How men grade women in bed

[PacificBlue]

Come on...don't be shy. What are you looking for?

Stamina, creativity, moaning, dirty-talk? Let's hear it!

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Even though I am shy by nature, I'll go first:

First and foremost I want a woman to respond - not lay there passively. By response I mean movement, touching, verbalization (it doesn't have to be yelling - but I do want a woman to talk, whisper and/or make other sounds; moans, sighs, breathing, laughing).

I like a woman to let me know what she wants - which can be different from minute to minute - not make me guess what turns her on or what she wants next. She doesn't have to give me minute by minute detailed direction - but if I am doing something wrong, or too much, or at the wrong time, then I am not going to have my feelings hurt by having her tell me she wants something else or something more.

I like a woman to be explorative and creative.

And of course, kissing skill and energy is important.

STG

 

[PacificBlue]

good advice I find it difficult to talk after reaching a certain point during sex only because my mind goes sort of blury...sexy sounds I can do and lots of them.


ps - how are you supposed to move when a man has you pinned under him? (this has always confused me)

 

[OUTSIDER]

Hey a pulse and a hole and I'm happy

 

[thumbs2_ca]

responsive, I love to know that the things I am doing are having a positive effect
vocal, I want to know what you want and adding some nice dirty talk adds fuel to the fire.
uninhibited, if it feels good lets try it.

 

[Pokerman]

ps - how are you supposed to move when a man has you pinned under him? (this has always confused me)

pinned down? usually, even if i'm on top, my partner's hands are free to use...she can thrust her hips back at me....lean forward to kiss me...just dont lie there passively and let me do what i want...respond to what i am doing...

 

[PacificBlue]

ok...I'm sitting here blushing but I'll be more specific in my question...when his hips are pinned on top of yours...how can you thrust your hips back? Maybe I just need stronger hips.

Yes...the hands are free to roam his body...I can do that.

 

[plasticman33]

C'mon Ladies......

Climb on top, then you can control the movement!

 

[OUTSIDER]

ok...I'm sitting here blushing but I'll be more specific in my question...when his hips are pinned on top of yours...how can you thrust your hips back? Maybe I just need stronger hips.

Yes...the hands are free to roam his body...I can do that.

Hmmmmmm I'd say your man is a cad....a true gentleman always takes his own weight on his elbows and knees and never wipes his cock on the curtains after sex.

 

[PacificBlue]

On the curtains? eeeewwwwww

 

[OUTSIDER]

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[plasticman33]

The curtains??????????

I'd never have thought of that. The English must have strange habits.

Of course it would reduce the amount of starch.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Old joke:- "If your woman is unresponsive during sex then wipe your cock on her bed spread and watch her hit the roof"

 

[shadowsource]

Darling -

Don't worry so much. Nothing counts so much as being yourself, and being the right person. These are chemical things, and thinking too much will make you act like teenage boys do the first time - they try to follow all the advice they've ever heard, and their instincts get buried. Be real, and open, and have lots of fun! Don't forget that sex is instinctual....

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

good advice I find it difficult to talk after reaching a certain point during sex only because my mind goes sort of blury...sexy sounds I can do and lots of them.

That's good enough for me - more than good enough in fact

ps - how are you supposed to move when a man has you pinned under him? (this has always confused me)

That is where the creativity comes in - plus, there are a lot of very good and very fun positions where the man does not pin the woman under him, including at least one where the woman pins the man under her. I am not such a manly man that such positions bother me - quite the opposite in fact.

Moreover, the man does not have to "pin" the woman under him so much that she becomes immobile - he can give her some room to move around.

Dr. Ruth

 

[Thumper]

Responsive is good.

If she says Yes....

She's great.

 

[Gnufi Poppets]

I am the always looking for the wanton who is taking it all in the every hole she is having and the begging for the more and the more as I am the giving it to her over and the over again and the again while she is the loving of the hell out of the it which is being my huge cock that I am having.

 

[plasticman33]

Hey baby, wanna screw?

 

[PacificBlue]

That's good enough for me - more than good enough in fact

That is where the creativity comes in - plus, there are a lot of very good and very fun positions where the man does not pin the woman under him, including at least one where the woman pins the man under her. I am not such a manly man that such positions bother me - quite the opposite in fact.

Moreover, the man does not have to "pin" the woman under him so much that she becomes immobile - he can give her some room to move around.

Dr. Ruth

Do you give private lessons?

 

[PacificBlue]

Hey baby, wanna screw?

*running in with my screwdriver...what's loose?*

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: Darling -

Don't worry so much. Nothing counts so much as being yourself, and being the right person. These are chemical things, and thinking too much will make you act like teenage boys do the first time - they try to follow all the advice they've ever heard, and their instincts get buried. Be real, and open, and have lots of fun! Don't forget that sex is instinctual....

Easier said than done...but good advice none the less.

 

[xlc67]

I have a good trick that works when a woman is unresponsive or lifeless....or if your just plain bored with the sex.

You need to get on her doggyfashion (tired of the same old word) and dig in real tight. I mean get your hand wrapped in her hair, good and tight....Then whisper your ex-girlfriends name in her ear and hold on for the ride of your life....

 

[plasticman33]

You'll need a wrench!!!!!!!!

My left nut!

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: You'll need a wrench!!!!!!!!

My left nut!

Now how did that happen???

 

[plasticman33]

Can't tell!

Ask bratcat.