Hubby likes to be spanked!!

[sweetaspeaches]

My hubby and I were together for 7yrs before we got married and then we got married alittle over a year ago. About a month after we got married he suddenly admitted that he liked to have his ass spanked during sex. His confession kinda blew my mind, but I must admit that I was turned on by it. My question to yall is can any of you give me any idea's how I can include spanking him with our love making.

 

[midwestyankee]

My hubby and I were together for 7yrs before we got married and then we got married alittle over a year ago. About a month after we got married he suddenly admitted that he liked to have his ass spanked during sex. His confession kinda blew my mind, but I must admit that I was turned on by it. My question to yall is can any of you give me any idea's how I can include spanking him with our love making.

I don't mean to be disrespectful, but the easiest way to include spanking in your lovemaking is to spank him while you're having sex. If you're looking for specific strategies or techniques, others may have suggestions for you.

If you want to spank him, whip his ass to a red pulp and then tell him it's time to fuck.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

My hubby and I were together for 7yrs before we got married and then we got married alittle over a year ago. About a month after we got married he suddenly admitted that he liked to have his ass spanked during sex. His confession kinda blew my mind, but I must admit that I was turned on by it. My question to yall is can any of you give me any idea's how I can include spanking him with our love making.

It all sort of depends on what your definition of "during sex" is. (Shades of Bill Clinton!)

If you're referring to during the specific act of intercourse itself:

• If your arms are long enough, and he's on top (missionary position) or you're side by side, just reach out and give him a few good smacks.
• If your arms aren't long enough to reach his ass, perhaps you'll need to include an implement - ping pong paddle (relatively short), homemade paddle of whatever length you want, fraternity paddle, etc. Even a riding crop if your aim is good enough from whichever position you're in.

If you're referring to during the entire process (including foreplay):

• Have him bend over (or kneel on) the bed, and go at his bum with whatever you wish - hand(s), paddles, floggers, crops, canes, wooden spoons... the list is as long as your imagination!
• If he'll fit and it's not uncomfortable for either of you, have him lie across your thighs, and go at it <see above>.

Basically, the response is this: If he likes his ass spanked during (any or all part of) sex, and you're okay with the idea, find a way (or three or ninety) to make percussive contact with his gluteus maximus to whatever degree you and he are comfortable. If he wants it glowing bright red and emanating enough heat to keep the bedroom comfy during the worst winter nights, but you can only bring yourself to baby-girl pink, your preference rules. If he wants baby-girl pink and you'd like to blast away until he has butt-bruises that last for weeks, his preference rules. Unless y'all decide to get into a no-limits Mistress/slave relationship, blah blah blah.

Key advice: Communicate. Talk about his desires/interests, his limits. Talk about your desires/interests, your limits. Talk. Then talk some more. Experiment a bit. Talk some more. Experiment some more. Talk some more. Experiment some more. Talk some more. Get the idea?

BTW, you (plural) may well find that desires/interests increase with time and experience, and limits expand. Isn't life (and love!) great?