How do I find a hungry adulteress?

[readytogive]

My absolute favorite sex partner is the married woman. From the quiet, demure housewife with a naughty streak . . . to the aggressive business woman looking for regular nooners . . . the adulteress on the hunt is simply the best! Problem is . . . they're hard to find! Any suggestions on how/where REAL married women make themselves available? They don't seem to be using the traditional classified ads. So, where are they hiding . . . or hunting? Are there some signals that I'm not picking up on? How can I convey a discreet message that I am available and sensitive to their need to be flexible and confidential? So many questions! Got any answers?

I recently relocated to the Washington, D.C. area, so maybe I just haven't learned how the married hotties network here. Please reply here or email me at hereforthetaking@yahoo.com. Thanks!!

 

[Titania1616]

hmmm looking for a hungry adultress?
i suggest finding an adultress and starving her for a day, that should do it!

i'm sorry, couldn't resist!

actually i dont think you should get involved with a married woman, it only ends up hurting everyone involved.

im sorry i know that isnt what you wanted to hear.

 

[beth-n-mike]

well, hungry adulterous woman ...
restraunt , middle of the afternoon, or the mall, but , wouldnt it be emotionally safer to hook up with the huge swinger and poly groups in the dc area?????

 

[exvitermini]

Stick with the swingers and partner swappers. If you specifically prey on the unsatisfied wife who is looking for an affair - I consider you to be the lowest form of human being on this planet. You might think you are doing her a favor by allowing her to sleep with the most amazing stud on the planet, but I suggest you search elsewhere for a means to bolster your weak ego than stealing a woman away from another man.

In another time or place, a man would slaughter you for even thinking of doing such a thing to the woman he loves.

FYI, a scumbag just like you did the same thing to my wife and I would rip his throat out if I could. We managed to overcome the problems in our marriage and learn how to meet each other's needs without looking elsewhere. If you selfishly do this - you have NO idea the pain you will be causing some other man. I would rather die than have to ever go through that again. I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on my worst enemy.

PS: And by the way, this piece of shit that stole my wife was from the DC area. Must be the pollution or the politicians.

 

[beth-n-mike]

wow , ex, you have a lot of pain from that, completely understandable, i would , hazard to guess, the guy , looking for the "adulterous wife" really 1) doesnt care
2) is attracted more to the forbidden 3) probobly has insecurities, and issues of his own relating to cimmitment, hence the married wife , of someone else is "safe"
since shes married...


most adulterous relationships, when exposed to normal , day to day living , dwindle and fade, its the danger, and the forbidden thats the appeal ...


as for the dc area, has to be the politics....

 

[exvitermini]

Yeah, haha, I suppose there is plenty of angst left over that I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life. Curiously (or perhaps not) my music listening tastes have trended from Blues and Classic Rock to modern angry rock like Disturbed and Linkin Park. Anger is ok, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, including yourself.

I don't hate you, readytogive, but I hate what you're trying to do. If there is any way I could convince you to not do it, the men whose wives would not be given that opportunity will be beyond grateful. I'm not ignorant, though, and I know the women can find it no matter what. But if you make it all too easy, then they have little reason to change their mind. I've talked to a lot of guys that have been through the same shit I've been and almost all of their wives cheated with a man that has done it before and loves the hunt. Their wives got dumped when the boat got too rocky, though. It causes nothing but pain.

 

[Titania1616]

you are completely right on your third point beth-n-mike! i never really thought about it, but thats very true!

 

[Tallfella]

Yeah, haha, I suppose there is plenty of angst left over that I'll have to deal with for the rest of my life. Curiously (or perhaps not) my music listening tastes have trended from Blues and Classic Rock to modern angry rock like Disturbed and Linkin Park. Anger is ok, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, including yourself.

I don't hate you, readytogive, but I hate what you're trying to do. If there is any way I could convince you to not do it, the men whose wives would not be given that opportunity will be beyond grateful. I'm not ignorant, though, and I know the women can find it no matter what. But if you make it all too easy, then they have little reason to change their mind. I've talked to a lot of guys that have been through the same shit I've been and almost all of their wives cheated with a man that has done it before and loves the hunt. Their wives got dumped when the boat got too rocky, though. It causes nothing but pain.

Sounds really painfu but do you wonder if she did it because she felt that being a "Decent Married woman " she couldn't let go with you yet with someone else making it illicit was exciting and she felt in for a penny . MY wife and i almost went down that road but we play a lot now for instance picking her up in a singles bar then having sex in the back of the car in a multi storey carpark .

 

[kcbigkid]

If you find the secret to finding out how to find the Hungry Adulteress please let me know. I am a nice guy, 42, fit and looking for a nice married lady in Kansas City. They are hard to find. To the guy who said he would beat the guy meeting his wife is all wrong.

She evidently is looking for something that she is not getting thru her relationship with him. I am sadly in a marriage that has not been sexual in over 4 years. Why do I stay! its for the Kids.

So I do know that there must also be some passion starved ladies who are in the same situation that I am in.

