I don't understand any of this

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I'm still waiting for the part where she says we all should be shot.

again.

~anelize

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

You should all be shot.

Again.

E_S~

 

[AngelicAssassin]

You should all be shot.

Again.

E_S~

If that's a threat, bring it, but don't be surprised when i let the air out of that empty head of yours. http://www.1st-vets.org/forum/images/smiles/snipersmilie.gif

In the meantime, talk to Mr. Smiley. http://u2.lvcm.com/dlehman/aa/icons/mooner.gif

 

[MissTaken]

Time to let this thread die.

But that is just my opinion.

 

[Red Menace]

Oh, but this thread is too much fun, Miss T.

So far we've only covered the basics like humiliation, flogging and spanking. I wanted to share all about my first fire play scene and the needle scene I did last weekend where the endorphins really started to kick in as he wove needles around eachother on my tits. As I lay on the table I looked up at him and told him over and over how much I loved him. And it left the cutest little bruises... and then there's also whips, canes, brandings, clamps, various kitchen utensils...

Oh, and does she even know about public play? I think someone should definitely inform her... since she's soooooooo interested in learning.... about the joys of playing in front of hundreds of your closest pervy friends all decked out in leather and latex... or butt naked like a slut.

Yes, I'm a sick pervert. And proud of it!

 

[Etoile]

You may have more fun picking on the Gay board. We're battle tested.

Hey, WD, that's not cool. Just because you're tired of dealing with someone here doesn't mean you should suggest they pick on another group - particularly one whose experiences with bigotry have already been discussed in this very thread. I do take offense to that.

 

[MissTaken]

Oh, but this thread is too much fun, Miss T.

So far we've only covered the basics like humiliation, flogging and spanking. I wanted to share all about my first fire play scene and the needle scene I did last weekend where the endorphins really started to kick in as he wove needles around eachother on my tits. As I lay on the table I looked up at him and told him over and over how much I loved him. And it left the cutest little bruises... and then there's also whips, canes, brandings, clamps, various kitchen utensils...

Oh, and does she even know about public play? I think someone should definitely inform her... since she's soooooooo interested in learning.... about the joys of playing in front of hundreds of your closest pervy friends all decked out in leather and latex... or butt naked like a slut.

Yes, I'm a sick pervert. And proud of it!

God!

I sick perverts.



Seriously, there are some completely wonderful posts in this thread.

 

[WriterDom]

Hey, WD, that's not cool. Just because you're tired of dealing with someone here doesn't mean you should suggest they pick on another group - particularly one whose experiences with bigotry have already been discussed in this very thread. I do take offense to that.

No, not tired of her. Bored maybe. And I didn't really expect her to take her act over there. Sorry to offend you.

 

[His Flower]

I get this feeling that females who submit are just 'missing' something in their lives. Faith in themselves, maybe. Excitement or fulfillment in their lives, maybe.

Any person who is truly in love with another person values equality. Any person who is truly confident and happy in their lives will find no need for any of this.

That's it for now.

I Honestly feel offended by this statement. I don't know about the rest of you. Scarlett, how can you make judgements on things when you don't understand it. Who are you to judge that I'm "MISSING" something in my life, or trying to fill some excitement or fulfillment. I speak for myself, but I'm sure there are many more who will agree with me; that my submission is between ME and whoever I'm with; and between ME and the whole world.

Believe me, I have plenty of faith in myself, plenty of ambition, and probably the same damn feelings that you may have. But I have even more when I can truly say that I'm in an existing relationship where I can completely let myself go, and be happy. The trust and the love that I have been give and gave is truly magical.

YOU may never understand the effects a person have on D/s. YOU may never get it. But if you don't, like I've said before, the world is a big place. Don't try to understand it, you only sound insincere to me. Lurk in the general board if you would; but don't judge me. Just like I wouldn't judge you if you had a weird habit.

currently rather frustrated

His Flower

 

[His Flower]

On the surface you may be right. You have to go past that. At a glance it appears that the Dominant has all the power and all of the perks. What isn't easily seen is that it is the submissive who chooses if they will submit and to whom they submit wo. They decide how they submit and to what degree. Real Dominants understand that the submissive holds the true power. it is the submissive who gives the power to the Dominant. There is a plethora of situations that this could play out in be it from everyday life in a 24/7 TPE, to just the sexual power play sessions. Again in a healthy relationship be it vanilla or BDSM, I believe the partners are equal. Just because a couple decides to engage in D/s doesn't make either one abusive or inferior.

Very well said bad kitty...but do you think she's really going to GET IT?

His Flower

 

[His Flower]

Geesh...this thread is starting to read like a menu.

and I'm getting hungry....

