How long do most of you last?

[Guest]

Ok sadly im looking for a comparison here to how long most men out there can hold out before coming w/ there gf or wife. I dont really expect 100% truth from ALL the guys on the board so for the women out there... how long do your bf's or husbands last for USUALLY? This is probably the best way for me to have a general idea of how well im preforming. Thanks for your help.

 

[Guest]

Oh and forgot to mention..this is from when intercourse starts and ends...nothing other than.

 

[Guest]

Well, I've never looked at the clock...

before a man has slipped his penis into me and after he cums, so I guess I truly cannot answer your question. Typically, though, including foreplay and post play/cuddling, the sex act lasts anywhere from an hour to an hour and a half. No quickies for this girl. If ever I had to, a half hour would be a "quickie" for me. I prefere passionate lovers who enjoy sex as much as I and are willing to take their time to make it last. No wham, bam, thank you ma'am here!



~HornyAuthor
(Aka Tiggs...lol)

 

[Guest]

Well crap...!

I typoed my own name. Grrrrrrrr. That was asupposed to be Horny Author. Dammit all to hell.

 

[heggi]

It depends on lots of factors How long since my last cum has the most to do with it. if it has been a week since I last came---- hope that never happens again! it dosn't take nearly as long. also when making love I stop when I feel myself getting close to cumming it helps to prolong the orgasim. Changing positions helps too. Take your time and make sure she is ready to cum prior to penitration. Make her cum many times by going down on her fist and you will have a very happy partner. Tease her make her want morre than your giving and you will be reworded!

 

[Guest]

Bless you!

Take your time and make sure she is ready to cum prior to penetration. Make her cum many times by going down on her fist and you will have a very happy partner. Tease her make her want more than your giving and you will be rewarded!

Too many men out there skip over these details, and that can be the main reason their partners are not happy sexually. In the past, I had many "lovers" who forgot these details, and it was rarem if ever, that I came with them.

A true lover is one who is concerned as much for their partner's pleasure and satisfaction as their own.

 

[rambling man]

Lately, it has been shorter because rough sex is starting to hurt her more tan it used to. Of course it is a catch .22 because she only really gets off on really rough sex. Changing positions, playing with toys, going down every so often...this will make it go longer...

 

[heggi]

A true lover is one who is concerned as much for their partner's pleasure and satisfa

If she is happy and fofilled she will give as much as she gets!

Men are killing them selfes to try to get with women ------if they tryied as hard after they were with them as they tryed to get there they would no longer have to try to get there!

I love nothing more than the look of a woman that has just cum very hard. It means if I want to come back I have a much better chance!

 

[rambling man]

It's nice when you have hot, vicious sex with a woman, make her cum and she thinks about it the next day

 

[Guest]

Rough sex isn't for everyone, sweetie.

 

[rambling man]

That is so true, but its hard to say no when she is either begging, or commanding me to drive it in faster and harder....what concerns me is that we used to be able to go for hours being extremely rough...until my equipment was sore! Now sometimes, it is as little as 15 minutes before she asks to stop, even in her favorite position after she has been screaming in pleasuree so loud they could hear it in the next state....

 

[Guest]

Yikes. You two may want to have that looked into. I love rough sex, and so far have never experienced TRUE pain to the point I want it to stop.

 

[cactiphile]

Rmablingman - Re the pain. definently get her to go and get it checked, this happened to my wife, and it was endometriouscous (and i cant spell it). Which if caught early is easily treatable but if not can cause lots of bad problems.
Good luck to you both.


Re cumming. I last as long as nessecery. Upto my wife, how long
we play for, eg when she gets sore. Normal is 30 -60 mins
from penetration.

C.

 

[ericred50]

I have never put a clock on myself, some times it takes a long long time before I have an organism, other times it is minutes. It depends on my mood, and the woman. I can keep my sub on the edge for days, through mind control. I have also trained myself to hold back, and cum dry. But when a guy "cums" it is not the end of his "time", you should try carrying on not stopping.

 

[Guest]

I have never put a clock on myself, some times it takes a long long time before I have an organism, other times it is minutes.

Organisms or orgasms? lol

 

[ericred50]

Yes, Tiggs them as well !!!

 

[Guest]

You can give me an organism anytime!

 

[ericred50]

I would be delighted Tiggs, but my slave would not approve, and I do not think your master would be very peased.

 

[Guru]

...Make her cum many times by going down on her fist... and you will be reworded!

Are you trying to revise the procedure for fisting here?

