How to ..... Forget?

[Dapperguy]

I'm amazed that he could still wank off after drinking that much whiskey. Usually alcohol has a deadening effect on the male libido.

Not on fucking mine. A good bottle of Johnnie Walker Black Label makes my cock hard as a hickory branch. I can fuck any whore for hours or until she is sticking to the sheets, due to a combination her cunt juice and my glutinous semen. Try some.

 

[gunhilltrain]

Not on fucking mine. A good bottle of Johnnie Walker Black Label makes my cock hard as a hickory branch. I can fuck any whore for hours or until she is sticking to the sheets, due to a combination her cunt juice and my glutinous semen. Try some.

I have tried it when drunk, and it doesn't work for me. Pot, on the other hand, has the opposite effect.

I'm reminded of that Dead Kennedys song, "Too Drunk to Fuck."

 

[Dapperguy]

I pre

I have tried it when drunk, and it doesn't work for me. Pot, on the other hand, has the opposite effect.

I'm reminded of that Dead Kennedys song, "Too Drunk to Fuck."

I prefer to fucked to be drunk.

 

[gunhilltrain]

I prefer to fucked to be drunk.

You just said that you could easily do both at the same time.

 

[Dapperguy]

After

You just said that you could easily do both at the same time.

After sticking the whore to the sheets with, blood, cunt juice and semen I’m too fucked to be drunk. What fuck is wrong with that? Are you a semantics?

 

[gunhilltrain]

After

After sticking the whore to the sheets with, blood, cunt juice and semen I’m too fucked to be drunk. What fuck is wrong with that? Are you a semantics?

Okay, take it easy. I never meant to say that there is anything wrong with it.

 

[Nightspeed]

I honestly, truly don't want to forget anything. Doesn't matter how bad it was. My memories made me who I am today (for better or worse). I've got mental and emotional scars and disorders now from some of them that have caused me pain, sorrow, and even the ability to work for a living. Still...

 

[shizzz]

I dont know. I’m constantly haunted by intrusive thoughts if the past.

Let me know if you figure it out. I think the idea is to have the present consume you. Or that’s what I have read….

I constantly mind fuck myself into anger and unhappiness, it’s a serious game killer. In the mean time my wife just forgets it all. And she’s the one that did all the fucking. If I’d done that. I’d remember as much as I could for the old spank bank. Instead I can be balls deep in her and have visions of other dudes dicks in there, and it kills my boner immediately, then I feel like even less of a man cause I now appear to have ED FML

 

[Goldenfinger]

If you don’t want to forget it, it’s easy to forget. If you want to forget it, well good luck.

 

[jaF0]

Seems that I've developed almost a Tourette's type pattern of screaming, yelling, groaning or moaning loudly when a bad thought tries to take over. Sometimes it works, not always. Acts as a distraction to the mind I guess.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have lived a suck-life. From a mother that hated me to wives that have left me, I have had to buy headstones for children, and had to lie to people in emergency rooms why all my ribs were broken when really my grandfather did it with an axe handle. I even had cancer three different times and I am not even 50 yet. All my life just when I think things are good, the rug gets pulled out from under me and I was worse than before. It is this sickening life where I do not dare to enjoy anything because the second I do, experience says its just about to get really bad. It is pretty sucky when you do not dare be happy...

@jaF0 I understand.

It seems counterintuitive I know, but just be nice to them. That is not always easy, but it is the only thing that works. I do not even know why, I guess because deep down inside you know you are better than they are and can rise above them. If they are out of your life, try writing a nice letter to them, and just don't send it. Or the same if they have passed. Being nice is THE only thing that works.

I really understand that is not easy. I had my own mother says, "I have got a son and daughter, I never needed you", "You were not worth childbirth", "I wish I had aborted you". It really sets the bar pretty low when your own mother hates you, Or a grandfather that beats you with an axe handle; These are people that are supposed to love you. But I am still nice to them. The are aged shells of what they once were, no longer threats I know, but I still am nice to them, and somewhere in that, I feel better. I tried everything else and it just does not work.

Being nice just works.

