I am horrible at "fighting"

[sinnamongyrl]

i can never seem to think of anything clever,,etc to say when arguing.Hubby said fighting with me is like fighting with Shirley temple,,,yeah,,,,i get all pissed off,hurt,angry,,whataver...and i come up with great lines like"oh yeah..well,,,shut up stupid!".....hahha,,,anyone have good lines,etc to say?I think i am lacking a needed killer instinct,,,or maybe i am just too damn nice.....


ETA,,,sorry,,,,meant to post this in the playground,,,,sorry! hope a moderrator will move this for me,

 

[awestley12000]

Fighting

Wow lucky husband.

My ex g/f loved fighting and that's why she's my ex g/f.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

hahha,,FUNNY,,lots of people tell him that,I never hear though how lucky I am,,,,weird......

 

[INeedLove]

Hugs to you Sin! I am no good at fighting either-I can usually come up with a line or two later when its too late. Oh well! I can sympathize!!
Smiles-

 

[Calvin]

i can never seem to think of anything clever,,etc to say when arguing.Hubby said fighting with me is like fighting with Shirley temple,,,yeah,,,,i get all pissed off,hurt,angry,,whataver...and i come up with great lines like"oh yeah..well,,,shut up stupid!".....hahha,,,anyone have good lines,etc to say?I think i am lacking a needed killer instinct,,,or maybe i am just too damn nice.....


ETA,,,sorry,,,,meant to post this in the playground,,,,sorry! hope a moderrator will move this for me,

Don't bother to change... being "good" at fighting is not exactly a great trait to have.... not something to put on your life "resume" so to speak... it is really your hubby thet has the issue... he may want to just work on his communication.... and my guess is, if he really thought about it, he has no clue about how Shirley Temple fought.... lol

 

[sinnamongyrl]

hhahah,,yeah,I think he was trying to insult me though,i just cant be an asshole like that,,,,,but wish i was quicker with retorts sometimes,,,,,

 

[AncientBriton]

Retort

A good comeback which can't be answered easily is

"I refuse to enter a battle of wits with an unarmed person"

 

[sinnamongyrl]

heyyy,,thats a good one.I will prolly forget that one though....about 10 minutes ago,,,i went into the den where he was..asked a simple question,,got my head ripped off,,,and the only thing i could say was"oh yeah?,,",,,,,guess i am lover not a fighter

 

[AncientBriton]

Grandfathers Advice

My late grandfather told me - if you aren't going to argue then just use two words

"Yes Dear" can be used so many ways depending on how you say it

 

[sinnamongyrl]

i do use that one,,,,hahahha,,,drives him nuts,,,"ARE U BEING sarcastic V ?"....uhmmmm nooo DEAR,,,hahhah ,,tool!

 

[Calvin]

hhahah,,yeah,I think he was trying to insult me though,i just cant be an asshole like that,,,,,but wish i was quicker with retorts sometimes,,,,,

I think thet the word in bold says it all... for me, it is just not worth the time and emotion to fight.... I'm like you... more of a lover and a communicator.... fightings useless....

 

[crazy canuck]

Just tell him if you agreed with him, you both would be wrong.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Let me guess... your spacebar's broken?

 

[sum12chatwith]

Love to fight

I do think there is something exciting about a good fight (verbally of course) but then again that might be why I am in law school, I love to argue! Sometimes passion doesn't only come out in the bedroom, there can be something intense about arguing - as long as you don't cross the line into being hurtful. The guy I usually argue with also went to law school, so I think we were just meant for it! Sometimes it gets you all worked up and the only thing left to do is jump into bed! There are no prewritten lines that will work though, you have to be able to adjust to each situation - it takes practice but can be worth it. Like I said - as long as its playful and not hurtful though, and if your man is hurtful then he's' not worth it! Good luck!

 

[Calvin]

I do think there is something exciting about a good fight (verbally of course) but then again that might be why I am in law school, I love to argue! Sometimes passion doesn't only come out in the bedroom, there can be something intense about arguing - as long as you don't cross the line into being hurtful. The guy I usually argue with also went to law school, so I think we were just meant for it! Sometimes it gets you all worked up and the only thing left to do is jump into bed! There are no prewritten lines that will work though, you have to be able to adjust to each situation - it takes practice but can be worth it. Like I said - as long as its playful and not hurtful though, and if your man is hurtful then he's' not worth it! Good luck!

yes... very true.... but there is a world of difference between a good spirited debate where the communicators are respectful to each persons point of view and a verbal "fight"... like night and day....
But your right... takes very special people to do it...

 

[astrobi]

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[savorthetastes]

Cin,

Your best retort might be....after a slight pause....give him the seductive smile and ask..."is it time for make up sex now?" If I were him I'd forgot all about why we were fighting!

 

[Jonny G]

next time he starts just say

" look if i want comments from you i would have thrown peanuts "


cheers

jx

 

[sinnamongyrl]

next time he starts just say

" look if i want comments from you i would have thrown peanuts "


cheers

jx

hhahahhahah,,,LMAO!!!!!!Oh ..i gotta write that down,,,,,THANK YOU!!!!

 

[thump]

heyyy,,thats a good one.I will prolly forget that one though....about 10 minutes ago,,,i went into the den where he was..asked a simple question,,got my head ripped off,,,and the only thing i could say was"oh yeah?,,",,,,,guess i am lover not a fighter

Well darlin, we love ya just the way you are.

 

[thump]

Sinn, one of the things my ex use to do that would make me so damned mad. Whenever we got into an arguement she would keep saying "you are right...of course you are never wrong, you must be right" she would keep saying that no matter what I would say, and she would do it with a shit eating grin. Use to drive me crazy and use to shut me up pretty fast.

 

[phranque]

Well if...

If he ever calls you an idiot (and I hope not), you can come back with... "you married me, that makes you the bigger idiot"

 

[sinnamongyrl]

Sinn, one of the things my ex use to do that would make me so damned mad. Whenever we got into an arguement she would keep saying "you are right...of course you are never wrong, you must be right" she would keep saying that no matter what I would say, and she would do it with a shit eating grin. Use to drive me crazy and use to shut me up pretty fast.

i should try that,,hhehehh

 

[sinnamongyrl]

If he ever calls you an idiot (and I hope not), you can come back with... "you married me, that makes you the bigger idiot"

uhmmhe calls me lots worse things than idiot

 

[phranque]

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww