I saw a thread asking how doms can identify bi-curious straight guys, and thought about the opposite. How do closeted bi-curious guys make themselves attractive, approachable and available to gay men, or straight men seeking a blowjob, without being too obvious or risking exposing their secret....that they want to suck cock? I’d love to hear your suggestions.
How do bi-curious closeted men make themselves approachable
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Eye contact, a glance at the cock/crotch, then eye contact again while slightly licking your lips. It feels bold at first but goes completely unnoticed by straight guys. This usually works best in an environment that’s cruisy, but wont get by those in the know.
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I'm straight older guy., and have only been with one gay and about 20 straight/married guys. First, know where you can go for the sex. Straight guys usually have to deal with wives and families. Usually we go to each others house when we know family is away. Second, I think many older guys either have already been with another guy, or want to. So just be friendly, go out for coffee, and if goes well, suggest you go to your house and watch a little porn. He'll well understand.
Sounds easy enough,
So does anyone on here want to go for coffee or go have a drink, or maybe watch some porn with me........lol
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What about writing some sissy style stories on Literotica, and then hoping some dominant-inclined, curious males read them and get in touch?
That doesn’t work! Check out my bi submissive stories on Literotica... Everyone wants it easy. Nobody wants to put any effort into it.
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Originally Posted by LanaBehave View Post
What about writing some sissy style stories on Literotica, and then hoping some dominant-inclined, curious males read them and get in touch?
I know. I was playing around a little with the topic, which is more about hinting or signaling in public about our...desires and tendencies. But it sort of worked, I got at least four separate private messages here, with continuing conversations ongoing with some of them!
What about writing some sissy style stories on Literotica, and then hoping some dominant-inclined, curious males read them and get in touch?
I know. I was playing around a little with the topic, which is more about hinting or signaling in public about our...desires and tendencies. But it sort of worked, I got at least four separate private messages here, with continuing conversations ongoing with some of them!
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Love your stories, Tcs. Our fantasies are similar. Thanks for writing and posting them.
Thanks for the comment. I like sissies, but am not one. I'm masculine and am primarily attracted to masculine men. I have written some stories on Literotica and would love to have your input and feedback.
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Looking for cocks to suck in Dallas Texas.
Male 60 in Dallas Texas. I am bottom looking for local cocks to suck, anal play? Single, have apartment for fun in East Dallas near Eastfield College. I like all ages.
Male 60 in Dallas Texas. I am bottom looking for local cocks to suck, anal play? Single, have apartment for fun in East Dallas near Eastfield College. I like all ages.
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I like your stories, especially the Weekend Home set, because they seem a bit more realistic than the others. You're a fairly new contributor, it will be interesting to watch your ideas continue to develop.
HomerSimpson123
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I’m looking forward to more, too.
The ones where the narrator is older really speak to me.
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Grindr or similar apps seem to be the way. Or, if you're lucky enough to live in one, going to a bathhouse.
Just ASK!!!
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Sexual Pleasures are knocking at your door....
I would love to go with you for coffee anytime Where are you located?
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Lets skip the porn have a beer and blow each thats enough to get me hard.
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Where shall we meet?
UnderMyKilt
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It depends on the circumstances and venue, but sometimes I get "all tarted up". That said, I've been bi for all of my adult life and the struggle over being "out" to few and not to most is real. It's only recently, like in the last few years, that I've become bold enough to "dress like I feel" when...for lack of a better word, "cruising", or maybe make that "looking".
I guess the look is, "60 year old twink"...LOL. I don't know. I still feel like a rutting teen.
I have some articles of clothing...OK, I admit it, it's a whole wardrobe, that I don't generally wear around most of my friends and family. You know, pants, leggings and shorts that are little "trendier" and a little tighter. Shirts and tanks made out of fabrics, like satin, silk, rayon. Colors that don't really go with my "public persona" like muted shades of mint, lavender, turquoise maybe even a little pink.
....and, there's the socks. Colorful, colorful, socks that kind of say, "Hey, look at me. I want to be noticed." Some have innocent art and symbols, some have double entendres that might have a sexual connotation to some but not others, some are just OUT.
Case in point. Just a week ago I took a four day road trip a week ago without my wife. She saw what I was packing (including sex, toys, lingerie....), and saw what I was wearing the morning I left. Her lingering kiss on my lips and squeeze of my panty clad butt cheeks was sincere as I was leaving, as was her exclamation of, "Have a good time Dear," and "stay safe".
....and I DID!!
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I'm into that. Australia?
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Or both. I just got back from a twice a year trip to Colorado through Las Vegas (coming and going), that included hooking up with someone I met on Squirt on one leg and a trip to Entourage on the return.
The previous time, and though I had prospective "dance partners" I met online, I was literally picked up by a younger guy in an elevator when returning from the pool and spa. (See previous post about getting "tarted up"...LOL)
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Licking my own eyebrows often seems to help
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The trick is getting them back on straight afterwards...
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