How to delay orgasm

[Bighammerfucker]

There's the obvious way of doing it by slowing the sex down. Or taking a break... Anyone (preferably females as I am one myself, dunno if it will work the same for guys vs girls? Maybe in some ways) have any ways to prevent having an orgasm like 5 minutes into the sex? (Could always just do it again or come beforehand but it would be great to be able to make the sex last longer without necessarily resorting to those measures).

 

[rbone04]

There's the obvious way of doing it by slowing the sex down. Or taking a break... Anyone (preferably females as I am one myself, dunno if it will work the same for guys vs girls? Maybe in some ways) have any ways to prevent having an orgasm like 5 minutes into the sex? (Could always just do it again or come beforehand but it would be great to be able to make the sex last longer without necessarily resorting to those measures).

You're a female with the username "Bighammerfucker"?

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

Slow it down, squeeze the clit, thighs wide open so nothing is stimulating anything. Do this over and over. I go for hours just edging like this.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

You're a female with the username "Bighammerfucker"?

Would something like "angeldivababy" have been more fitting, then?

 

[rbone04]

Would something like "angeldivababy" have been more fitting, then?

Haha no, no. By all means to each their own... Just making an observation that it's one of the more aggressive female usernames I've seen. My first thought was I could never handle a woman with such a self-imposed moniker.

It's sexual and violent!

Edited b/c I can't type.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

Haha no, no. By all means to each their own... Just making an observation that it's one of the more aggressive female usernames I've seen. My first thought was I could never handle a woman with such a self-imposed moniker.

It's sexual and violent!

Edited b/c I can't type.

This made me laugh. It's based on something someone said to me once that I thought was funny... and strangely hot.

 

[rbone04]

This made me laugh. It's based on something someone said to me once that I thought was funny... and strangely hot.

This story might make a solid new thread... "Why I'm the Bighammerfucker."

I'd subscribe.

 

[MikeD93]

As a guy i flex a muscle try to divert the blood flow, then allows me to.reset again

 

[rbone04]

As a guy i flex a muscle try to divert the blood flow, then allows me to.reset again

Like... Your bicep?

 

[MikeD93]

Like... Your bicep?

Or calf muscle it all depends dont want to be too odd. Just something discreet

 

[rbone04]

Or calf muscle it all depends dont want to be too odd. Just something discreet

I'm thinking a quick trapezius or deltoid flex would be most discrete. I always flex my calf when I cum. It's how she knows I'm not faking.

 

[MikeD93]

I'm thinking a quick trapezius or deltoid flex would be most discrete. I always flex my calf when I cum. It's how she knows I'm not faking.

The worst is when you cramp up by accident

 

[Bighammerfucker]

This story might make a solid new thread... "Why I'm the Bighammerfucker."

I'd subscribe.

While I don't much feel like recounting the story right now, I think you hit the nail on the head (pun definitely intended) of why I liked the phrase so much when I first heard it with what you said about it being aggressive. There is nothing I find sexier than lustful, subtle aggression/domination.

 

[MikeD93]

While I don't much feel like recounting the story right now, I think you hit the nail on the head (pun definitely intended) of why I liked the phrase so much when I first heard it with what you said about it being aggressive. There is nothing I find sexier than lustful, subtle aggression/domination.

Sounds like a good time

 

[rbone04]

The worst is when you cramp up by accident

You're telling me! Last time I cramped mid-orgasm we had to get housekeeping to change the sheets. Embarrassing!

 

[OpenMouth]

Hahaha

This thread is funny.

My wife really struggles with delaying orgasm, her vaginal floor muscles have never recovered from having3 kids in five years. Put my tongue anywhere near her and she cums within a couple of minutes and starts giggling in embarrassment. Poor lady.

On the other hand, I spend so much time edging (currently10 days and counting) that my control is quite impressive. If I'm careful and control my breathing I can partially ejaculate without an associated orgasm...

 

[MissCautious]

I too cum way too quick. Which would be fine if I could do multiples but I can't so it's frustrating

 

[rbone04]

I too cum way too quick. Which would be fine if I could do multiples but I can't so it's frustrating

I used to date a girl who was a MAJOR squirter, which was amazing. The issue was, she would cum so hard and so quickly it would usually be over within minutes and foreplay wasn't an option. She was so sensitive after that her pussy would literally force me out of her and would clamp shut like a steel trap.

The good news for you concerned ladies is that I can say it NEVER bothered me a bit. Evidence is even here where I've mentiond A LOT of incredible sex in previous posts over the past couple years and never once mentioned this being a "problem." In fact it was such a major turn on for me that I never felt more sexually fulfilled in my life than with her. Of course she would usually wrap me up with an incredible blow job or sloppy, lube-heavy hand job but that was her prerogative. I was even just as happy with our sex life finishing myself off afterward.

Point is (since I'm now super horned up thinking about it and would go into even more extremely graphic detail)... I think more--or the only--worry was with her until she was comfortable knowing I was completely satisfied every time and I didn't feel short-changed because I couldn't pound away for an hour just to prove how much of a "stud" I was. Besides, wrapping up quickly with two satisfied parties leaves more time for other activities--like sharing the story on LIT!!

 

[Que]

SSRIs (selective seratonin re-uptake inhibitors like Prozac, Wellbutrin, etc.) will delay orgasms, but they also might make them impossible.

I too cum way too quick. Which would be fine if I could do multiples but I can't so it's frustrating

My last assignation was with such a woman. Not super quick, but nowhere close to the duration I would need to get off. She was apologetic, but she is a one and done girl.

I would have liked to challenge that, but there is no telling another person what their orgasms ought to be like.

 

[OpenMouth]

I used to date a girl who was a MAJOR squirter, which was amazing. The issue was, she would cum so hard and so quickly it would usually be over within minutes and foreplay wasn't an option. She was so sensitive after that her pussy would literally force me out of her and would clamp shut like a steel trap...

That's fascinating; it's almost like a genetic throwback to when males would compete via their spunk inside the females's womb. The woman would close up after being fucked to stop the nxt seven males who fuck her getting her pregnant.

Maybe your girl was predisposed to getting group fucked!

I'd love to hear more about her...

 

[rbone04]

That's fascinating; it's almost like a genetic throwback to when males would compete via their spunk inside the females's womb. The woman would close up after being fucked to stop the nxt seven males who fuck her getting her pregnant.

Maybe your girl was predisposed to getting group fucked!

I'd love to hear more about her...

 

[Que]

That's fascinating; it's almost like a genetic throwback to when males would compete via their spunk inside the females's womb. The woman would close up after being fucked to stop the nxt seven males who fuck her getting her pregnant.

Maybe your girl was predisposed to getting group fucked!

I'd love to hear more about her...

I realize you are simply reveling in your own fantasies, but that makes no sense from a biological perspective. First it is the males competing to inseminate, not the woman trying to limit her biological options to first come first served. The head of a penis is designed to remove other males semen. The woman is not designed to reject a donor. Also motility of sperm controls insemination. Sperm that are free from defects tend to swim in a strait line and quicker.

 

[OpenMouth]

Random mutations may result in a biological advantage or not. I was just thinking aloud really!

Maybe rbone was doing something special to get his girl to close up so quickly! That would definitely be subject to natural selection, if he had that power...

 

[rbone04]

Random mutations may result in a biological advantage or not. I was just thinking aloud really!

Maybe rbone was doing something special to get his girl to close up so quickly! That would definitely be subject to natural selection, if he had that power...

Thank you?

 

[OpenMouth]

You're welcome!