How do you like to be spanked?

[Purple_Fronds]

Belt... A wide one.
Flogger.
Hand.
Paddle, at times, if I've been really naughty.
Whips I'm a little iffy about.
Not into canes or switches.

great list, I struggle with the cane, I prefer the thud of a hand or paddle. Also the same when I have the opportunity to be the giver. Nothing beats a nice hand spank.

 

[PrincessxXxDarkstarr89]

How do I like to be spanked? I usually enjoy getting tied up, blindfolded & gagged while I'm bent over getting my ass whipped or smacked, a hand or cane is good

I enjoy feeling helpless.

 

[SurferBoy9044]

I like taking my girlfriend now my wife over my knee and pulling her panties down and spreading her ass checks apart in front of my long time good friends. I really like spreading her ass checks apart and asking my friends if they like what they are seeing and can they see her asshole. I like caressing her ass and robing her pussy and then putting her pussy juice on her asshole. I like putting my finger in her asshole and holding it there and then asking my friends what we should do to her tonight. I like to make her recite the names of men she has had anal sex with and ask her about what it's like to have anal sex. I have attached a picture with her permission that a friend took years ago and is still one of our favorites that I have posted and shown to friends in front of her.

 

[MiaDani80]

I'm partial to the paddle and hair brush.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Baby oil and a wooden spoon or plastic spatula!

 

[hbcacouple]

I have a paddle and a hard leather strap out for tonight.

 

[OtherwisePrint6210]

I like taking my girlfriend now my wife over my knee and pulling her panties down and spreading her ass checks apart in front of my long time good friends. I really like spreading her ass checks apart and asking my friends if they like what they are seeing and can they see her asshole. I like caressing her ass and robing her pussy and then putting her pussy juice on her asshole. I like putting my finger in her asshole and holding it there and then asking my friends what we should do to her tonight. I like to make her recite the names of men she has had anal sex with and ask her about what it's like to have anal sex. I have attached a picture with her permission that a friend took years ago and is still one of our favorites that I have posted and shown to friends in front of her.

Looking for friends like you!

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Hand - starting gently and then increasing the force. Then followed by the flogger and nipple twisting and pulling!

 

[Biguy77578]

Before we married my soon to be wife wife presented me with a riding crop for punishment when ever she displeased me. She is and was so perfectly good she had to invent things for me to punish her for like spilling a drink on me. Stupid stuff, anyway i could not believe she could handle the punishment. The crop would leave red welps sometimes bleeding but she loved and it made my dick so hard.

 

[cocktaildress21]

Bare hand. I don't know, that just feels more personal to me. I don't need a cane that 'hurts more' or whatever - I need the intimacy of the moment, of submission and dominans, of giving my vulnerability to her, and her using that to discipline me. No tool really improves on that. But then, I'm really more of a submissive, less of a masochist.

 

[agedmac]

That sucks.

I really never thought much of spanking as an erotic thing until I was asked to do it (as the spanker). It took some time and exploration, but I've gotten to the point where I do enjoy it, mainly based off my partner enjoying it. No matter what there is a certain amount of pain, just the nature of what it is, but if there's consent and the person doing it actually cares about the enjoyment of the receiver, it can be fun.

Ours was the classic, she would wiggle her butt at me while wearing a light summer dress and the last spank, I pulled up her dress and pulled her panties to her knees. She 'protested' (But I could tell she didn't mean it) but the first two 'slaps' on her nice round ass was amazing for me especially as she squealed after each stroke! Did she like it? At the end, she slid off my lap and got between my thighs, jerked my shorts and underwear down and began sucking me moaning 'I'm such a bad girl, do you like me being bad! What a great beginning!

 

[AchtungNight]

I don’t, generally. Too many bad memories from my youth. But light taps are ok if you disapprove of something I’ve done and need to get it out. Then get back to what really gives us both pleasure. Please.

 

[stretchedballs]

Head down ass up with my wrists tied to my ankles and my partner to use a strap or riding crop on my butt. She also has one of those rods with a ball on the end from a kids xylophone perfect for blows right on my anus.
or
Tied with my wrists pulled way up above my head so am on tip toes. She will then use a crop or a thin whippy cane on my stretched belly. She puts weights on my balls enough to pull my dick down so she does not hit it.

 

[spankableBelle]

I don’t, generally. Too many bad memories from my youth. But light taps are ok if you disapprove of something I’ve done and need to get it out. Then get back to what really gives us both pleasure. Please.

I was spanked in my youth and being spanked as an adult doesn't trigger me...

But a slap across the face will trigger me and I learned early in in my bdsm journey that face slapping is a hard limit.

 

[Ashesh9]

My slavegal likes to be spanked in this bentover position

 

[Ashesh9]

I like to cane myself in front of a huge picture of Indian Goddess KaliView attachment 2260135

 

[nena_banana]

Do you prefer hand, paddle, hairbrush or maybe a caning?
Me, I personally I like a good long hard hand spanking.

I like hands only, and it varies on how hard depending on where on the body it is. The only places I like and will except in order of pink/red marks to no marks at all... thighs dark pink but not quite red, butt pink, pussy/clit light pink but mostly just a small sting, boobs/nipples just a little sting

 

[dollydaydreamer]

Depends whos doing the spanking.
If its my husband, its knickers down,over his knee.Sometimes gagged.Mostly his hand or a riding whip.Its took him a while to come round to the idea.I like to be punished and hurt sometimes.
With him, theres never any danger.
Other people? Thick leather straps, whips,paddles,canes. Ive put myself into some pretty stupid situations before now, just to feel that pain

 

[Ashesh9]

This is me caning my worthless arse as tribute to Angry Hindu Goddess Kali as Her Ladyship angrily tramples Her Hapless Hubby God Shiva beneath Her Fearless, World Conquering Feet!!!!View attachment 2260839View attachment 2260841View attachment 2260840

 

[Ashesh9]

⁰pView attachment 2262665This is me spanking my sorry arse in front of Powerful Dominant Feminazi Hindu Goddess Kali in worshipful prayer/ tribute/ penance/ punishment/ prayashchitto as sex crimes reparation to Her Majesty's Gender for millenia of inferior males dominating the Superior Sex........sob.......boohooo........blubberrrrr to gain Her Approval/ Protection/Divine Sanction for my miserable existence in Her Domain/ Queendom!!!!
Jai Malkin Kali: Victory to Mistress Kali !!!!!!!!!!!

 

[emme8]

I want a wooden ruler on my pussy tonight.
12 hours to go

 

[PantiesAndPies]

Definitely a paddle for me on my panty covered arse until I cream those panties.

 

[AchtungNight]

Brief, light, playful, if you must. Then move on to something that actually pleases me PLEASE. I’m crazy enough to do worse to you than spanking and trust me, you don’t want to provoke me. I’m NOT messing around.

 

[suzie_n1]

I would love a good spanking from a male or (as of this moment) female. Hand or a nice wooden paddle.

 

[Gmoore238]

Hand or table tennis bat !
It really turns me on being spanked.