Whats so wrong with two consensual adults meeting for an afternoon of passion and fun. Should we all just act like prudes and hide from a bad situation or do we enjoy sharing a few hours of time together with somebody who wants the joy of feeling like a fufilled women. She can't feel the emotional fufillment from a vibrator.

 

[guest1977]

Kcbigkid, mayhaps the main issue for some folks is the betrayel of trust that spouses are supposed to have for one and other.

Instead of sitting down and talking things through, which could lead to either an open relationship or perhaps solving the problem eating away at their relationship, one of the partners decides to do things his/her way, and let the consequences be damned.

A relationship is built upon the following pillars. Trust, love, and respect. Communication is the foundation upon which these pillars rest. To seek one's fulfillment elsewhere, without resolving things with one's partner is to deny the relationship.

You would be showing that your partner cannot trust you. You would be showing that you do not love or respect them. You are showing that your relationship is built upon quicksand, because there is no communication. This is why an affair has the potential to kill off a marriage real quick. It essentially says, everything you believe you had is a lie and you were a fool to believe it.

Or to paraphrase Yoda: Anguish leads to anger. Anger leads to suffering. Suffering leads to hate. And hate is the Gateway to the Dark Side.

Now, if things are not resolved through talking with one and other, then it would be best to leave the relationship. Kids pick up on this. They can sense the fact that mommy and daddy hate each other's guts. They can sense the hostile atmosphere and they will blame themselves for it.

Better to leave the relationship (though not the children) and allow the kids to (maybe) end up with 4 happy parents, instead of two miserable ones.

 

[SexyChele]

If you find the secret to finding out how to find the Hungry Adulteress please let me know. I am a nice guy, 42, fit and looking for a nice married lady in Kansas City. They are hard to find. To the guy who said he would beat the guy meeting his wife is all wrong.

She evidently is looking for something that she is not getting thru her relationship with him. I am sadly in a marriage that has not been sexual in over 4 years. Why do I stay! its for the Kids.

So I do know that there must also be some passion starved ladies who are in the same situation that I am in.

Whats so wrong with two consensual adults meeting for an afternoon of passion and fun. Should we all just act like prudes and hide from a bad situation or do we enjoy sharing a few hours of time together with somebody who wants the joy of feeling like a fufilled women. She can't feel the emotional fufillment from a vibrator.

You know, passion in a marriage is a two way street. You accuse the man who was hurt that his wife cheated of possibly not meeting her needs. Perhaps your marriage is "passionless" because you have been neglecting your wife's needs. And talking, communicating are needs.

You say you stay for the kids?!?! Bullshit. You stay because it is "safe". You stay because if you leave, you might have nothing at all. You are simply afraid to take the leap, nothing more. By getting an afternoon fuck, you feel you get the best of all worlds: loving wife to cook and clean for you, children to come home to, whore to fuck on the side. Damn anyone who might possibly get hurt in your quest to satisfy your own needs.

Why not take the more difficult road? Why not try to work things out? And if that is not possible, leave. What's better for the kids? Two parents who are miserable together, witha father teaching them that marriage vows are not to be taken seriously? Or two people who come to the conclusion that what they once had is no longer there, and they would happier apart?

There is harm in extra-marital affairs. It is a slippery slope that one finds more and more difficult to hide. Rather than stating that exvitermini is "wrong", why not listen to what he is truly saying? But then, I know the married man who cheated with me wouldn't listen to reason, either. Think with what is between your ears, rather than with what is between your legs.

 

[ub6ibfine]

well i didnt read all of this

but to answer your question tha easiest way to get in good with married women is find the ones that are instead of really sexually
unstatisfied (all though thats always a +) find one that doesnt feel loved by her man an your in tha sack. thats how my x started cheating before i got up with her. her man would come home eat, watch tv, sleep. so when guys in other places said all the sweet nothings that her man didnt anymore cause it was all routine she started whispering sweet nothings back. to honor an obey dont mean shit to people anymore.

but yes, straying away from cheating is the best. the both of you are wrong just like the both of us were wrong. but i luv dat ho 2 death. her man found out about us an read a lotta e mails we sent back an forth *L* that dude wants 2 rip my throat out 2. but neva steps. i see him out an bout he dont throw hands or nada.
fuck that if i do decided 2 get married sumtime an dude fucks my woman both of them will have hell 2 pay. cause it takes 2 2 fuck.
an unless he rapes her when he got tha pussy she gave tha pussy up. so if you wanna fuck tha dude up tha ho deserves tha same cause the both did tha same thing.

~wUn~

 

[Native Alien]

i am about to step in it big time here be forewarned

as a child of divorce, i can honestly say that if you think that staying in a relationship that neither of you are happy in, is for the kids you are full of bull.

that tension and that unhappiness is felt every single day by those kids....

i was never so glad of anything in my entire life as the day my dad said that the divorce was final..

okay done now....

 

[ub6ibfine]

yes in cases that is very true, it is not good when the parents cant get along divorced an its not good when the parents cant get along married either.

 

[KingDingaling]

this thread was a waste of time and moral fiber.

 

[kcbigkid]

A waste for some but not for all....................