DayMaker
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See, I suck at this seduction stuff. I need more pointers.You completely lost me?!?!?
How To Seduce A Lit-Man
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beachbaby179
pearls go with everything
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I have a work out in mind for you!
See what I did there!
I see what you did there. Yes I do.
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PeteHulbert37
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Stalker!
I'll show you mine if you show me yours!
DarkSimian
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beachbaby179
pearls go with everything
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Seriously - write him a story with him as the main character. It shows:
1 - you can string some thoughts together
2 - you see him "that way"
3 - there is a naughty side of you that you may not show in the threads
1 - you can string some thoughts together
2 - you see him "that way"
3 - there is a naughty side of you that you may not show in the threads
Sundayschild
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Don't lump us all together. Plenty of variety in the lit jungle. We're not all Vultures.
Obviously the reverse also applies.
Obviously the reverse also applies.
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SoulAssasin247
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All you have to do is exist nothing to it
SassySheDevil
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Hey, I said hi to you.
Remember I was one of the welcoming ones. But thank you.
SassySheDevil
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Testosterone inhibits critical thinking. But then, so does estrogen. So we're all pretty much fucked.
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SoulAssasin247
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Hey, I said hi to you.
But thank you.
It worked. You seduced me and now I am in your trap.
DayMaker
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Matt_Next_Door
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Pat them on the head...
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I think that is often the goal.
Fair enough. It has been some time however, and I'm not used to the single thing. Is it kosher to just ask if a chick wants to bang?
Christobal
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No that is how to marry a Lit-man
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DayMaker
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You can always ask....but I can't guarantee the results.
It's all about aligning expectations, needs, and desires....and reading her posts. If she posts that she's looking for a quick bang, flood her inbox. If she posts that she's excited that that she just reorganized her closet....she's probably not a sure thing.
Christobal
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You can always ask....but I can't guarantee the results.
It's all about aligning expectations, needs, and desires....and reading her posts. If she posts that she's looking for a quick bang, flood her inbox. If she posts that she's excited that that she just reorganized her closet....she's probably not a sure thing.
You have just saved me so much time.
Matt_Next_Door
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Hey, I got off track.
We want to hear what YOU MEN look for!
Ummm Brains...yeah ..that's it..
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You can always ask....but I can't guarantee the results.
It's all about aligning expectations, needs, and desires....and reading her posts. If she posts that she's looking for a quick bang, flood her inbox. If she posts that she's excited that that she just reorganized her closet....she's probably not a sure thing.
There is no such thing as a sure thing. Honestly answering this question and not turning it into a joke...
You want a real man? Then stop looking for what society tells you is a good man. Look for someone who doesn't match your expectations. Understand that he has been hurt, just as you have and will be slow to trust. Just be there for him and be his friend. Take things slow. Nurture and support him, be on his side. Be protective and be tender and affectionate. Don't become needy and clingy right away, give him space. Show him who you are and tell him what you want, as plainly and clearly as you can. Be honest about everything.
If you can do these things, the right man will find YOU.
yellowrocket
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That's a hell of a good way. As long as you've talked once or twice.
I don't know about the rest of you, but that works for me.Pat them on the head...
Want to get my attention good luck. I just assume all of the women here are so bombarded with attention seeking energy vampires that unless you let me know you're interested I'm not going to say much
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Find a man and talk to him. Really good start.
Sundayschild
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Hey, I got off track.
We want to hear what YOU MEN look for!
For me? Some smarts, but I'm not an intellectual snob. I don't feel that I have to impress you, so you shouldn't feel you need to impress me.
Humility. Not servility, but the acceptance that no one is perfect and I don't expect you to be.
A general positivity. I don't expect you to be happy-smiley 24/7, but being a moody bugger all the time gets old fast. I'm a sucker for a cute smile, and it comes across in your typing.
Humour. I come here for a laugh. Let's have some fun.
But that's just like, my opinion man.....