His Flower

 

[His Flower]

I don't repress my sexuality.

I don't see the point in BDSM.

I don't see the point in homosexuality.

I don't see the point in voyeurism or exhibitionists...

Ughghghghghghghgh.

Okay, I'm tired of this now.

Who cares, anyway.

Then can I say GOOD BYE

His Flower

 

[His Flower]

Your attitude is a fucking JOKE. Are you referring to me as 'it' because I don't agree with the majority here? Because I say what I think and don't sugar-coat everything so it's fucking easier for you to swallow?

Do I become a troll because I disagree with your opinion, Oh Mighty One?

Give me a break. I'm here asking questions out of curiosity. I'm ATTEMPTING to learn, despite everyone here bashing me because I ask questions that aren't pleasing. Because I'm not hit by a flash of understanding about the lifestyle, because I DARE question it?

Personally I think YOU should be fucking steamed and then just left to rot.

When someone doesn't agree with something you say, perhaps you should learn to DEAL WITH IT.

See, the thing is - when a person is really truly here to learn, they aren't judgemental. IF YOU were here truly to learn - starting this thread could've been a good learning experience - asking questions. DON'T go and say that some of us here haven't tried. Because if I've gone this far in reading, I think I saw a LOT of people giving you their opinions and TRYING to educate you. You're the one just being judgemental.

And personally, I think EB here have a point, she's known on this board to be blunt, direct and informative. ARE you suprise, we actually LIKE her here? OMG....

His Flower

 

[His Flower]

If that's a threat, bring it, but don't be surprised when i let the air out of that empty head of yours. http://www.1st-vets.org/forum/images/smiles/snipersmilie.gif

In the meantime, talk to Mr. Smiley. http://u2.lvcm.com/dlehman/aa/icons/mooner.gif

OH, that smiley Cute. I like it angelic

His Flower

 

[DisGirlisNutz]

Originally posted by Eating_Scarlett

I don't repress my sexuality.

I don't see the point in BDSM.

I don't see the point in homosexuality.

I don't see the point in voyeurism or exhibitionists...

Ughghghghghghghgh.

Okay, I'm tired of this now.

Who cares, anyway.

Then you have no point to be here.
If you don't see the point of what is "reality".

Those statement make me so angry....
shows how ingnorant people can be!

I thought to be happy is to do what ever makes
happy.... how can you not see the point or Homosexuality,
BD/sm, Voyeurism or Exhibitionists. It makes them happy.
That is the POINT! Being happy!


But this is MY OPINION. and That is YOURS.
Why are you here?????????

Or did I miss something? ? ? ? ? ?

DGN

 

[AngelicAssassin]

OH, that smiley Cute. I like it angelic

His Flower

Feel free to use it any time, but be careful when and to whom, you're liable to get this in return ...

 

[His Flower]

Feel free to use it any time, but be careful when and to whom, you're liable to get this in return ...

Thank you...and that picture wasn't soo bad either....I liked that one too.

His Flower

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Thank you...and that picture wasn't soo bad either....I liked that one too.

His Flower

Can't tell if you had a touch of hesitancy in that voice, or not?

How about this? http://www.spacespider.net/emo/spank.gif

 

[Etoile]

Can't tell if you had a touch of hesitancy in that voice, or not?

How about this? http://www.spacespider.net/emo/spank.gif

I like the bottom's "facial expression," but the dom looks mad where it could be taking glee instead.

 

[da grunt]

posted by Eating_Scarlett ... because everyone seems to be contradicting eachother ...

They are not contradicting anybody, they are individuals who've responded to your question in their unique ways.

This is a new time, and many think it is way wierd, and it certainly is different. Thousands of years of human development, negated by technology. Dominants, warriors who take no shit and have no pity, have to comply with society's standards, political correctness, equality, et-al. Intelligent women have powerful jobs where they control the fate of many men, and the men become resentful and hateful or become compliant whimps. Women who excercise power still have the little girl in them and releasing this little girl can be mentally beneficial.

Because you don't understand does not make these folks perverted. If you give your boyfriend everything he wants, unreluctantly, perhaps you are a natural submissive and need not insturction, nor discipline.

Want to know what pleasantly surprises me? Since I was invited here I have found that the denizens are so dang nice. Peaceful, contented and polite. They don't need the conflict of anwsering impossible, retorical questions, yet (as far as I've read so far), they've treated you with respect and tolerance.

Please, if you don't like us, leave us alone.

 

[His Flower]

Can't tell if you had a touch of hesitancy in that voice, or not?

