How to.... ask a third

[nc_postgrad]

I sked this question on the original feedback section, but it went to the forum right afterwards and I seem to have gotten lost in the shuffle..........

My girlfriend have recently decided to add a third, and we have agreed on whom we want to ask, but we're not sure how to approach our possible thrid.

For others whom have done so, any ideas or suggestions?

 

[MissTaken]

Is the third someone who is into BDSM?

Is into groups or friends of that nature?

 

[ReadyOne]

Take her to a demo night.

 

[cati]

adding a third person

Hey there..smiles

First ask yourselves how liberal minded you really are. Is there a risk of losing another's friendship in the process. Are there any jealousies that might come to the forefront for your partner and yourself. If you are in a very emotionally stable relationship then I would say go for it. The experience would certainly broaden your sexual horizons. In my opinion the best way to approach something like this is for you three to "talk" it out before hand. A drink or two (only) may help to loosen inhibitions when the time comes. If you want a third person to "scene" with you and your partner then sex of course may not be an issue...and of course the drinks are a no no.
Ooh ooh... I just thought of this... remember to pay particular attention to partner #1 to make sure she is having a good time and doesn't feel threatened by your enthusiasm...chuckles.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: adding a third person

... remember to pay particular attention to partner #1 to make sure she is having a good time and doesn't feel threatened by your enthusiasm...chuckles.

Rather presumptious to think the third may be a female ... http://forum.1st-vets.us/images/smiles/cool2.gif

 

[cati]

You are absolutley right, my apologies. I was speaking from my own experience. How delicious if another male !

 

[cati]

...on second thought I don't see my mentioning another female...poke

 

[AngelicAssassin]

...on second thought I don't see my mentioning another female...poke

Try again, and get a bigger stick. http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/smack.gif

 

[AngelicAssassin]

You are absolutley right, my apologies. I was speaking from my own experience. How delicious if another male !

BTW, you gave away what you were thinking in your reply ...

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