 

[Ambient4190]

It seems counterintuitive I know, but just be nice to them. That is not always easy, but it is the only thing that works. I do not even know why, I guess because deep down inside you know you are better than they are and can rise above them. If they are out of your life, try writing a nice letter to them, and just don't send it. Or the same if they have passed. Being nice is THE only thing that works.

..all expectations are dropped. A person realizes they are fine on their own and those people (family members) become like strangers. Confidence from knowing you will never make the mistake of trusting them again. Peace from knowing those people (family members) are powerless and can no longer hurt.

Being around family is no different than work life for some of us. Shields raised at all times. Never forget but keep moving/looking forward..

 

[jaF0]

Stuff in my head from over 50 years ago. Just like yesterday.

What would today be if those things were different?

 

[Bigboobbabe]

If what you want to forget (move beyond) is traumatic, resurfaces when triggered, and causes you to react in ways you cannot tolerate, therapy may be needed.

Before anyone jumps on me, show the OP and me some grace.

Post traumatic stress doesn't only affect military personnel.

When someone suffering PTS experiences an event adjacent to their original trauma, they lack the ability to think rationally in the moment. The reaction can be disturbing, and the feeling of needing to forget to survive can become debilitating.

My counselor recommended the book Triggers. The author takes you through the process of discovery.
Simply, if green socks triggers fight or flight, you may want to forget green socks exist or if they exist, want to forget why they are in your life. It's probably not the socks causing the problem, but something traumatic that happened involving green socks. You need to remember that event and change it's hold on you. It works.

Another piece is called Tapping In.
Tapping is an exercise to lessen anxiety and it's hold on you when you remember a traumatic event or it's substitute.

This is serious business. DM if you want more information..

 

[MidKnight1378]

Debated quite a while about posting this because of some of the stupid useless answers I've seen.

Need real replies, not irrelevant crap.


How do you forget? People, places, events, conversations, etc. There are things I want wiped permanently, never to be recalled again.

Selective amnesia if you will.

I'm not a fan of hypnosis, but if it would work .....

I doubt you’d be able to get this done but electroshock therapy does do this. You’d have to find a doctor or hospital willing to treat you.

 

[Noor]

I doubt you’d be able to get this done but electroshock therapy does do this. You’d have to find a doctor or hospital willing to treat you.

Exactly what I was coming to say. However, it would be hard to selectively forget, electroshock ( they call it something else now) seems to be pretty random at which memories it takes.

 

[gunhilltrain]

Exactly what I was coming to say. However, it would be hard to selectively forget, electroshock ( they call it something else now) seems to be pretty random at which memories it takes.

I had this years ago when I was treated for depression. For one thing, I think the amount of current is much less than they used to use. (It's not like One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Next, which Ken Kesey based on his experiences in the early 1960s.) I probably lost a few recent memories, and I was a little - bewildered - after some sessions. It hardly makes your mind a blank slate. I think it's impossible to selectively remove just certain memories because we have no idea how the brain processes that information.

Oliver Sacks had a patient that had lost all of his memories after the age of about twenty-five. He speculated that severe alcoholism was the cause but he couldn't prove it.

 

[jaF0]

While trying to work out a few lines for a story last night, I remembered something from 1986 or so. It ruined me then, just as now. I can't get past it even this morning. May not for the rest of the day, or longer.

 

[jaF0]

Memories, memories, go away.

Don't come back no other days.


.

 

[Mittering]

Debated quite a while about posting this because of some of the stupid useless answers I've seen.

Need real replies, not irrelevant crap.


How do you forget? People, places, events, conversations, etc. There are things I want wiped permanently, never to be recalled again.

Selective amnesia if you will.

I'm not a fan of hypnosis, but if it would work .....

You have to turn them into something else entirely.

Turn them into a lesson. Either for you or someone else.

Turn them into a different era in your life. Things that happened before and things that happened after.

Create a different you. Things that happened to the old you, and things that after you reinvented yourself. This one can be fun if you are outgoing and creative. New clothing choices, new location, new friends...hell, pick up a new accent and shock your friends and family.

The key I'm trying to impress is change. Think about it and change...for you.