How do you feel about PDA?

How do you feel about PDA (Public Displays of Affection)

  • Hell yes, anyone, anywhere, anytime! It's a lovefest!

    Votes: 9 29.0%
  • Only hot people, it's like a porn then, and therefore, hot.

    Votes: 1 3.2%
  • Ok but only in a dark bar corner. AKA there's a time and place for PDA and breakfast ain't it!

    Votes: 13 41.9%
  • YES, but only if it's me, I don't want to see anyone else gettin it on!

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Hell No, it's rude, wait til you get home horny people!

    Votes: 6 19.4%

  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .

Loverskitten

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Ok so , I'm at breakfast, alone (as I often do at this bar/restaurant) and a, ummmmm, not hideous but not pretty couple comes in, gets the table directly in my eyeshot and.... Starts making out, then they check the menu, then kiss some more.... ugh, every time I glance up they're making out! I'm trying to eat my fucking egg whites and bacon here... seriously! Then I think, am I old? PDA was never an issue for me before? I've been that person, sucking face in a bar, many times. But I seriously don't want to watch these, ummm fuck, maybe less than average looking people go at it over breakfast! Am I alone????? Am I going to start yelling "get offa my lawn" ? So confused...
 
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Gross, gross, gross.

I don't want to see anyone, regardless of how attractive they are, paw and slobber all over one another.
 
Also any other poll choices are welcomed, don't know if I can change it but what the hell, discuss.
 
Ah ha ha ha. I voted before I read. Surprise!!! I thought the question was related to doing the PDAs, not observing them. Whoopsies! Vote still stands though. I don't want to get thrown our of IHOP for making out.
 
Ah ha ha ha. I voted before I read. Surprise!!! I thought the question was related to doing the PDAs, not observing them. Whoopsies! Vote still stands though. I don't want to get thrown our of IHOP for making out.

Well, if you read the choices, you could have picked the "yes, only me..." one. Which I was debating about myself, in a "do as I say, not as I do" way. Lol
 
I voted for time and place for PDAs. I've got no problem with a couple sucking face while watching the sunset at the beach etc., but during breakfast is just rediculous.
 
Usually it's all good so I voted love fest because I like to think I can get back to that mindset.

Currently my view is much more jaded. I can't even watch a romantic movie and god help the tv if one of those "A Kiss begins with Kay" commercials comes on. If I do see a couple I start to wonder how long it will either take her to find out he is a jerk or him to out himself. See...jaded. I fully admit this is also related to my not having been kissed in almost two years now. With the last time I was physically touched by a man being negative to put it mildly. How good/bad looking the couple is has nothing to do with my annoyance/anger. It's more...I'm not gettin any...so neither should you now pass me the chocolate pity party kind of thing.

*sigh*

Do we really need valentines day EVERY year? :confused:

That day I don't want to leave the house. Maybe I could get some good horror movies or something to watch.

ETA: New guy I met...we spend time together but he told me to kiss him vs. just kissing me. That didn't fly for me...so now every time I see him it's like a workup to the end to see if/who is going to make a move. It won't be me so each time I leave a little more empty. Am I that unattractive or what? I swear I have this talent of ending up around men that have NO clue what they could unearth if they just took some time to bother to know me.
 
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I am completely ambivalent these days, much to my surprise. Sometimes, it makes me totally happy to see two people nearly tear each other's clothes off, other times I just feel envious.

And then there are the times when I am not sure its completely consensual and then I get all these political feelings about it.
 
I posted "not at breakfast". I don't relish it, I don't care either, don't be stupid and we're copacetic.
 
For the most part I'm fine with some PDA. That said, I don't want to be an uninvited party to your swapping of bodily fluids.
 
I'm good with PDA at breakfast, or pretty much anytime.

Snog on happy couples.

For the most part, people don't tend to be much into PDA with anything but their phone these days, so it's always nice to see confirmation that people passion isn't dead.

And I like to wonder what the circumstances are that they are so enthusiastic about each other. Did they just get engaged? Has one of them just got back from serving overseas? First break away from the kids in a while? NRE? Is one of them going away that day? Rare long distance relationship hook up?

I draw the line at groping in public though. Ew.
 
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Gross, gross, gross.

I don't want to see anyone, regardless of how attractive they are, paw and slobber all over one another.

