How Did You Meet Your Current Partner/s?

[NycCouple]

In the army, I was her C.O.. Quite inappropriate

 

[catalina_francisco]

In the army, I was her C.O.. Quite inappropriate

LOL, but those are the best kinds of inappropriate!!

Catalina

 

[NycCouple]

LOL, but those are the best kinds of inappropriate!!

Indeed. I'm sure the general would be happy to know she was tied to his armchair quite often

 

[M'lady&kitten]

We met here on lit last July. Met him IRL for the first time in August. I collared him at Christmas and he moved up here in January. It has been wonderful!

 

[SubmissiveDove5]

We met through E-Harmony in December of 2003. So far, we have only chatted online and over the phone, but we plan to meet in person soon.

 

[Etoile]

We met through E-Harmony in December of 2003. So far, we have only chatted online and over the phone, but we plan to meet in person soon.

Oh, cool. I have seen ads on tv for eHarmony. I think my gf and I filled out their profile a while back to see if we were considered compatible. We weren't, so I kind of thought eHarmony was a crock, but maybe it's gotten better if people are actually finding matches through it.

 

[Smoothie64]

I met my current girlfriend on a talker. We cyber chatted for months, then on february 1st of this year I moved in with her.
She is the most wonderful woman that I've ever met and I proudly wear her collar

 

[tn_greeneyez]

On excite messenger...........but..........not for long online. My series of stories "Unexpected Journey" set out where we've gone so far.

 

[shy slave]

He and i met on alt.

 

[abbey_kyle]

Great thread.

She and I met during a night out with numerous people--we had mutual friends. I didn't give her another thought until she showed up at my door three weeks later. We had great conversations over Pad Thai (still do) and shared Domme stories, (I switch, occassionally). Gradually, the relationship started to evolve into something more than friends and we discussed adding her husband. The night we three were all together for the first time, I just naturally slipped into sub role. We never discussed it...I just bowed down to her, then him and everything just fell into place.

I have been sub to them both ever since, nine months ago, and we move in together in two weeks. I am disgustingly happy. Which I never thought would happen if I ever allowed anyone to take care of me. Yet, it is amazing how much I want to please them both.

 

[catalina_francisco]

bump

 

[wickedwanda]

My cousin brought him home from school. I was 10 and fell in love instantly.

Of course, he didn't even notice me for about five years.

We've been married for 33 years. He says it's the best 20 years of his life. (LOL).

 

[catalina_francisco]

My cousin brought him home from school. I was 10 and fell in love instantly.

Of course, he didn't even notice me for about five years.

We've been married for 33 years. He says it's the best 20 years of his life. (LOL).

This is so sweet...thanks for sharing it with us.

Catalina

 

[FernandoRui]

How did I meet my current

Greetings All

First allow me to introduce myself, I am Fernando Rui Avelar, from Portugal and retired from the US. Navy. That is a matter of fact how my currnet, now my wife as well as slave and I meet. She was my exwife's friend, seems they were having a bit of fun while I was overseas, when I got home and found out I had her move in with us. Ex didn't liek the fact that she was more than willing to serve and kneel when ever I called. Long sotry short exwife and I fell out after I found out about a few other things she had done. I got the house, kids and the wife/slave.

 

[serijules]

I answered Party, although I guess to be fair we did meet on the internet...sorta.

She is a part of a circle of friends that I get together with at least twice a year for a party, and chat with often. However, she never came to the channel, so although I knew of her and she was mentioned so often I FELT like I knew her, we only talked a few times before I met her at a party. It was an instant connection that took me YEARS and quite a few intense scenes at parties, tons of emails and talks, etc...to realize was more than just a friendship, but actually a deep d/s desire on both of our parts. It took me a couple of partners to realize I was meant to be hers and realize that she WANTED me as hers, but she was patient and it was more than worth the wait We have just started our journey together as Domme and sub, but the relationship has been building for quite some time and to be honest, I wouldn't have had it any other way.

 

[bound]

We met playing an MMORPG, I was his guild master funnily enough.

