I can't win...

[foxxxyred]

I'm at home on a saturday night because most of my friends are in relationships......so to go out with them would mean i would be the odd one out......however in order for me to become part of a couple i need to go out in order to meet someone.

Is anyone else experiencing this?

 

[Pechorin]

I wonder how many are thinking the opposite?

i.e. they're in a couple but would much rather be going out on their own?

Why not organise a girls night out for next weekend? Then maybe you won't feel so much like the odd one out. And who knows who you might meet!!!

 

[Laurel]

I'm at home tonight, and I'm happy about it. The idea of going out tonight makes me yearn for a nap. Does this mean I'm old?

 

[Bs]

yes

 

[Pechorin]

I'm at home tonight, and I'm happy about it. The idea of going out tonight makes me yearn for a nap. Does this mean I'm old?

You could look at it this way, that you're too savy to spend loads of dosh on food and drink, pay over the odds to get into a club where permanent damage could be done to your hearing and you can't chat anyone up because neither of you know sign language.

On second thoughts, I've just read the last paragraph and I sound soooo old.

 

[GuyJD]

Well I guess that makes me even less of a winner since I was at work for the past 8 hours while the rest of the city was partying and street racing.

Aw well, at least I was safer (considering that I work in a lot full of public transit buses).

 

[Bs]

Red meet Kollins

he seems like a nice guy maybe you two should talk.
not a real match maker just trying to help you kids out.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=63842



as always,

 

[foxxxyred]

You lit guys are so sweet

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I'm at home tonight, and I'm happy about it. The idea of going out tonight makes me yearn for a nap. Does this mean I'm old?

Its just the going out.... you'd HATE to leave the cats alone...

 

[SilverVeil]

Well I guess that makes me even less of a winner since I was at work for the past 8 hours while the rest of the city was partying and street racing.

Aw well, at least I was safer (considering that I work in a lot full of public transit buses).

Yeah, me too. While ya'll party the night away.... I am slaving for a living.

 

[Mister Ryder]

I've come to the conclusion that going out to nightclubs is not going to find me the perfect woman. Most of my friends are married now or in living with their girlfriends. Since the breakup of my marriage I also know what it feels like to be the third wheel. I'm not dissuaded by this and continue to socialize with them, they seem to enjoy my company and I enjoy theirs. Your friends are probably happy to have you join them.

 

[foxxxyred]

they seem to enjoy my company and I enjoy theirs. Your friends are probably happy to have you join them.

Yes it does seem that way most of the time. But in situations it just doesn't feel right.....sitting in a cinema in between two lovey dovey couples or dancing with a friend and his girlfriend in a club.......



Aahh when will prince charming knock on my door??

 

[Starfire]

Yes it does seem that way most of the time. But in situations it just doesn't feel right.....sitting in a cinema in between two lovey dovey couples or dancing with a friend and his girlfriend in a club.......



Aahh when will prince charming knock on my door??

Foxxxyred ... Hiya!

Being single again has made me feel like a spare part on many occasions, and I agree that going out with my usual friends all the time makes it difficult for me to meet others. However, I do not let it get me down. After such a long time in a relationship I find that it is cool just trying to get to know ME again, discovering which direction I want to go in.

Enjoy this time- good things will come

 

[foxxxyred]

This 'time' has been all my life lol I'm getting good at being single