I'd like to say i wish i knew... :/
I will eventually, i'm aware i ideally need to get back into the world first- joined local social group for walks and event days etc, get used to be out and around other people and see what happens. When i was remote working, i convinced myself online was only way i'd meet someone- now i'm getting out and hitting gym so i appear more sociable haha
Do you like women as people? Have women friends? Enjoy spending time with women who you aren’t attracted to?
I do yes, my best friend is a woman and there are women in my closest friend group - they actually out weight males 3 to 5 women
There is no such creature as a woman I'm not attracted to...
If you have women close to you, I would ask them for advice. Tell them that you would like their honest assessment, and then listen to it. Not specifically like ask them how to find sex, but ask them how you come across as a potential partner, and if there are things that you could be doing differently to make you more appealing to women.
That is obvious.
is funny.. have somewhat had that conversation with them. I did ask one of them out after we went to a arcade as the time together just felt right and i thought she was single. turns out she was secretly seeing a mutual friend of ours.
will be an interest thing to hear their honest assessment... I may word it in a way that i was talking about it in therapy- which is no lie, i have talked about this there too
Absolutely not. I’ve been quite clear that I find you to be repulsive.
I don’t mean that you should try to fuck your friends. I mean that you could ask them to give you their honest feedback. It might be difficult to hear, but it could also be helpful. If you’re truly interested and receptive to it.
Apologies. Never my intention to offend.
Probably a good example to the OP of how not to go about it though. It's all educational stuff here!
I don't mean to fuck them either, they're like family
no dis to them mind! Just not for me
I don't mean to fuck them either, they're like family
Interested, my best friend (who is female) showed me around her work before, for her colleagues' opinion on me.. it was positive but I didn't trust the clientele she was asking ... they were either gay or.. of an older generation shall we say... not exactly the demographics I intend to be appealing to
This is genuinely good advice. Don’t be like that guy, just trying to whip his dick out anytime a woman exists. Treat women like people.
If you like women as people, and are just having a hard time meeting potential dates on the apps, I’d suggest doing things where you can meet women in person. Take classes in things that interest you. Join social groups that do things you enjoy. Volunteer with organizations that fill needs you are passionate about. Expand your real life social circle, and the right woman might be easier to find.I don't mean to fuck them either, they're like family
Interested, my best friend (who is female) showed me around her work before, for her colleagues' opinion on me.. it was positive but I didn't trust the clientele she was asking ... they were either gay or.. of an older generation shall we say... not exactly the demographics I intend to be appealing to
That's exactly what we're working on at the moment- doing things with a new social group, classes at gym- the spin instructor asked my name to be friendly which I appreciate, she has no idea how much that took me by surpise inside haha
You're welcome! From your profile pic you look in decent shape so if your personality matches it shouldn't be too hard. Just keep it real, be nice and make friends. One will turn out to be the one that gets your
Thank you, am working on getting in shape. That pic is from Jan and I lost 6lbs over course of FebYou're welcome! From your profile pic you look in decent shape so if your personality matches it shouldn't be too hard. Just keep it real, be nice and make friends. One will turn out to be the one that gets your
Good one and kind of true. Prices are paid either in time and effort or pregnancy.
Dance with a woman and you're halfway to bed already! She'll be checking out how you move and interact and making mental pictures of how that translates into sex.
