I got all excited and...

Sex & Diamonds

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went out and bought a flogger. Now I want my husband to learn how to use it. He's willing.

Any suggestions?
 
Sex & Diamonds said:
went out and bought a flogger. Now I want my husband to learn how to use it. He's willing.

Any suggestions?

Umm? Often?

Just start. Tell him what's going on. Tell him harder or softer. I'm sure you two can figure it out that way.
 
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Daedalus77 said:
Umm? Often?

Just start. Tell him what's going on. Tell him harder or softer. I'm sure you two can figure it out that way.


Well. You are right.

But. I would prefer him to at least read something on the subject. Besides that telling him how hard and how often to hit me would ruin my fantasy.

Isn't there a rule not to be bossy to someone when they are flogging you anyhow? ;)
 
Yes there is a rule, its called be quiet while I'm flogging you or I'm gonna have to grab a gag, bit, or even a penis gag.
 
Best advice I can come up with at this time of night is talk lots first about expectations, devise a safe word, and agree he stops when you use that safe word, if you use it......is a good way for him to learn with your help where your limits lie so he can in time help you challenge them safely, and is in no way topping from the bottom. Have fun.:D

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