Having recently separated from my wife I am starting to live again and I want to explore my submissiveness which has been repressed for so long.
I dont know where to start though, can anyone help me??
Andy, do a SEARCH of this forum using the words "newbie" and "help" as parameters.
Additionally, do a google search using the words "BDSM munch [the name of the nearest town of any size to your home]" as parameters.
You need to do some reading and get a good grounding in what BDSM is and what you need from it before you can ask someone to give it to you, right?
There's an enormous amount we can take from and give to each other that falls under the BDSM unbrella. You have to know what you're looking for before you can recognize it as it comes your way.
Start with a SEARCH of this forum.
We have thread after thread after thread devoted to your question - but you have to put forth a little bit of effort, too - and go find them. Trust me when i say that they're everywhere and you'll have no trouble finding them if you but look.
Come back, however, if you look and still can't find anything.
SEARCH is found in the upper right hand corner of your screen.