How wet is to wet?

[shewolf3003]

I have been involved in a new relationship for about six months now. Things have been going exceedingly well. I am now 18 weeks pregnant. Prior to my current partner I have always produced a fair amount of vaginal lubrication during sex. I have been multi-orgasmic. My new lover although has unleashed my ability to squirt when I orgasm. This has become problematic. If I orgasm prior to him being close then he says that I'm just to wet and although it feels good that he won't be able to cum so he just stops all sexual activity. We currently keep any foreplay to a minimum so as to decrease my level of excitement during penetration to keep the moisture levels down. Have any of you encountered a similar situation? Any suggestions?

 

[ecstaticsub]

Too wet? Hard to believe someone would complain about that. Is it because of all the wetness is reducing friction? If so perhaps if you kegel on him with a little more force during sex you can increase the friction.

He could always have a towel near by and dry you and then continue on, too.

Seems odd to me that he will stop sexual activity even though it feels good. You would think he would just find another position or change something. Could it really be he is afraid of hurting the baby?

 

[JamieJ424]

Could be a byproduct of pregnancy as much as squirting. I've experienced that.

But be that as it may, it sounds like the issue is less with your wetness and more with your partner. Shutting you down, rushing foreplay...I wouldn't do that unless it was a punishment and I told you ahead of time.

J

 

[shy slave]

Wetness can be highly erotic or a nuisance depending on 101 things.

Like es said, talk to him. All activity ceasing seems hard on both of you. Must be a reason why he does that.

Men are simple annoying and complex, sometimes all at the same time!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Been there, done that in a past relationship. People are individuals with differing sensory levels and needs, for your partner obviously the wetness is a valid issue in terms of creating the correct friction and sensation required for orgasm. Doesn't make you defective, just it is not something which works physically for him. Talking is the way to go to find a way where you can be both happy and satisfied without anyone needing to feel they are the problem. Thankfully for us, F loves my wetness and does not find it a hinderance at all.

Catalina

 

[sb2009]

In my first marriage we had the same issue. He was a jerk so would become upset with me for being "too wet" and it would escalate from there.

I learned later that for others, my wetness is quite the turn on.

I think the towel suggestion is a good one..that way everyone can get lots of foreplay but also have the needed friction.

 

[SirLeo]

Wetness can be highly erotic or a nuisance depending on 101 things.

Like es said, talk to him. All activity ceasing seems hard on both of you. Must be a reason why he does that.

Men are simple annoying and complex, sometimes all at the same time!

Well I guess we now know where men stand in all of this......
And btw- the wetter the sexier! And there are so many different types of wetness, the squirting type, the lubrication naturally there all the time, the early arousal, the white creamy kind, the mucusy kind, the late stage arousal, the ovulating, etc. I love em all.
We should start a thread!