How do I stop premature ejaculation?

[MagicFingers]

Tragic, I feel for you

I had this problem when I was younger, and even later with new people sometimes. Sometimes it was 5 minutes, and others it was 30 or more.
All the comments here are good advice, like lots of foreplay for HER, getting her off first, eating her, touching her, etc. Notice the "HER" thing? Concentrate on her feeling and not your own.

Relax. I know that is an oxymoron. When you are with a hot girl and you both want to have sex, it's hard to relax, especially if you haven't had any for a while. Maybe you could tell yourself that you are NOT going to have sex with her on the first date, or until she cums first. You could even tell her that, that she can't have your cock until she cums first.

Does getting a BJ first help you? Whenever I knew I was going to cum too soon, it helped if I knew there was going to be a second chance in the NEAR future. Besides, getting there is 1/2 the fun.

I used to smoke MJ. I had better sex more often using it than not. I think it was the relaxing thing. Booze is no good, except for a drink or two. Zoloft should not be used for this purpose. If you need it, and it sounds like you do, then use it for sure. Most of those things gave me bad side effects. Only one didn't. Wellbutrin- The one some people take to quit smoking.
I don't take them anymore, but just workout.

Good luck. The more you do it the better, and the less you worry beforehand the better. So get more sex and don't worry about it.

How did the date go? Did any of these tecniques work? Let us know.

 

[onedayatatime]

I always had this problem with my ex. I found that getting her to within an inch of an orgasm and then having intercourse worked for us. It didn't matter how long i lasted as she "came" as quick as i did. I also found that if she didn't touch me first i lasted longer.

With my current g/f i have been able to last a lot longer, sometimes i don't cum at all. From one extreme to the other !!

Lots of foreplay with fingers, mouth and tongue and she'll forgive you anything.

 

[jcallny]

If ou dont know the girl use a condom and do her until you come. Just when you are about to come go very slowly and you will kinda come in a leak, not explosive. The important thing here is to forget and not react to the after sensations of comming. You just keep going and going and work into a now longer orgasom.

Remember if you come a lot you can leak. If you dont use a condom she may get to wet and think there is less friction and stop.

let me know how this works.

 

[wonderwhy]

if you know your going to be having sex either masterbate about half an hour before hand, that way you should last longer.
or have her give you head, then go down on her, make her feel good for a bit untill you feel your ready.