able to orgasm from prostate stimulation or receiving oral. If he has a hormonal problem or injured/missing testicles, that might be correctable with medication. But if he has spinal nerve damage and can't feel anything below the waist physical sources of pleasure are pretty much going to be limited to the mouth, nipples, any sensitive spots on the neck, and back/scalp massage. Visual and audio sources of pleasure also shouldn't be underestimated.

 

[Sidney_1]

dear literotica forum, i have a sex question thats a little odd, aside from traditional sexual intercourse what are some other sexual things can a couple do if the man in the relationship has severe impotence?

Use everything, including his penis (for manual stimulation of the clit), to pleasure the woman.

By everything, I mean his mouth, his fingers, his imagination, toys, sensual aids, sensual massage, etc. I'm assuming this is for your pleasure? For your mate, he needs to consult his doctor and see what his options are.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Everything! And, he might try being entered anally. Even severely impotent men can really enjoy prostate stimulation.
In fact, even severely impotent men can enjoy having their penis sucked. It can still feel good-- or, if he has no feeling at all, it can look good to him.

For your mate, he needs to consult his doctor and see what his options are.

I'm sorry, but do you realise how obnoxious that advice is? You can be pretty sure that he's talked to his doctor, or else is too poor to afford one. Either way, it's presuming and unnecessary.

 

[hd8001]

You pretty much have all of the other activities other then penetration with a penis into the vagina or anus. She can always use your flaccid penis to stimulate her clit. Get creative, maybe she can get on top and rub her clit against it. That is something my girl uses to get me hard sometimes when we start to fool around. Just explore and have fun.

 

[Britman2294]

I have impotence (erectile dysfunction) and my wife and I get on fairly well with oral sex.

 

[iwanna3sum]

dear literotica forum, i have a sex question thats a little odd, aside from traditional sexual intercourse what are some other sexual things can a couple do if the man in the relationship has severe impotence?

as a male with this condition, a blowjob with a finger up my ass is heavenly.

 

[gagginforit]

As well as what everyone else has said, how would you feel about the man using a strapon?

 

[Aurantica]

As well as what everyone else has said, how would you feel about the man using a strapon?

That's what I was thinking. He may have a little trouble finding one that fits, but once he does....

 

[squarejohn]

dear literotica forum, i have a sex question thats a little odd, aside from traditional sexual intercourse what are some other sexual things can a couple do if the man in the relationship has severe impotence?

A woman confided in me that her husband was totally impotent, but she was able to make him cum with a blowjob; it just took a pretty long time.