How about this? http://www.spacespider.net/emo/spank.gif

No hesitancy....just honest plain truth - honestly they are cute...now I just have find out how to play with them..and then use them

His Flower

 

[Ebonyfire]

I Honestly feel offended by this statement. I don't know about the rest of you. Scarlett, how can you make judgements on things when you don't understand it. Who are you to judge that I'm "MISSING" something in my life, or trying to fill some excitement or fulfillment. I speak for myself, but I'm sure there are many more who will agree with me; that my submission is between ME and whoever I'm with; and between ME and the whole world.

Believe me, I have plenty of faith in myself, plenty of ambition, and probably the same damn feelings that you may have. But I have even more when I can truly say that I'm in an existing relationship where I can completely let myself go, and be happy. The trust and the love that I have been give and gave is truly magical.

YOU may never understand the effects a person have on D/s. YOU may never get it. But if you don't, like I've said before, the world is a big place. Don't try to understand it, you only sound insincere to me. Lurk in the general board if you would; but don't judge me. Just like I wouldn't judge you if you had a weird habit.

currently rather frustrated

His Flower

An excellent post. Flower. It is clear that this person has no interest in understanding, and is solely hear to create controversy. If she gave a rat's ass, she would do some homework about the subject rather than trying to lump each person who has responded to her post into some poor underclass.

I challenge her to justify her own lifestyle. It can't be all that satisfying or she would not be concerned about ours.

What is so hot about you and your "so called caring boyfriend"?

Could it be you are missing something?

Could it be that you are missing something so much that you attack others who seem to have what you crave?

Why don't you look inside your own relationship eating_scarlett (or whatever name you are using this week)?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I like the bottom's "facial expression," but the dom looks mad where it could be taking glee instead.

This more appropriate?http://www.spacespider.net/emo/whip.gif
Kinda like this one too, although the implications make me wince ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/gen007.gif
Then we have the lovely look of shock on the receiving end here ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/gen009.gif

i think this may capture the essence of what you're looking for in happiness for all parties involved ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/spank02.gif
But i think i'll just settle for this and be done with it. http://www.spacespider.net/emo/smileysex.gif

A little quick mind you, but never frown at a quickie if that's all you have time for in a busy life. Again, just my humble opinion.

Whoops, better run ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/outofhere.gif

 

[Etoile]

This more appropriate?http://www.spacespider.net/emo/whip.gif
Kinda like this one too, although the implications make me wince ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/gen007.gif
Then we have the lovely look of shock on the receiving end here ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/gen009.gif

i think this may capture the essence of what you're looking for in happiness for all parties involved ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/spank02.gif
But i think i'll just settle for this and be done with it. http://www.spacespider.net/emo/smileysex.gif

A little quick mind you, but never frown at a quickie if that's all you have time for in a busy life. Again, just my humble opinion.

Whoops, better run ... http://www.spacespider.net/emo/outofhere.gif

Oh, awesome! You have the best smilies. I'm going through all the pages at mysmilies.com right now.

 

[DisGirlisNutz]

I have to say i did not understand this whole BD/sm thing when I first saw it.... I thought these people were freaks . However, I am open minded person and always willing to try new things.So, I attended a Bd/sm party . I saw so many diffrent aspects of BD/sm, I saw one master really slapping this girl around, I was in fear for her. After their scene was over and all was said and done. I went over to talk to her. I asked how could she let him do that to her and she replyed "because I get an orgasm with such intensity were with regular sex I can not". Since that party I have always craved to spank or to be spanked.

So he made her feel good what is wrong with that? this was her fetish and it makes her happy....

Have you ever been spanked?
Have you ever tried role playing?
Ever try wax?
Ever get flogged?
How can you knock something if haven't tried it?
I don't get it?
How can you live such a vanilla lifestyle?

I have seen many vanilla relationships..... And I have seen many Bd/sm relationships....
And in my findings there is more trust and respect for one another in a BD/sm realtionship than in a vanilla one!
I am not saying you can't have a good relationship with out BD/sm.

I know if you tryied BD/sm you would like it. BD/sm is about making one another happy. My BF and have the same relationship as you do, but with a twist. He is not master.... But we do enjoy the spankings and the fetishes it brings.

I have showed many of my "vanilla" friends BD/sm. I showed them what it was about. ALL OF THEM are now into BD/sm. Explain that? from vanilla to BD/sm they love it!

BD/sm Go so far back in history. This is not something new... You will never understand BD/sm.... Until you try it.... There is no right or wrong way for BD/sm...You take it to what ever level you want it..... Some people take it to the extreme.....And others don't... but we are all human beings.... and we will do everything and anything to make ourselves happy.



DGN




Everyone has a bit of BD/sm in thier relationship they just don't know it! IMO!