How do i know?

[Nemea]

Hi Lit.

I wanna ask the guys if theres a way i can ever know if my bf really loves me. I know its a bit silly to ask about but ive just agreed to move in with my bf and i want to know if ive taken the right decision?!

Hugs Nemea

PS. Sorry for the spelling, but english is not my first language.

 

[culloden]

Is he faithful? Does he treat you like you deserve? Does he tell you the truth? Does he want to do things with you other than have sex? Does he want you to meet his friends and family?

Yes answers to those questions are good indicators.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Is he faithful? Does he treat you like you deserve? Does he tell you the truth? Does he want to do things with you other than have sex? Does he want you to meet his friends and family?

Yes answers to those questions are good indicators.

x2!

Good answer!

 

[ecclectic]

Hi Lit.

I wanna ask the guys if theres a way i can ever know if my bf really loves me. I know its a bit silly to ask about but ive just agreed to move in with my bf and i want to know if ive taken the right decision?!

Hugs Nemea

PS. Sorry for the spelling, but english is not my first language.

Does he do things for you without you asking him, or do things you know he doesn't want to do because you asked him?
Would he do your laundry?
Does he put your wants/needs/desires above his own?

 

[silverwhisper]

nemea, what you're going to find is that you may have very different ways of treating the space you live in, and if that's the case, that isn't exactly unusual and is a common source of tension for couples. sometimes, the tension may be considerable.

the question is, if/when those things flare, do you care enough about one another to come to a compromise, or does the way you each want to treat the space you share matter more?

ed

 

[SweetErika]

If you're not completely sure he loves you and/or living together is a good decision, it doesn't seem wise to move in with him at this time. Why not give it some more time to see how things go, and let his actions prove he loves you?

If/when you do move in together, make sure you have the emotional and financial resources to move out on your own if you don't enjoy living with him or the relationship sours.