How To...

[PlucksTheHeartstrings]

... add a little spice to a long distance relationship?

Background. My boyfriend and I are separated by 1,000 miles (Not to be confused with the Proclaimers' 500 Miles) and though we enjoy a healthy cyber love life, I'm always looking for ways to up the ante, so to speak. In perusing some of the forums here, I've come across some great ideas... for people in close proximity.

I'm sexually submissive, into teasing, edging, and orgasm control (for me) even though I've never done these things in person. My sweet boyfriend, who leans more dominant, is more than happy to oblige me, but I'm just not sure of how to get started on these things at a distance. We're super compatible (or will be once we become an in-person couple) in the boudoir, but there's never any harm in experimenting, even at more than an arm's reach away.

I'm open to suggestions on how to start this type of play over the phone, in sexting conversations, and in virtual practice.

Thanks in advance!

 

[Goldenfinger]

... add a little spice to a long distance relationship?

Background. My boyfriend and I are separated by 1,000 miles (Not to be confused with the Proclaimers' 500 Miles) and though we enjoy a healthy cyber love life, I'm always looking for ways to up the ante, so to speak. In perusing some of the forums here, I've come across some great ideas... for people in close proximity.

I'm sexually submissive, into teasing, edging, and orgasm control (for me) even though I've never done these things in person. My sweet boyfriend, who leans more dominant, is more than happy to oblige me, but I'm just not sure of how to get started on these things at a distance. We're super compatible (or will be once we become an in-person couple) in the boudoir, but there's never any harm in experimenting, even at more than an arm's reach away.

I'm open to suggestions on how to start this type of play over the phone, in sexting conversations, and in virtual practice.

Thanks in advance!

Lovense makes some cool toys that you can turn on and off with your phone. So you and FaceTime and kinda Mutual masturbation with controlling each others toys.

 

[PlucksTheHeartstrings]

Lovense makes some cool toys that you can turn on and off with your phone. So you and FaceTime and kinda Mutual masturbation with controlling each others toys.

Unfortunately, this economy has been killing both of us, which is probably part of the reason we're still 1,000 miles apart. We have to rely on more creative means. And, I have a remote controllable toy already that we haven't even used together yet. But I thank you for the advice! Lovense is on my wish list for that $1.9billion Powerball win.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Unfortunately, this economy has been killing both of us, which is probably part of the reason we're still 1,000 miles apart. We have to rely on more creative means. And, I have a remote controllable toy already that we haven't even used together yet. But I thank you for the advice! Lovense is on my wish list for that $1.9billion Powerball win.

I too have a list for a powerball win. Good luck, last week I got 1 number whick was 1 number better than the time before.

 

[PlucksTheHeartstrings]

I too have a list for a powerball win. Good luck, last week I got 1 number whick was 1 number better than the time before.

I forgot to buy tickets last week, so I'm one ahead...? I think. Is that how it works? I'm definitely buying at least five this week. So I can be $5 poorer next Sunday morning.