How do I drive him wild in bed?
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I'm not sure if this is a serious question or not. Or is this supposed to start conversation?
A man's entire body is on erogenous zone! I mean, where do you want to start? Head and neck? Feet and legs? Hands and arms? Chest? Nipples? Ass? Back? Work your way in - or out?
There are thousands of ways to drive a man crazy in bed. And a blowjob is actually the very least of them.
But, maybe the guys can give more insight on this one.
A man's entire body is on erogenous zone! I mean, where do you want to start? Head and neck? Feet and legs? Hands and arms? Chest? Nipples? Ass? Back? Work your way in - or out?
There are thousands of ways to drive a man crazy in bed. And a blowjob is actually the very least of them.
But, maybe the guys can give more insight on this one.
Fly_On_Wall
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Blindfold him and just start touching.
like Chele said. Touch me most anywhere and your going to get some kind of reaction. but try to get where the nurve endings ro clusters are the most, his hands, ears, neck nipples.
like Chele said. Touch me most anywhere and your going to get some kind of reaction. but try to get where the nurve endings ro clusters are the most, his hands, ears, neck nipples.
MissTaken
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Ask him.
Some men love long, erotic bouts of teasing to enhance their experience. Other men like to be drawn to the point of orgasm and then, not climax, only to pursue more foreplay.
And some men don't.
Kiss him, tickle him, touch him everywhere! What they said !
Some men love long, erotic bouts of teasing to enhance their experience. Other men like to be drawn to the point of orgasm and then, not climax, only to pursue more foreplay.
And some men don't.
Kiss him, tickle him, touch him everywhere! What they said !
letsallgetlaid
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Christmas Presents
Have you ever gotten someone a gift that you wanted for some occasion?
Try this out he is (unless you've got him well trained to do what you actually want! in which case think back, way back to when you first started) doing to you what he wants done. Does he spend a seemingly longer than normal time on your feet, try doing that to him...or if he continually touches the backs of your knees (these are just random examples btw) then stroke the back of his knees. Most time when people don't know how to say what they want they are showing it. If he just ignores most of your body then I'd agree, blindfold him and touch him. Get some things like ice, a rose (it really feels nice), something rough and something silky get a bunch of items. Touch him on different part of his body, where he reacts more and more easily identifies the item he's more sensitive.
Or you can just ask.....
Have you ever gotten someone a gift that you wanted for some occasion?
Try this out he is (unless you've got him well trained to do what you actually want! in which case think back, way back to when you first started) doing to you what he wants done. Does he spend a seemingly longer than normal time on your feet, try doing that to him...or if he continually touches the backs of your knees (these are just random examples btw) then stroke the back of his knees. Most time when people don't know how to say what they want they are showing it. If he just ignores most of your body then I'd agree, blindfold him and touch him. Get some things like ice, a rose (it really feels nice), something rough and something silky get a bunch of items. Touch him on different part of his body, where he reacts more and more easily identifies the item he's more sensitive.
Or you can just ask.....
Alina:
I would suggest that you just try different things and see how he reacts. Granted, he has to be open to this kind of experimentation..... He may just not know what he really likes...maybe no one has taken the time to help him find out. Tell him to just lay there and to relax and stroke him softly all over his body....use different pressures and see how he reacts to them. If he reacts postively to something, file that idea away and come back to it in 10 or 15 minutes or whatever and do it again. The idea of using different textured objects is also very good !! Use your imagination...the brain is the most erogenous organ that you have.
Just one guys humble opinion
Druce
I would suggest that you just try different things and see how he reacts. Granted, he has to be open to this kind of experimentation..... He may just not know what he really likes...maybe no one has taken the time to help him find out. Tell him to just lay there and to relax and stroke him softly all over his body....use different pressures and see how he reacts to them. If he reacts postively to something, file that idea away and come back to it in 10 or 15 minutes or whatever and do it again. The idea of using different textured objects is also very good !! Use your imagination...the brain is the most erogenous organ that you have.
Just one guys humble opinion
Druce
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Re: mmmm
That will definitely turn on most guys - even though they probably do not know that (yet ?).