Hiding Bunny under the table.:D

Personally, I don't mind as long as it's not while I'm eating breakfast.
 
If PDA is to occur, it must not take place within 100 feet of a public establishment where eggs are being consumed, or are likely to be consumed. Especially poached eggs.

I prefer that it take place on a kelly green lawn, on an early fall afternoon, beneath towering sun-splashed sycamores, between gorgeous people, while I am walking by slightly drunk.
 
If PDA is to occur, it must not take place within 100 feet of a public establishment where eggs are being consumed, or are likely to be consumed. Especially poached eggs.


What's with the egg hang up Deeg? Or is this a clever breakfast reference I'm missing due to a post duty work day?
 
If PDA is to occur, it must not take place within 100 feet of a public establishment where eggs are being consumed, or are likely to be consumed. Especially poached eggs.

I prefer that it take place on a kelly green lawn, on an early fall afternoon, beneath towering sun-splashed sycamores, between gorgeous people, while I am walking by slightly drunk.

Ohhhhhh swoooony swoooony sigh...... grrrrr
 
If PDA is to occur, it must not take place within 100 feet of a public establishment where eggs are being consumed, or are likely to be consumed. Especially poached eggs.

I prefer that it take place on a kelly green lawn, on an early fall afternoon, beneath towering sun-splashed sycamores, between gorgeous people, while I am walking by slightly drunk.

I like Kelly Green. I once had a car painted in that colour. Could said PDA maybe take place in a Kelly Green car?
 
I like Kelly Green. I once had a car painted in that colour. Could said PDA maybe take place in a Kelly Green car?
I liked Kelly Green when I was in high school. Unfortunately, she was a cheerleader and I was (though the term hadn't yet been invented) a nerd, so she couldn't even *see* me. <sigh> I'd have given soooo much to get in her tight red cheerleader knickers, and the panties underneath them, or even to get a little arm boobage as she walked down the hall arm in arm with me.

Semi-amusing factoid: A girl who didn't like her once told Kelly [verbatim], "You belong at Douglass" (the "colored" high school), and had to explain to the (female) assistant vice principal why she (the girl who didn't like Kelly Green) shouldn't get paddled for calling someone a [n-word]. (Yes, this was pre-public school integration for those of you who didn't live through it.)
 
so specific? who do you think will have the time to wait in line for such a narrow window?

Far too few.

But when I'm emporer, they'll beg for PDA licenses. Beg, breakfast gropers, your interlocking tongues coated in eggy mess.

What's with the egg hang up Deeg? Or is this a clever breakfast reference I'm missing due to a post duty work day?

It's a hard limit.

Ohhhhhh swoooony swoooony sigh...... grrrrr

I get it. Hatred of egg-kissing: always a libido switch.

I like Kelly Green. I once had a car painted in that colour. Could said PDA maybe take place in a Kelly Green car?

;)

Hell yes.

Bring Olive and call me Forest.

I liked Kelly Green when I was in high school. Unfortunately, she was a cheerleader and I was (though the term hadn't yet been invented) a nerd, so she couldn't even *see* me. <sigh> I'd have given soooo much to get in her tight red cheerleader knickers, and the panties underneath them, or even to get a little arm boobage as she walked down the hall arm in arm with me.

Semi-amusing factoid: A girl who didn't like her once told Kelly [verbatim], "You belong at Douglass" (the "colored" high school), and had to explain to the (female) assistant vice principal why she (the girl who didn't like Kelly Green) shouldn't get paddled for calling someone a [n-word]. (Yes, this was pre-public school integration for those of you who didn't live through it.)

She fucked up. Maybe the girl who hated her was girl-smart as well as racist.

What eggsactly are you trying to say? Is this some kind of yolk? :confused:

You eggshell at this kind of nonsense.
 
Didn't see my preference on the poll, so here:

I don't mind, regardless of looks/location/etc, as long as it's polite.

Explanation: In school, we'd get in trouble for "PDA" if we so much as hugged opposite-sexed friends. That's over the top. However, I certainly don't want to see a total makeout-fest with pawing and moaning, while I'm trying to eat or whatever. As long as it's *polite*, as in, being respectful of the people around you, I have no problem. Kissing, holding hands, laying a head on a shoulder, all fine.
 
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