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Romanticstone
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Many factors considered....
One of the most important things when pleasuring your man is 'feedback'.
Make sure that he can tell how much pleasure YOU are having from this coupling:
1. Be VOCAL....but not 'conversational' if you catch my drift.
2. Don't just LIE there, match his movements with your own...this may take practice, especially with a new lover. A little background music can go a long way here.
3. If using positions that allow face to face contact, be sure that your facial expressions match what you are feeling. Tight lipped smiles are for polite social gatherings....not the bedroom. If uncertain what your facial expressions are like during intercourse, find a way to incorporate a mirror into your activities. -If what you see looks just a little 'goofy' to you, he's probably eating it up.
More technically, there are various positions and motions which may be more stimulating to your man...but the only true test here is trying new ones for yourself. One key that may aid in such discovery is knowing both your partner's and your own anatomy. Find the most sensative spots on his penis using your hands or mouth, and visualize for yourself how these areas may be stimulated inside of you.
One of the most important things when pleasuring your man is 'feedback'.
Make sure that he can tell how much pleasure YOU are having from this coupling:
1. Be VOCAL....but not 'conversational' if you catch my drift.
2. Don't just LIE there, match his movements with your own...this may take practice, especially with a new lover. A little background music can go a long way here.
3. If using positions that allow face to face contact, be sure that your facial expressions match what you are feeling. Tight lipped smiles are for polite social gatherings....not the bedroom. If uncertain what your facial expressions are like during intercourse, find a way to incorporate a mirror into your activities. -If what you see looks just a little 'goofy' to you, he's probably eating it up.
More technically, there are various positions and motions which may be more stimulating to your man...but the only true test here is trying new ones for yourself. One key that may aid in such discovery is knowing both your partner's and your own anatomy. Find the most sensative spots on his penis using your hands or mouth, and visualize for yourself how these areas may be stimulated inside of you.
Ezzie
Unrequited Love Slave
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My former fuck buddy loved it when I'd whisper certain dirty thing in his ear while we were making love. He also liked to have my fingernails raked up his backside starting as low as I could reach and going all the way up to his neck. This worked everytime.
Just my two cents.
P.S. Coolr... nothing wrong with anal. I have some tips for getting men off harder during that, too. lol
Just my two cents.
P.S. Coolr... nothing wrong with anal. I have some tips for getting men off harder during that, too. lol