From my experience there is no "foolproof" method of turning a man on (obviously, I am only speaking from my own experience). Some things that work for me (obviously depending on my mood) are:
1. The spot described above
2. A very nice strptease with me being unable to touch her
3. Erotic/sensual E-Mails or SMS at work as a form of foreplay
4. Her teasing me - bringing me close to orgasm but not actually making me cum.
5. Her masturbating in front of me
The possibilities are almost endless. Contray to popular belief good sex starts in the mind - even for guys So try to find out what his desires are and tease him - tease his mind first and then his body ;-)
/Dirk
opism said:
That will definitely turn on most guys - even though they probably do not know that (yet ?).
From my experience there is no "foolproof" method of turning a man on (obviously, I am only speaking from my own experience). Some things that work for me (obviously depending on my mood) are:
1. The spot described above
2. A very nice strptease with me being unable to touch her
3. Erotic/sensual E-Mails or SMS at work as a form of foreplay
4. Her teasing me - bringing me close to orgasm but not actually making me cum.
5. Her masturbating in front of me
The possibilities are almost endless. Contray to popular belief good sex starts in the mind - even for guys
So try to find out what his desires are and tease him - tease his mind first and then his body ;-)/Dirk
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Well... My man loves it when I surprise him with something new... like taking him by the hand and leading him to bed room where I undress him... and then running a warm bubble bath in a candle lit bathroom.... when I join him, of course... (there can be some steps inbetween but he really loves it when i undress him and caress his body)... and for some reason he loves playing in the water... ( with me of course!!)
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I asked my husband this question once.
He said that a woman shouldn't just lay there. Any effort will drive him nuts.
I pointed out that I don't just lay there.
He replied that I drove him nuts in bed.
I asked him to be more specific about what he liked.
He said that he loves to hear the noises I make.
He said that a woman shouldn't just lay there. Any effort will drive him nuts.
I pointed out that I don't just lay there.
He replied that I drove him nuts in bed.
I asked him to be more specific about what he liked.
He said that he loves to hear the noises I make.
germangent
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Yes, I forgot that .. At least for me, the noises, moans and groans and the occasional dirty word are an absolute turn-on
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watching is a turn on
you could try letting him 'catch' you whilst masturbating. It happened to me with my girlfriend once...and it drove me crazy.
once he's caught you dont let him touch you for a while...make him wait for his fun!
you could try letting him 'catch' you whilst masturbating. It happened to me with my girlfriend once...and it drove me crazy.
once he's caught you dont let him touch you for a while...make him wait for his fun!
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20% vs 80%
It's only 20% about technique. (Great ideas here, especially about the spot between the scrotum and the anus. You get the hidden base of the penis there!)
It's 80% spiritual/emotional/relationship stuff that turns a guy on. Yes, a guy. Most important - make it clear that you want him. Next, be your true and whole self, bringing all the wonderful parts of you - playful, seductive, teasing, loving, silly, aggressive, wonton, sensual, etc. Watch what happens!
YB
It's only 20% about technique. (Great ideas here, especially about the spot between the scrotum and the anus. You get the hidden base of the penis there!)
It's 80% spiritual/emotional/relationship stuff that turns a guy on. Yes, a guy. Most important - make it clear that you want him. Next, be your true and whole self, bringing all the wonderful parts of you - playful, seductive, teasing, loving, silly, aggressive, wonton, sensual, etc. Watch what happens!
YB
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react
I have heard only agreeing things as to what Yogi says. It doesn't matter what I do in bed as long as I'm actively having fun. Being in control even when you aren't on top. Yea guys really seem to enjoy a woman who's into sex and in and of itself is plenty to turn my guy on at least. And I'd guess if you ask around you'd find a lot of the same.
I have heard only agreeing things as to what Yogi says. It doesn't matter what I do in bed as long as I'm actively having fun. Being in control even when you aren't on top. Yea guys really seem to enjoy a woman who's into sex and in and of itself is plenty to turn my guy on at least. And I'd guess if you ask around you'd find a lot of the same.
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Do exactly everything that NekkidHickGrl does...She keeps my prick hard all the time...
I also love for a woman to swallow my cum--every drop..
