Shanes_OralOrations
Really Really Experienced
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- Jul 18, 2022
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I second the cock sleeve idea. We use them sometimes. I'm big enough for my wife, but I'm not huge, and sometimes it's fun to be bigger. It doesn't take a lot to make a difference. It also greatly extends your stamina time. Even though the sensation is not the same (which is why you last longer), there is something deeply satisfying about plunging a "bigger than usual" cock in and out of my wife over and over again for a satisfyingly looooong time. We use it to bring out her multi-orgasmic nature with prolonged fucking, and when she's had enough, just whip it off and get my O in.
Since she's opened up enough about that I really think you guys have an opportunity to develop a new routine when you can both get what you need, which would hopefully re-ignite her desire for more frequent sex as it will get a lot more exciting for her.
As for the "betrayal" of faking it question, personally I think that's a bit over the top. It sounds to me like she realized early on that it was harder to cum with you than past partners, but liked you enough anyway that it didn't matter for her, and she stayed with you anyway. Unless she was very comfortable being open about sex (and frankly a lot of people just aren't) it wasn't something she had the tools to talk about, especially early in a relationship. At some point she started faking, probably out of a desire to make YOU feel good about your ability to make love to her. Yes, that's deceptive, but it's motivated by the right emotions, just without the best communication tools. It became a habit, and the longer you fake something, the harder it is to decide when and how the best time is to come clean. While in the end that wasn't healthy for the relationship, I'd label it more as a relationship and communication challenge than a betrayal.
Since she's opened up enough about that I really think you guys have an opportunity to develop a new routine when you can both get what you need, which would hopefully re-ignite her desire for more frequent sex as it will get a lot more exciting for her.
As for the "betrayal" of faking it question, personally I think that's a bit over the top. It sounds to me like she realized early on that it was harder to cum with you than past partners, but liked you enough anyway that it didn't matter for her, and she stayed with you anyway. Unless she was very comfortable being open about sex (and frankly a lot of people just aren't) it wasn't something she had the tools to talk about, especially early in a relationship. At some point she started faking, probably out of a desire to make YOU feel good about your ability to make love to her. Yes, that's deceptive, but it's motivated by the right emotions, just without the best communication tools. It became a habit, and the longer you fake something, the harder it is to decide when and how the best time is to come clean. While in the end that wasn't healthy for the relationship, I'd label it more as a relationship and communication challenge than a betrayal.
