How do men view sluts?

[MarilynMonroeFan]

You describe yourself as 'a submissive wife'. The Oxford English Dictionary defines 'slut' as 'a woman who has many casual sexual partners'. In your case, I don't see a direct connection.

A submissive woman who has sex with men as required or directed by her Dom is not necessarily a slut. A woman who habitually has casual sex with random men is not necessarily submissive, thus the two are not inextricably linked.

Do you consider yourself a slut - or do you want to be a slut? Are you using your submission to mask that?

Not suggesting - simply exploring...

@FoxtrotJulietRomeo best answer here!

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

@Haida_lee

Sorry again me! What You describe here, makes me wonder, if You are real. Forgive me, what You write and say, is what I had seen on other sex forum, to get attention from all the men and get them follow you and be happy!

Now first I would be ashamed, to be called a „slut“ and only shows me again, how far away, You and most people are, to accept, if a woman has more than a lover, she is a slut and worthless. BUT, it has to do with the attitude of the women, you seem to be very happy, that people can look down on you and call you slut!

I never would, call any women this! Here I see, great women, who show their body, are honest, live their life, and not play the innocent nice one like you.
It makes me angry, how you write about this, sorry! You are not even a submissive, you only want that your husband is satisfied I think and you make it easy, You say, that „religious“ men are corrupt, well I am religious and not all men who are religious, are corrupt. So, maybe religious has nothing to do with the sex.

Maybe it has to do, that, they can have you, get multiple orgasm are satisfied and still are at home, wonderful and have great sex with their religious wifes. And only, are happy, that you do whatever they want, like a whore

 

[StrongMaster7]

I’d never join a club that would have someone like me as a member.

If a woman is openly obtainable, there is no mystery, no chase, no pursuit, no hard-to-get, no playfulness. It’s really just a scheduling problem of when and where to fuck. That could be good, but far from safe and/or discrete.

I don’t cheat, so this is an academic exercise to me. I do enjoy flirting with many women of all ages (35-85). It fuels my imagination to wonder what they are thinking as I undress them with my eyes.

There is a desirability to a ‘sure thing’ woman. The more you know about what she will do and what she enjoys, the less the danger seems to matter.

For me, it totally depends on the looks of the woman, how hot I am for her in the moment, whether I ignore her or try to jump her bones.

 

[DryRottingHusk]

Is being a slut bad? What if she likes to be it for her husband’s arousal?

 

[GuySLut]

How do I view sluts? With admiration and lust!

 

[P0peye]

I view them with envy.

 

[KindredFlame]

Is being a slut bad? What if she likes to be it for her husband’s arousal?

If it was a bloke he would be called a stud. So why should a woman who enjoys opening her legs be be classed in a derogatory manner.

 

[DryRottingHusk]

If it was a bloke he would be called a stud. So why should a woman who enjoys opening her legs be be classed in a derogatory manner.

I never call her “slut” to derogate her, but its just to make things sexy, as she too calls me her “stud” for that exact manner.

 

[MarilynMonroeFan]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

Thread 'What is the difference between bondage and fetish?' https://forum.literotica.com/threads/what-is-the-difference-between-bondage-and-fetish.1640442/

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Oh, what will you write tomorrow? I'm already excited!

I suggest that tomorrow you are a virgin who grew up in a convent and has never masturbated. You reported your husband because he wanted to stick his hard cock in your mouth on your wedding night!
And you ask the people here what blowjob means!


Do You make jokes of all the people here? Do You think, we are all Idiots!

I think you are not real, and I am angry, no furious! What things you write!

 

[YummyCumDump18]

I love being a slut I know what I am. It’s great reading some of these comments. Sometimes I think if I post things on here I’ll be judged but yet I really don’t care.

 

[Mike130]

I love being a slut I know what I am. It’s great reading some of these comments. Sometimes I think if I post things on here I’ll be judged but yet I really don’t care.

Cum is good for you! No judgement here, love girls like you.

 

[Eyelevel]

I forgot what song says we want a lady in public but a freak in the bed. That goes for being a slut.

 

[OuiMaam]

Slut is a complement in my book. It means you enjoy sex and your freedom. Nothing wrong with that as long as everything is safe, sane, and consensual. My wife has a permanent hall pass and knows it. She has never used it. I do not have the same arrangement. I am hers and hers only. She knows I'd be a total whore if I could. This works for us.

 

[Soft_petal]

Me personally? I view them with severe envy and can't help but invisage looking like that and being in their place

 

[Newreality]

Me personally? I view them with severe envy and can't help but invisage looking like that and being in their place

Ever thought of making that your reality?

 

[Soft_petal]

Perhaps one day if I ever break out of the status quo of 'normal' life

 

[Stoicbutfun]

If it was a bloke he would be called a stud. So why should a woman who enjoys opening her legs be be classed in a derogatory manner.

I totally agree, women who enjoy sex and their sensuality are to be celebrated!

 

[womaneater58]

I love sluts and I prefer to view them naked in 69 for foreplay.

 

[Unapologetic_Bull]

I have an occasional playmate who is a fulltime working professional, devoted wife and mother and the epitome of the Taiwanese wife next door. She dresses modestly, wears glasses and has shoulder-length black hair. She loves Korean dramas and karaoke.

She also enjoys group sex with well-endowed caucasian men and is extremely promiscuous. Since her husband brought up hotwifing 16 years ago by her own estimate she's had sex with around 40 to 50 guys. She enjoys 1 on 1 play, threesomes and gangbangs. She likes the word slut and will happily use it during play to describe herself.

However she feels slut doesn't describe her fully. It denies her agency in choosing now to sexually conform. In her words, 'I'm a whore.'

 

[GECuck]

Favorably

 

[NivKay]

I'm sometimes looked down upon when I talk about my situation as a submissive wife. They argue based on their moral standards based on their religion. But the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home. It turns out their sexual fantasies are very wild, and they seek outlets for those fantasies outside the home. Because their wives can't keep up with their fantasies... please give me your opinion... thanks.

I’m late to this discussion I know, so please forgive me, but submissive sluts are not too be frowned upon. But a slut, a true slut, is a well-trained one. And a well-trained slut is worth all the diamonds in the world

 

[Stoicbutfun]

What makes a "slut"? How much sex one has, or how easy it is to have sex with the person?

Sadly I think it’s a term that men use, who cannot abide a woman who enjoys and is honest about her sensuality and needs, but I’m glad that women are reclaiming it as something to be honest and proud of.

 

[JordynRose]

In my loving relationship, when considered as being a slut, I found it to be exactly what she wants. I know then, that I please her on a greater level than she has ever had before, in and out of bed. Sorry this is a FF thing on a MF thread.

 

[Auden James]

Obviously, the answer depends on one's—more or less—moral beliefs.

 

[liqueur]

the facts show that men who claim to be very religious are actually very morally corrupt. They use religion as a mask to justify their actions. I've had sex several times with my husband's friends, who he says are very pious and religious at home.

This. Absolutely.

How do men view sluts?

I view them with awe and reverence. Quite seriously. I strive to be like them.

 

[ChuckWolf]

I've never been judgmental about women's sex drives or looked down at them for having them (excessive or not).

I'll call a woman stuff like "slut" or "whore" as part of role-playing dirty talk, if she's into that, but only then.

Besides being morally-wrong, discouraging and shaming women for their kinks is also very short-sighted; I want them to be fun & creative.

However, I do have a strong disdain for golddiggers/findom-types or anyone that has a mercenary attitude for sex (this does not extend to sex-workers, who are supporting themselves or a family).