 

[Morden]

For guys it relies on a lot of factors as said above. Nervousness, eagerness, tightness, technique, and relation to when the man last came. I know that if I want to give a good long stint I usually like to get off before hand so I know I can last. If I don't get that chance then its about focus and technique. THere are tiems thoguh that I just for some reason can't cum. Its all dependant on a alot of factors some of which we mostly aren't conciously aware of. I think a big problem is that a man can last a lot longer if he gets off first, but that usually ends the coupling. Sometimes because the guy has what he wanted and doesn't care or sometimes because of mess, or even because the girl just doesn't want to go on for some reason.

 

[Hellava2]

Multiple Orgasms Here

I dont know how tru this is for other men, but speakiking for myself; I can have as many as three orgasms. I can break it down on the time scale for you.

1st cum: 10-20 min
2nd cum: 45 min-1.5 hrs
3rd cum: 2hrs-3 hrs

After that, I spend the rest of my time pleasing her.

 

[Guest]

Endurance

Just found this bulletin board and thought I'd reply to this question.

I'm a male in my mid-forties. In relaxed bedroom situations I tend to "last" between 30-75 minutes, but apparently I'm slightly unusual according to my partners. I'm rarely pumping away for that amount of time, alternating with different positions, touching, sucking, teasing, etc., more to give myself a rest than to keep from climaxing. I really get off on bringing my partner to several intense orgasms before I climax. At my age, it takes me 20-30 minutes to recover (versus perhaps 5 minutes when I was in my teens!).

While there have certainly been occasions where I've climaxed much faster, that's usually because of sustained anticipation or because we're doing it in public and I'm afraid of getting caught!

Don't get caught up with how long others last. Pay close attention to your partner and her signals and she should have a great time!

 

[AllMan]

If at least 30, you'll know my meaning..

Guys & Gals, at the risk of coming across to strong, I'd like to express what I know is true...
Lovemaking/Sex is based on the "Banking System" The wonderful precious woman = the banker!! Okay, I just "coined the phrase"
Us "Guys" are the depositors. To me, the question of "TIME" is very shallow, (almost every woman will HONESTLY agree) and this is why... Guys, (me included) quit "STRUTTING" around the chicken coop... think about it seriously... are you REALLY that much in control??? NOT!!! What makes you POP your cookies is her timetable, ohhhh yeah... if that sweet little pussy isn't fully "PREPPED" HEY you can go for hours... But.. let me tell you.. if you have done your "HOMEWORK" SHE, I'll say it again.. SHE...
is the one that will make you POP... she knows this too if she really thinks about it... when your sweet, gorgeous woman in your life is READY to "GET STIFF ALL OVER" don't kid yourselves Guys... YOUR SHIP IS SUNK!!! When Her sweet, wonderful PUSSY, (the emotional creature inside) makes the decision to go for BROKE, "Boys" you're going to follow, you have no other choice... THAT IS THE "ONE" THING A WOMAN CAN "ALWAYS" COUNT ON in a MAN... SHE leads, YOU follow!!! AND ya know... that is exactly what makes HER so fantastic... SHE leads you, as SHE walks behind you... REMEMBER, those of you over 30 know this to be true if you are really "IN TOUCH" you can BEST BELIEVE.. SHE IS..!!! LADIES... U, R, so beautiful in so many terrific ways... and on the lite-side... entertain this thought!!
You ladies PUSH us GUYS out at BIRTH and --WE GUYS-- spend the rest of our ENTIRE LIVES trying like HELL to get back in!!!
The MORAL of all this is: Guys, YOU'LL CUM WHEN SHE WANTS YOU TO.... "THINK ABOUT IT'
I'd love to wrap my arms around each one of you ladies, I know you so much better on the inside... than on the outside.
LAST WORDS... "HONEST"... LADIES, my belief is, the MEN (here it comes)... the MEN are the "STREETS & HIGHWAYS" of this earth, and YOU LADIES are the precious "GOLD" that cover us...
Which "COINS" the term, "STREETS OF GOLD"
Here's a sweet kiss for each of you that has the HEART I've described....
"ALLMAN"

 

[AllMan]

Same Subject....

How long can YOU prevent a FOREST FIRE!!!
Hey... I appologize for my earlier MESSAGE, SHE always told me to "PROOFREAD" didn't listen then either... Girls, forgive me for saying so much and so little... I know you still love me...
ALLMAN

 

[Guest]

duration

I usually go about 30-45 minutes......gotta feel 2 or 3 good orgasms from her before I deliver (I just love the feel of orgasms on my nakedness)