I am in the mood to be beaten raw.

[Ms_Lilith]

Now my question is, does anyone ever get that? Silly way to put it, let me elaborate:

Y'all know I'm a switch. The submissive side of me is screaming for discipline...

I'm not big into pain, but right now, I just... I want to FEEL submissive in the most primal ways. It's a delicious craving, I just wish I could have it fulfilled.


Y'ever get like that? You crave something that you don't normally crave? And you want it to an extreme (for you)?

 

[Richard49]

Now my question is, does anyone ever get that? Silly way to put it, let me elaborate:

Y'all know I'm a switch. The submissive side of me is screaming for discipline...

I'm not big into pain, but right now, I just... I want to FEEL submissive in the most primal ways. It's a delicious craving, I just wish I could have it fulfilled.


Y'ever get like that? You crave something that you don't normally crave? And you want it to an extreme (for you)?

as a dom I do not get that way
but
as a dom I do get a burning disire to DOM
it drives me nuts when i can not fullfill it

 

[FungiUg]

I'm not big into pain, but right now, I just... I want to FEEL submissive in the most primal ways. It's a delicious craving, I just wish I could have it fulfilled.

Hmmm... can't say I have ever felt that. But I certainly know submissives who, like yourself, aren't normally into pain... and yet have requested to be spanked *really* hard.

As you say, I think it's a positive experience of their submission. Also one that they can carry around and feel for days.

For those who aren't into pain, I have been known to use bites for the same reason. The bruises remain for a week afterwards. (I was born with fangs... so why not use them?)

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: I am in the mood to be beaten raw.

as a dom I do get a burning disire to DOM
it drives me nuts when i can not fullfill it

Too bloody right! One of the most frustrating things. Even worse than being horny (since at least one can masturbate to fix that.)

 

[Red Menace]

I get that way

I was in that place about 3 weeks ago.

But now that it's been just a little over a month since I've been beaten, I don't really want to go there anymore. It has to be frequent and consistent for me to remember the rush of endorphins and emotions that give me pleasure in pain.

Of course, it's not up to me when I'll get a good beating again. Whenever Sir is in the mood, I'm sure he'll restore those feelings of safety and comfort in his torments. I hope.

 

[s'lara]

Echos the sentiment

As a masochist and a submissive, that particular feeling comes to mind quite often. Giving into the pain and floating away on it is another form of submission in itself.

But yes, the need or the fever for something extreme comes around quite a bit. Usually after a long lull between being dominated and receiving some physical form of that dominance. Careful what you wish for vixen ... you just might get it. Now, that isn't a bad thing at all, is it?

 

[Richard49]

Re: Re: Re: I am in the mood to be beaten raw.

Too bloody right! One of the most frustrating things. Even worse than being horny (since at least one can masturbate to fix that.)

yup

in addition a sub can "pain themselves"
we doms get zero

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Re: Echos the sentiment

Careful what you wish for vixen ... you just might get it.

no I won't. My S/O doesn't have a dominant bone in his body.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Echos the sentiment

no I won't. My S/O doesn't have a dominant bone in his body.

Bum!

You can't be 'really naughty' and get him to spank you in that case.

 

[s'lara]

Re: Re: Echos the sentiment

no I won't. My S/O doesn't have a dominant bone in his body.

Then i guess that need will go unsatiated. Speaking from experiece, that simply sucks. i hope you find some way to relieve it. Good luck.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I am in the mood to pull off my belt and whip a woman raw...

 

[Red Menace]

Re: Re: Re: Re: I am in the mood to be beaten raw.

yup

in addition a sub can "pain themselves"
we doms get zero

Not quite true, Richard. At least not in my case. It just isn't the same at all.

 

[Richard49]

I am in bad "need" to dom
to use that flogger and paddle
to pull on your collar



gggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I wish I could help at lest one of you submissives

 

[bunny bondage]

i'm a submissive masochist, and always enjoy pain. but i do get my moods. sometimes, i'm just hungry to be hurt, and i need extreme punishment. or, other times, i get the humiliation itch, and i want to be degraded in some of the worst ways.

so yes, i do get particularly "pain sluttish" at times.

 

[Red Menace]

I am in bad "need" to dom
to use that flogger and paddle
to pull on your collar



gggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I wish I could help at lest one of you submissives

I wish you could too.

I'm feeling quite neglected this weekend.

 

[FungiUg]

Yes... I think it's a truism that submissives require a lot of attention!

 

[pierced_boy]

Oh Yes!!!

When you need like that, it hurts not to have it


Hit me please please please
h

 

[Ms_Lilith]

my 'little girl' wrote me an email in which she was spanking the shit out of me.... *grin* what a good girl, eh? she said she'd only do it for me.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I'm buying a bigger belt...

Anyone want to help me break it in?

 

[MissTaken]

I know this craving.

It isn't necessarily for kink, but only in so far as kink is part of being Dominated.

Good for you, vixie.

your lil girl seems to be in tune with you, or lurking.

 

[Guest]

 

[Richard49]

I know this craving.

It isn't necessarily for kink, but only in so far as kink is part of being Dominated.

This kind of desire/craving for me is worse then blue balls
I am so irritated today
andI know it is this that is behind it

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I know this craving.

It isn't necessarily for kink, but only in so far as kink is part of being Dominated.

Good for you, vixie.

your lil girl seems to be in tune with you, or lurking.

my girl lurks.. but this surprised me.. she's the one who brings out my Dominant side, and she has said as long as I've known her that she couldn't be dominant... and yet, here she is, offering that to me, to help me be fulfilled...

 

[MissTaken]

my girl lurks.. but this surprised me.. she's the one who brings out my Dominant side, and she has said as long as I've known her that she couldn't be dominant... and yet, here she is, offering that to me, to help me be fulfilled...

Sometimes actions that seem "topifying" are actually okay if the submissive thinks she is pleasing her Dominant.

 

[Richard49]

Sometimes actions that seem "topifying" are actually okay if the submissive thinks she is pleasing her Dominant.

How true
how true