How to delay orgasm

[suckonsimon]

Couple of suggestions for delaying male orgasm:

Assuming you're going bareback, just have a condom convenient so that if other ways of edging back from the blast are feeling unlikely, come out, calm a moment while you do other things to her, roll on the skin and get back to it. OK you lose the total pleasure but you've had that and now you have the pleasure of confidence about taking her the distance before you spunk it all out.

The other one is simple: get a bit older. For a guy 45 plus, assuming regular sex, he learns the mature art of holding off just as long as he wants to, at least most times.

 

[irishblade]

This made me laugh. It's based on something someone said to me once that I thought was funny... and strangely hot.

I'd love to be handled by her haha. Unfortunately there wouldn't be a big hammer involved lol

 

[MrRandyWatson]

You're a female with the username "Bighammerfucker"?

She fucks men with big, ahem, hammers? It could work if you think about it the right way. After all, I assume you're female and your name contains "bone."

 

[perrafuker]

SSRIs (selective seratonin re-uptake inhibitors like Prozac, Wellbutrin, etc.) will delay orgasms, but they also might make them impossible.



My last assignation was with such a woman. Not super quick, but nowhere close to the duration I would need to get off. She was apologetic, but she is a one and done girl.

I would have liked to challenge that, but there is no telling another person what their orgasms ought to be like.

quite true anti-depressants suck balls

 

[Michael_Wayne]

There's the obvious way of doing it by slowing the sex down. Or taking a break... Anyone (preferably females as I am one myself, dunno if it will work the same for guys vs girls? Maybe in some ways) have any ways to prevent having an orgasm like 5 minutes into the sex? (Could always just do it again or come beforehand but it would be great to be able to make the sex last longer without necessarily resorting to those measures).

Maybe I missed it, but no ones mentioned imagery? Like dead puppies, tax forms, mental debate between double chocolate cookie with white chips, or vice versa....

 

[Kitty]

You're a female with the username "Bighammerfucker"?

Yes. She fucks big hammers lol

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Yes. She fucks big hammers lol

Hell yea

Lmao

 

[mterrence]

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[alexx_is]

Maybe I missed it, but no ones mentioned imagery? Like dead puppies, tax forms, mental debate between double chocolate cookie with white chips, or vice versa....

love your suggestions
But yeah, my first thought was that - just distract yourself with something maybe.

 

[AlwaysTooWet]

I also need to master the art of delaying orgasm/edging. It seems very hard to achieve and is a work in progress. I'm embarrassed sometimes about how quickly I can get there