I love to be rimmed,too..
Don't forget the "taint" meat. That's the spot between my balls and my asshole..Taint ass and taint balls and I love to be licked there...
I also love for a woman to swallow my cum--every drop..
I love to be rimmed,too..
Don't forget the "taint" meat. That's the spot between my balls and my asshole..Taint ass and taint balls and I love to be licked there...
Woot
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i guess a lot of guys like that spot i talked about... it rocks...a good lick there will go wonders.... another one is sucking VERY LIGHTLY (careful, you can hurt him this way) taking a ball into your mouth and sucking on it. And i for one will second the noises... i love a good moan or grunt...it is the difference of not cumming at al durring sex and cumming 2 or 3 times (lucky me eh? one of those what... 3 % of male that can have mutiple orgaisms... mmm)
opism
Woot!
i guess a lot of guys like that spot i talked about... it rocks...a good lick there will go wonders.... another one is sucking VERY LIGHTLY (careful, you can hurt him this way) taking a ball into your mouth and sucking on it. And i for one will second the noises... i love a good moan or grunt...it is the difference of not cumming at al durring sex and cumming 2 or 3 times (lucky me eh? one of those what... 3 % of male that can have mutiple orgaisms... mmm)
opism
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That spot is technically called the perinium, or the perinial area. If you press on it when a man is about to come, it will extend orgasm for a few brief moments.
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Here's some suggestions for you
I believe that you have an excellent chance of finding many new ideas to please your man.
This forum has lots of good suggestions to consider, and I would also recommend the Kama Sutra Forum at Cosmopolitan.com
This is a forum primarily made up of women who discuss Sexuality from A to Z.
The current Message Board has a few of my personal favorites.....
Give them a look and let us know if those are good ones for you!
Best Wishes,
The_Falcon
I believe that you have an excellent chance of finding many new ideas to please your man.
This forum has lots of good suggestions to consider, and I would also recommend the Kama Sutra Forum at Cosmopolitan.com
This is a forum primarily made up of women who discuss Sexuality from A to Z.
The current Message Board has a few of my personal favorites.....
Give them a look and let us know if those are good ones for you!
Best Wishes,
The_Falcon
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Several things that really turn me on are:
1: Verbal feed back (moans, groans, talking dirty...)
2: Love when my girl palys with her tits or rubs her clit during sex
3. Playing my balls nothing like a little rubbing & "light" squeeze
1: Verbal feed back (moans, groans, talking dirty...)
2: Love when my girl palys with her tits or rubs her clit during sex
3. Playing my balls nothing like a little rubbing & "light" squeeze
How do I drive him wild in bed
I can only speak personally,
For me the most erotic part of the female anatomy is
the lips. Both aurally (when you whisper ala Marilyn Monroe
what you about to do to me with them) and tactily (when you
do that.)
Nothing gets me going more than and hot sensual kiss, or
to watch while you suck my fingers or toes.
Most of us guys also love lingerie. The more visually stimulating
the better. We could care less about how soft and silky it
is, that's for you. For us, a sexy (read slutty) pair of fishnet
thigh highs with heels and a strand of pearls...OOOO LA LA!
Does it every time.
I can only speak personally,
For me the most erotic part of the female anatomy is
the lips. Both aurally (when you whisper ala Marilyn Monroe
what you about to do to me with them) and tactily (when you
do that.)
Nothing gets me going more than and hot sensual kiss, or
to watch while you suck my fingers or toes.
Most of us guys also love lingerie. The more visually stimulating
the better. We could care less about how soft and silky it
is, that's for you. For us, a sexy (read slutty) pair of fishnet
thigh highs with heels and a strand of pearls...OOOO LA LA!
Does it every time.
lovetoread
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Re: How do I drive him wild in bed
So basically you're saying that walking into a room in a pair of heels,thigh highs, and a smile, while saying do me big boy is the way to go?
Sounds like a plan to try out.....
RacerX said:
So basically you're saying that walking into a room in a pair of heels,thigh highs, and a smile, while saying do me big boy is the way to go?
Sounds like a plan to try out.....
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cellis said:
I dont think you would be standing there for very long.....
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