 

[AvaAdore]

I met Him here on Lit in October 2002, we were just friends until the middle of last year when my circumstances changed and we became close.....6 months later I moved to Australia to live with Him, I've been here 2 1/2 months and never been happier

does he punish you by making you root for australian teams when they are up against new zealand?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Bump....

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

We differed over a story, I e-mailed her, we started talking online and via phone, I moved in with her, she is my slave, and we will marry sometime this fall or winter.

 

[h_i_s]

Found each others profiles on June 25th 2004 at collarme.com (meaning on the same day, He found mine just minutes prior to my having found His and we both sent each other emails not knowing that the other already had sent an email).

We met IRL at His home (in the next state over, about 50 miles northwest of my home ... an hours drive away) on June 26th 2004.

By July 4th 2004, i was collared as His.

We set up apartment together in my home town on February 3rd 2005.

We were married on April 25th 2005 ( happy one month annniversary to us .. today. )

 

[curiousjen]

I met Owen on our first day at university as he lived on my corridor in our halls of residence, a few doors down from me. He was the first person who spoke to me and I felt an instant connection that soon became lust and infatuation. It was kinda funny because I had just come out of a bad relationship (not abusive or anything just too many drugs and headfuckery) and had sworn off men and relationships, at least whilst i was at university. I was going to study hard and dedicate myself to academia. I was going to write a novel. I hated men.

Then Bam! I talk to Owen for ten minutes and forgot all about that nonsense. My parents were with me for the first conversation (they helped me move in) and they said they saw me fall for him right then and there. They both left with huge smirks on their faces, knowing that their daughter was happy (she really was). Well that conversation led to more conversations and then, exactly a week later in an uncharacteristically forward move I got drunk and kissed him. He tasted of marmite and I wrinkled my nose up and made a vomiting noise. Then kissed him again. So I knew it was going to be serious. (I loathe marmite)

From that moment on we were together, and that was nearly five years ago now. In terms of D/s we have only been consciously so for a few months although, as I've said before, when I scrutinise our relationship I realised that I have always submitted to Owen, not in every decision or anything, but I have always served him, which to me is what its all about. I am only starting to understand and put into words the nature of my submission, and his dominance, but lit is helping a lot The SM stuff is new to us though, although I have fantasied about violent sex since I was a child, I just didn't know that it was OK to actually do it! Lit is being very helpful in that respect too. We're taking it slow in the SM department. But what we've done I love

In yet another uncharacteristically forward move (what can I say? the man inspires confidence) I proposed to Owen six months ago. We were married on April the 9th this year. It was a happy day for all our friends and family as well as us! I am looking forward to our golden anniversary which will perhaps be celebrated with a golden shower

 

[Marquis]

Sub 1: I was pulling out of a parking lot in the nightlife district around here and she was walking to her car. I struck up a conversation and gave her my phone number. She called me a few days later and I took her out to dinner. By the third date, I knew I'd be seeing her for a while.

Sub 2: The only unsolicited message from a female sub I've ever received on Collarme was from a confident and gorgeous intellectual from Hawaii named Killishandra. The distance factor made me skeptical at first, but as she always says, "where there is a will, there is a way."

 

[Seduce]

I met my hubby in a chatroom and after about a month got in a bus and went 1500 km north to meet him in live (I dont think he was really expecting me to do that for he was quite surprised to see me on his doorsteps).

Two months later I sold my bussiness, said goodbye to my friends and family and went to Germany to stay........ for us Europeans the distance was quite remarkable.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Two months later I sold my bussiness, said goodbye to my friends and family and went to Germany to stay........ for us Europeans the distance was quite remarkable.

LOL, so I am trying to get used to!! After coming from Oz and being someone who would drive between 500-1000kms in a day just for leisure and pic taking, it is quite hard to get used to people thinking if you live an hour away you may as well be at the end of the earth.

Catalina

 

[rosco rathbone]

We've been together ever since ontogeny recapitulated phylogeny in the womb and my right fetus-flipper turned into a right hand.