Raingirl85
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Mar 11, 2016
- Posts
- 141
Hello, I in my first official D/s relationship. In the past I have had Dominant and kinky partners but there were no rules or labels or structure. So the relationship side of this is new for me, even though most of the sex acts are not. If that makes sense?
My Dom is absolutely incredible, but I feel he is going easy on me. The relationship is only a few weeks old, and he knows I have not been in this formally before. I fantasize about him being much rougher with me- I want him to slap my face and breasts during sex, spank harder, squeeze my neck etc. Should I just request what I want straight up? Or wait and give him time to feel ready taking things a bit harder?
TIA.
My Dom is absolutely incredible, but I feel he is going easy on me. The relationship is only a few weeks old, and he knows I have not been in this formally before. I fantasize about him being much rougher with me- I want him to slap my face and breasts during sex, spank harder, squeeze my neck etc. Should I just request what I want straight up? Or wait and give him time to feel ready taking things a bit harder?
TIA.